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We Will Probably Regret Posting This, But….

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Here we go!

Being really REALLY honest!

Putting this out there!

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41 comments to “We Will Probably Regret Posting This, But….”

  1. Be-Atch says – reply to this


    F. A T S O !!!!!

  2. Raquel Giron says – reply to this


    Omg YAASSSS!!! I can totally relate, been there.You deserve to be happy I hope love knocks on your door soon💖🙌 #Goodvibes

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    Re: Be-Atch – Oh yeah, he's fuckin' huge. I think I just sprained my eyes rolling them at your idiocy.

  4. Danielle says – reply to this


    I loved this! So great to see you honest in front of so many people. As a blogger, I KNOW how hard it is to admit certain things or make yourself out to be maybe not as "perfect" as you seem. BUT I LOVED THIS AND 100% BELIEVE IN MANIFESTING YOUR DREAMS. I am a private yoga instructor and am actually doing a Vision Board workshop here in L.A. at the end of this month. I would for you to come and take part in creating a vision board…I did it 3 years ago and it all pretty much came true. :) Feel free to check out more info. here on my website:

    Would love to have you! Feel free to e-mail me @ info@cucciosomatology.com if you would like to come or if you just want to be in touch. :)


  5. Mary! says – reply to this


    Donno if you are looking for advice, but finding meaningful relationships take work. And if you prioritize other things before finding a relationship, it's probably not going to just plop into your lap. I bet if you work as hard finding someone as you worked to build this website or live a healthy lifestyle, your work will pay off. Admitting you want it is a great first step. Now you have to WORK at it.

  6. Jillian says – reply to this


    You are still young. You will get to have it eventually. And it always happens once a person decides they are actually happy free and single, then all of a sudden Mr. Right shows up. In the mean time look on the bright side. You dont have to deal with normal relationship stuff. Having to go to work/an event if you are in a fight with your partner and miserable, not having to worry your person is going to screw you over etc. lol

  7. Mary! says – reply to this


    Re: Be-Atch – one of these days, everyone will realize internet bullying is pointless and draining. Hopefully you'll get to that point. Until then… Ya just need to reevaluate your life choices a bit.

    Don't read Perez if you're gonna be a jerk. There are literally MILLIONS of other sites you could go on. MILLIONS.

  8. Mo says – reply to this


    nice to see this side of you! even your voice sounds different, it sounds real and honest. good luck!

  9. John says – reply to this


    You're ABSOLUTELY right.

    You shouldn't have made this video. You can get a tummy tuck, gastric bypass, test tube a fat ugly baby. But, you have never addressed the truth.

    You are a terrible fucking person. You need to truly admit it, own it, and make amends.

  10. stan says – reply to this


    Good luck

  11. Hope says – reply to this


    I loved this post! I've been following your blog for years, and this video felt like a personal conversation. You DO deserve love, and there's absolutely nothing wrong in feeling that your life could still be enhanced, even with all of the blessings you currently have. It's hard to bring new people into your close circle, and even harder to find people that are worthy and available for a romantic relationship. You're right in saying that you're incredible at getting shit done when you set your mind to it. You're lifestyle transformation was (and is) no simple feat! Just keep being you and putting good karma out into the world. The stars will align.

  12. 12

    stopped the vid at 39 seconds when he professed it was about men dating love and relationships. nobody cares. especially not your particular brand of love (which is often bitter) dating (have you dated? we havent seen it so why shsould we care?), love (back to the bitter bit… how many vids we get of him loving lady gaga or someone else only to find another that hes bitter) and relationships (well just scroll up).

  13. Sandi says – reply to this


    Perez, you've grown so much as a person. Your reporting has become fun and engaging, not cruel and salacious. People can change. People can grow. You've proven that. Your turn for love will come. Keep putting that positive energy out there and PLEASE more pics of Junior. I love your boy :)

  14. 14

    pondering love while posting about a friends mental breakdown? is this guy for real?

  15. 15

    Well the volume was too low for me to hear most of it, but gather from the comments that you are looking for a long term relationship. If so I wish you the best.

  16. 16

    First of all take a chill pill. Stop trying to do everything. Love will come.

  17. Rebecca says – reply to this


    I wish you the very best. You see how much wonderful goodness came into your life when you changed from negative to positive on this website? That's the key to everything. Just stay positive. Keep spreading love, and love will come back to you. However…

    You have to make room in your life for it, for another person. You can't expect to have a giving partner if you don't have the time to devote to him that a relationship deserves. So while you are waiting for this to transpire, you may want to work on that. In fact,it may not happen *until* you have made space for a partner in your life. Good luck!

  18. Lisa says – reply to this


    you're cute and the video is cute…but sorry I'm female :)

  19. sarah says – reply to this


    Perez, it takes an awesome man to put yourself out there like you have in this video and so many other ways. Way to surrender to the moment and kudos to you for having the balls to be you. You are manifesting something so great! It is unfathomable! xoxoxo

  20. lori says – reply to this


    Perez I've never commented anywhere before but watching this made me actually feel proud of you. I've seen you change so much over these last few years and everyone deserves that special someone to share their accomplishments as well as failures with. Ignore these jealous people and the right man will come along. Congratulations for all you've accomplished and may 2015 be your year for love

  21. m says – reply to this


    read Black Belt Night - Blood Sky Dawning amazon . com

  22. MTK says – reply to this


    I hope you find everything you want and more in 2015!

