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This one's for the ladies!
Serena Wiliams has been hurt. The tennis pro has just written an impassioned entry on her official website about men, dating and relationships.
She says:
"You just start dating a guy. He likes you, you like him. You guys want to spend every second together. When you are not with him you are talking to him on the phone. You have deep feelings for him. The feelings keep developing. They keep growing. You begin to think this could be it. You begin to think I really think this is it for me….. You love being together. You can't stand being without each other. You start to feel like you have never felt before, and you do things for him you have never done before. He tells you he doesn’t want to be with you and only you. He tells you he adores you. He tells you u guys were meant for each other. You care for him. You are falling for him. You take things slow. You don't want to make any mistakes. You go slower with him than you have ever done before. You don't rush to introduce him to your friends, let alone anyone else. You want it to be right. You are feeling this and you feel this could mean something. He communicates with you. He thanks God you are in his life. You guys have fun together. You laugh together. He talks about being and becoming serious with you. He talks about his desire to love you one day. He talks about he can't imagine not being with you. You think he's falling in love with you. But you can't be 100% sure. You guys have not said that sacred 4 letter word that starts with an "L". But you feel it deep deep in you. Deeper than you have in a long time.
You ask him "are we moving too fast"? He replies "We are just following our hearts." You start to trust him. Something you have not done since your first heart break. How long ago was that? You wonder. Trust is something you vowed you would never do again. But slowly your heart comes out of its steel enclosure. You feel like you can trust him. You feel as if everything you went though was for a reason. And the reason was to meet him. Days turns into weeks. And he tells you about the connection you guys have in each others hearts.
Weeks turns into months and you slowly start to wean the other guys in your life out. And than it happens. No not the "L" word. But what you have been most afraid of. What deep in your heart you have been afraid to confront. What you always suspected would happen one day sooner or later. HE STOPS CALLING. You panic. But you try to stay calm. He did this before when you first started talking, but u tried to forget it. You knew u should have not forgotten. But u tried to ignore it. He disappears for a week with no phone call. No answer to yours no nothing. Finally you hear from him. You want to rage you want to scream you want to cry. But you can't help you heart from feeling a tad bit happy."
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"As you begin to ask him what happened he stops you. He says "I need space". You cringe at these words. This is the very reason you begin to think why your heart was in that steel enclosure. The reason you don't put your emotions your feelings, your heart into it. Because one day it always turns in to this day. But you are already too far out you are at the point of no return, you can't come back. You can't believe, although a piece of you does believe it. Space. How many time have you heard this before? Space? Wasn’t you giving him enough? Space. Hummm you laugh because its so ridiculous. You laugh because again u knew this day would come. Why did you not listen to that little voice inside your hear telling you to "watch out". "Be careful". You laugh only because tears won't come.
You know its not you, but u cant help but look at that man in the mirror. You can't help but pick yourself apart. Why? Why? Why? Why? Why? And again and again you can't come up with the answer. Slowly as you try to focus on other things and think of other people you put you heart back into that steel case.
Tears finally come and they make you feel a little better, but the pain is piercing through your soul. The pain never hurts as bad as the first time. . But all the same you can't help but feel hopeless, foolish. Your great chance to be with your soul mate has again somehow slipped and failed.
But eventually you know you will pick yourself up. Eventually you know you will try again. And eventually you know you will find the keys to you heart, but also in the back of your mind you think…. Will it happen again.""
[Photo via Getty Images.]
Well, since she's only, what, 16? I guess we can understand her naivite. I mean, who'd think a guy would feed you a line of $hit just to get into your pants?
What, does she have like a sophmore education ? So many typos, grammar errors. And then publishes it on a blog for everyone to read ? Oh yeah, sorry about the heartbreak, but you'll live.
Yes, she must be talking about Common…how quickly gossip sites forget…their coupling was "big news" in november and December….I knew that wouldn't last…sorry Serena…
Re: KOOL DUDE – SWEETIE YOU ARE WHO FOOLING HERE ?????
BUT, HEY SKANK SERENA IS LOOKING FOR A GUY JUST LIKE YOU !!!!!!!
HE/SHE IS LOOKING FOR A KOOL DUDE JUST LIKE YOU THAT LIKES TITS AND A PAIR OF BIG BLACK DICK SO HE CAN BUTT FUCK YOU AND THEN YOU CAN SCREAM REALLY LOUD PROVING THAT YOU REALLY ARE A TRUE SCREAMING QUEEN !!!!!!
BUT NO YOU ARE NOT A FAG , NO ONE THINKS SO
DON'T WORRY YOUR SECRET IS SAFE HERE AT PEREZ HILTON'S SITE
DUMBASS!!!!!!
