And now we have our answers!!!
Love can be such a messy thing!
"She felt very empowered after [rehab]. She did well for a few months. But then she hung out with him again. Whenever they're not talking, he has to do something to get her attention, like posting [a photo of her at the Vanity Fair Oscars party], captioned 'most elegant princess.' He reaches out, then says he's going to come see her and she's like, 'Okay.' It's a pattern on his part. The sad part is, she always goes back to him."
Ugh! That sounds so destructive! And it is! The source further revealed that it’s putting a strain on Selenita’s friendships, like the one with Taylor Swift:
"I believe Taylor's gotten fed up with it. [Swift and Gomez] still talk, but she doesn't want to hear about it anymore… [Her family] feel like they've done all they could for her, and there's nothing else to do. At this point, she has to figure it out on her own."
What a tough situation to be in, but a good rule of thumb is that if everyone you love disagrees with your relationship, then maybe it’s worth a second look.
As for how The Biebs keeps on getting his girl, an industry insider revealed:
“He's very charming. I'm not sure what's going on with him right now, but he's very smart, and used to be a very fun and funny kid."
Ultimately it would be great if these two could just figure things out and get back to being healthily in lurve!
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