  23. @v@ says – reply to this


    The word manifest is somewhere up there with conjure somehow. A butterfly can't be caught unless it sits still long enough. The only times I had good success at the love game happened when I joined or regularly attended something, like an adult baseball and volleyball league. I went from zero to not being able to decide who. When you repeatedly attend the same place with the same people, the seed gets a chance to maybe plant and start to grow. You can get to know someone and appreciate them without dating pressure and find one day that they're on your mind, and that you're on theirs. Are you a regular who actually knows the regulars at a local watering hole? Perhaps like minded would be at media symposiums or meet ups. The same gym can be good. Perhaps an LGBT group or board. Church groups have a lot of gays. Ask about them. Their lives. Them. You're a tough act to follow. It's got to be two ways. Then you have to be available and make room and allow them into and share your life. If you flit too much and don't commit once you have someone, they'll go where they'll get more 9 to 5 lifestyle type attention.

  24. Spence says – reply to this


    Neediness is not attractive. And is this really the "real" you, or the latest version of "you" that you think people want to see. You are a narcissist and egomaniac. Seriously… why even post this video to a bunch of strangers on the internet? This is the main message I got from this video: not love, but ME.

  25. @v@ says – reply to this


    If you sit still long enough somewhere, someone is going to scoop you up.

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    Go Perez!

  27. Vicky says – reply to this


    Re: John – Why bother being so hateful?

  28. Mark says – reply to this


    Why don't you meet a man with a really complicated, double barrelled, foreign second naming like Cheryl Cole did?

  29. claudia says – reply to this


    you seem to be a decnt man by now, don't you wish your kid could meet his mum? I know being a gay parent it's so cool, but would you have like to juts grow up without your mum?

  30. bahaha! says – reply to this


    ALL of us, are on our own path and self-awareness and being honest with ourselves is a huge step towards growing and developing as people. The truth of the matter is as soon as I stopped worrying about a man, one was dropped into my life. Insulting Perez for wanting to be a better person and wanting to be happy is just wrong… insulting a baby is just plain disgusting. It takes zero courage to sit behind a computer and bash people, but what alot of you don't seem to understand is that manifesting your success and asking the universe for what you want are very big themes within the community of those trying to ascend to a higher spiritual awareness. I hope you get whatever makes you happy, Perez. Let the one of us who isn't perfect fire the next shot. I'm sure some douche will, but that's because they have nothing better to do.

  31. bahaha! says – reply to this


    Re: bahaha! – *IS* perfect…

  32. carly says – reply to this


    Admitting you are a leech / thief, uglier on the inside than the pig-faced outside would've been a nice thing.

    Instead, your, "I'm surrounded by YES MEN (most on my payroll) so no one stopped me from making this delusional, self-absorbed, tone-deaf video about wanting a man" is pathetic and laughable. Especially since it comes from such a desperate bully / loser.

    Lemme break it down. Perez, you are scum who got lucky by getting out front of the gossip blogging juggernaut. Kudos to you for that. But you are now stale and stagnant. You steal, repackage gossip and pay people to be your friends.

    But the one thing even your money can't buy? A man willing to a) kiss a hideous looking loser, b) stand by your creepy work and c) ignore your hideous inside.

    Game over Perez. You finally jumped the shark and now it's time for you to go away. And your poor, poor kid is screwed!

  33. 33

    My mum in law recently got Cadillac CTS Wagon by working part time off of a macbook… you can try this out….

  34. Laura says – reply to this


    Perez, you're so honest, it's refreshing. I'm sure that vid took a lot of kahunas but you did it!! It's things like that you do that are why I regularly follow your blog. I like people who are real, are okay with being vulnerable and show that to the world. You do that. I do believe in manifesting and the universe, etc. But in the relationship department, in my experience, it's when we're not looking that hard or not looking at all that an amazing person just appears. That just happened with me. I hope you find love soon, however it comes :-) Have a great day!! xoxo

  35. Personally...... says – reply to this


    "I have loved many but I've always loved alone." You want the perfect awesome man to love you for your fabulous self, Perez. Try this. If you couldn't have 'perfect', what would you do without? Try looking at men from above the waist for starters. Eliminate your sexual cravings and concentrate on discovering his mind. You don't 'have to' show who you are or what you have. If he's interested, he'll discover the best you have to offer. By-the-way, Perez. Lose the "We". That attitude is very intimidating, especially if you want a mutual long-lasting relationship, plus it's very 'queeny'.

  36. jacie says – reply to this


    Congrats to you for sharing how you feel. Your honesty is refreshing. I too, am looking for true love to complement my already great life. I hope we both find it! Continue true to you.!!

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    It's never going to happen. You're far too ugly on the inside.

  38. Natasha says – reply to this


    I couldn't agree with you more. We all need someone, that special someone in our lives. I relate to everything you shared and feel contorted by the fact that I am not alone in the struggle to find the "one." I get down and sad sometimes, but my hope and faith still breaths…I'll say a prayer for all of us. Good luck!

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  40. ScottInSFBay says – reply to this


    What a sweet vlog! I'm sure you'll find someone with substance but, as you said, it's the one thing in life you can't make happen. It has to happen naturally but you travel a lot and meet a lot of interesting people, so the odds are pretty good. The key in the gay world is meeting someone real, kind and down-to-earth - it almost seems impossible. You definitely have your life together and I hope you meet someone special that you and your adorable son will love forever!

  41. ScottInSFBay says – reply to this


    Re: Scotty – Wow. Why on earth would you take the time go onto a website to be so unkind? You're entitled to your feelings but spreading negativity is never good. Would you say something like directly to someone or is it easier from behind your keyboard?