SO THIS MIGHT BE YOUR CHANCE TO MEET YOUR TRUE LOVE
Been there, done that…got the T-shirt. Things will get better with time.
This is about Brett Ratner
Keep it to yourself Honey, No one wants to hear your pathetic story and no one is coming to your pity party…Move on!
STAY STRONG GIRL! We've all been there, and we've all survived. Keep the faith in yourself and be enough for yourself. One day, some guy will be lucky enough to share your light! You're gorgeous!!
Re: KOOL DUDE – OHHHHH TO SERENA EVENTUALLY
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!
IT WON'T LAST THOUGH BECAUSE YOU WILL CRAVE DIFFERENT GUYS EVENTUALLY ONCE YOU HAVE A TASTE OF SERENA'S BIG BALCK DICK
YOU KNOW WHAT THEY SAY ONCE YOU GO BLACK YOU , YOU JUST CRAVE FOR MORE BLACK DICKS UNTIL YOUR ASSHOLE IS SO WIDE THEY NEED TO SEW IT BACK TOGETHER SO YOU WILL FEEL LIKE A VIRGIN ONCE AGAIN AND THEN REPEAT THE SAME CYCLE OVER AND OVER AGAIN
dust yourself up and try again darling. he's not worth your tears, you will feel this way about someone again one day, or not, but you will smill again.
T'is better to have loved and lost, than never loved at all." You know a guy wrote that one, f*cking Shakespeare. But whatever.
Still, better to be a badass world-famous athlete who people call a "gorilla" because she's designed for tennis, than some anxious stay-at-home wife ironing her philandering, drunk husband's shirts. Because what if you did everything "right," according to what guys want, what if you dieted, put on your makeup every day, cooked delicious meals, and gave some man your youth, your ambition? What happens if he leaves you, then? No career, no world outside of him, all alone; and who's he with? Nah, better to be a badass world-famous athlete and create an amazing life, amazing experiences. If her prince comes, awesome, he'll love that body more than anything. And if he doesn't, well, she's still made the most of her allotted time on this little planet, more than 99% of us, with some serious style, too. You can't control other people, but you can always enjoy your own life. I bet she does. I feel sorry for her next tennis opponent, though
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That was posted last year!..dumba**! She's a fake Biotch if I ever saw one….and totally haughty. Have you ever heard her speak live? oy
Jackie Long wasn't all that anyway Serena;like we say here: NEXT!
Keep your mind on tennis because Justine Henin will whoop your ass once again!
Is'nt amazing that men are jerks to someone as talanted, good looking, and hard working as her.
I just wonder…
WHO THE HELL WOULD SERIOUSLY DATE SERENA WILLIAMS??!?
I thought I was the only one. It's easy Serena, NEVER get attached. That's when they always drop the ball on you.
That girl needs to write a book, for real
I can so relate.
i think its about Jackie Long, "esquire" from ATL. theyre all up on each others myspace's….just like theyre 16 lol
BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH MEN ARE DOGS, BLAH, BLAH BLAH. STFU YOU PATHETIC BITCH. BET YOUR MAN WAS A DOG TO BEGIN WITH AND YOU MADE EXCUSES FOR HIM. I HATE BITCH WHINING. GET THE FUCK OVER IT CUNT.
Very interesting!! I actually read the entire thing..and I think everyone has or will relate to that sometime in their life..Maybe the reason is cuz guys are afraid to commit? Or they;re just dicks..one or another..or another..
I've never really been a fan of hers–or tennis in particular– but damn, girl, my heart is hurting for you! And it doesn't make me feel any better to know that famous, rich people have the same hurts and feelings that we do. Poor girl.
I've been there, Serena, I have. I was hurt, and started dating a great guy. But still, I was very wary. Finally I let him in, and we ended up getting married. We're divorced now, and it hurt, but we are still the best of friends. Chin up, girl, it WILL get better and you WILL meet someone worthy of you!
so sad:( but true
What normal guy would date a gorilla like Serena Williams?
I feel you Serena!
that's a really retarded thing to write about. has that happened to her or something? who want to hear corny, over-exaggerated break up story crap.
guys are suck decks. -____-
omg awwww
She was linked to Common most recently.
If you're dating someone and you don't introduce them to your friends or family and you don't get introduced to theirs, that should be your first clue that it ain't gonna last! Get real!
Well Serena are u talking about your recent hook up with a certain rapper and left your dude you were dating hanging wihtout a word for him to find out in the media of your recent (relationship) hookup,Karma can be a B girl don't cry now. Don't do unto others that u don't want done to you.
She looks like Magilla Gorilla in drag.
Tell here to come live in NYC! Shiz like that happens weekly!
It is sad and sucks, but that is part of life! Part of the reason I feel people go through this is because they set expectations to high! When you resign yourself to never finding love, it will happen! Trust me! Been down that road many times and guess what, I do believe I found it! And I wasn't even looking for it! Moral of the story is when you learn to love yourself and feel complete on your own all else will follow. Ciao!
And this is why
I don't show my emotions either.
We all know that guys don't
Have feelings….they're all
Jerks!!!!
She just broke up with Jackie Long. The angry guy from the Trey Songz Video "Cant help but wait." I feel you girl!!. Stay Strong.
Wow, I almost cried! I have also been there before, and it sucks major balls! I hope she finds happiness.
Am so in that place right this second! Love her even more now.
Re: Christine –
what.. she dated our dad he look like a monkey?…man have him to write a story about that.. i will read it
What an amazing blog!!!
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HOW FUCKING TRITE.
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SERIOUSLY.
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HOW 'BOUT A FEW MORE LAME-O SIMILIES?
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That was quite beautiful. I am happily married now but there was a time when I could certainly relate. Can't we all? It does not matter how smart, famous, beautiful we are. We all get bit
Guys,
I am not saying that europe and the rest of the world is better than the US, but my impression is that you guys have too many rules in the dating department. I have tried dating american guys a few times, and it just doesn't work. If you meet someone and it feels right, then just go for it. Don't spend bloody months because it will fizzle. By no means am I saying that you just jump into bed with someone, BUT there are such a lot of "rules" with you guys and it must be a pain in the ass. I have a lot of american friends and when I talk to them about dating, it's as if you live on another planet. LIVE LIVE and LIVE. Don't throw away valuable time with all the rules, the exclusive talks and crap, just go out, meet someone and spend as much time as you can together. I feel sorry for Serena, but if you spend months and months going easy, then it takes longer to find out that the special someone might be a prick. Just go for it, and enjoy it instead of bloody worrying and making stupid rules that end up boring the crap out of people.
Here I was all set to rag on her, but what she wrote is so poignant that I can't. Hang in there, Serena. We do get hurt, we pick ourselves up and go on a little stronger and wiser for it. This guy didn't deserve you. You'll find one who will and thank your lucky stars this jerk left when he did.
stay strong. he wasnt man enough for you. all the best at the australian open. Smile. Gods Grace is in your smile.
amen to that, girl!
'He tells you he doesn’t want to be with you and only you.' am i the only one that picked that up??
…he doesn't deserve you…not worth your time
Re: Amy – she has 2 much muscles
That is so true….I have been there. I think everyone has. Things will get better..
i can totally relate but then again what woman can't? guys just don't know what they want sometimes.
oh wow, i feel so bad for serena, poor girl =[
this is why most guys suck =/
Re: Me – NO!! Hahahah, i picked it up 2, it really doesnt make any sense :S lol
i picked this up 2 :"Why did you not listen to that little voice inside your hear telling you to watch out" did she mean head or ear? or maybe she wrote it cuz she couldnt decidewich 1 2 write? xD
SERENA, and other ladies, read this book: Catch Him & Keep Him by Christian Carter - it will end the broken heart cycle, give you insight into the mind of men and and teach you how to keep them hooked. This is not a manipulations tactic, or some bullshit "rules' books, it's the honest to God truth on how men think.
Wasn't she dating the MN Vikings player Bryant McKinnie, or was that her sister who was dating him? He's the Viking who organized the teams great "sex boat get together."
Sad.
By 'HE' she means 'SHE'….and the bitch stopped calling cause she went back with her husband!!
Yeah it will……..
Wow……I don't think anyone else could have said it better!!
i know what she is talking about all to good.
LOVE SUCKS BIG TIME !!!!
Re: Me – no honey, i picked up that shizzle, too! what the hell?!?? LOL. i think that was a typo and she meant to write : 'He tells you he wants to be with you and only you.'
Haahahahahaha
I feel her pain !
Re: Val –
HA. You call yourself decent when you're talking about one night stands? PUH-lease! You're just as bad as Lilo. Its hard for "decent" girls to behave this way because some of us have some freaking self-respect and think our bodies shouldn't be given to just anybody. Especially not some whorebag bar-troll looking to get some girl drunk so as he can get lucky.
I absolutely know how she feels! She summed up everything I feel.. How brave of her! I absolutely love her now! Good luck Serena, you deserve, and will find, true love!
Ouch…..I feel her pain.
wow i know what shes saying
poor serena
Ugh. I'm so there. Still trying to get over it. Everything she said, I so get it! But it does help to know you're not alone…
wow she looks really good! kudos to her
sucks what she's going through, i can certainly relate
Re: Christine – I should put my foot up your ass for such a dumb ass comment.
u have no idea how that just helped me right now
such a good blog.. wow
I know why. She needs to read the book "The Rules to dating". Then she will know why.
Common must have broke her heart. Girl give it time, one day the one will come.
Common must have broke her heart. Girl give it time, one day the one will come.
I couldn't have said it better myself…. I feel your pain.
Guys are dicks.
Poor Serena…that Common thing didn't seem to last.
That was truly beautiful. And obviously she has a reason to be guarded. Even athletes/celebrities have feelings and go through the same things we do. Pretty powerful.
Sorry girl & thankyou so much for sharing!! Common will forever be a sleeze, you desereve & will find better xxx
brilliant
I feel you girl, seems to me it happens all the time
#39 - Ashley says – reply to this
Defiantly what I needed to let some emotion out, today out of all days to hear the exact thing I'm going through… It was very touching!!
#40 - anna lou says – reply to this
This is so true….
#41 - Eureka Nevermind says – reply to this
So true, so true!! i'm going thru a break up with a guy ive been with for 6yrs…and what was his excuse? "I need space" 6 god damn years and know you need space…ya right!
You're not alone, I'm going through the same thing. THIS WAS THE BEST POST EVER ON THIS DAMN WEBSITE.
HANG ON PEOPLE. THINGS WILL GET BETTER AND YOU KNOW WHAT, IT'S THEIR LOSS. NO MATTER HOW IT HURTS US. THEY LOSE.
boy, have I been there before… LOL, she nailed every aspect of this experience… it's not only guys doing it to girls, but the other way around too, I should know. Sad but true… I think she just made this very public post because it's a way to exorcise your demons and put said ill-fated story behind.
This is the most retarded blog I think I've ever read. Not only is Serena Williams dumber than hell, she's too muscular, which is the reason guys disappear.
People WOULD YOU PLEASE STOP SAYING FU—-ING "FIRST".!!!!Who really cares!!!!Ist What????? It is so stupid…. Please only make a statement about the Perez post….Thanks…..
Wow… that was totally intense…
I can understand both points of view. I understand the "space" thing because no 2 people are exactly alike and should be able to have some of their own time without feeling like they are abandoning the other person. I find that when a couple has to do every single little thing together, then that's covering up something deeper. Both people in the relationship should be strong enough to trust their partner and also be able to communicate their wants and needs. I think the problem is that one person in the relationship has this "fairy tale" romantic ideal on how their partner should be which I think is a nice ideal to have but is not very realistic. Just my 2 cents…
#1 Im pretty sure she's talking about her "boo" Jackie Long
#2 she writes like a 10 year old, take an English class
ok all that damn just say it hurted me i knew it was sumthin in my head
telln me to do so fuck dont no body want to read all that shyt
aww, it's so true
it sounds like Common isn't as sweet as he looks.
I am in awe of her.She is a strong black woman. Her words make me feel empowered and happy I'm not the only one who's experienced heartbreak.Thank you Serena
Alls I can say is WOW.
Wow!! That was so deep!! And totally amazing!! So true!
Girl I hear that!!! Bitches ain't shit but hoes and tricks…
WHAAAH…Get it together, girl! Bite his dick off… BA HA HA
What the fuck is "First"? That's no savvy comment. Are you letting us know that you're going through your first break up too? Who cares!!! It's a meaningless comment and a waste of space.
Re: devilgirl – dos it really gets beter? i have divoized and , then got merried again , and naw i 'm thinking of geting devoiz again , but then , i 'm so afraid , that , i think whit's next? i alsow think ofcors there r good guys out there, but will i ever meet any of them?i don't know, im so confused naw, and sometimes i thingmaby i shud just stay with my wife beater habby,b cos ntohing makes senth to me anymore , after all life is so short, i shud just thing of my kids and pretend everything is ok. a man who beat hiz wife , specialy 4 sheet reasons , hi is as big as cocrutch.whot can i do , get divoiz , and spend the rest of my life fighting 4 my kids and try to make them happy as mom and da, while my bassted habby will go somewhere to asia and fined some sexslave 4 himself anf enjoi himself. no i thing i beter stay , and enjoi myself with all hiz money and then when he is old throw him and let him suck hiz own dig. i hate him, i hate him so much .
I really wish she'd stop acting like she looks like a woman. srsly.
Re: Lisa – [re=1235519]Re: Kiza haw long have u been meried?
This is SO true.
Re: Cayla – is thats all u can say.
shud she act like a man? like all the stuped lesbians do? orstuped seek gay do , they like to akt as a women.. whot a stuped you are. she is a woman , parhaps in many ways beter than you, she is blessed by a beutefal athlethik body-many women will kill themselfs in the gim to get that's body. and she is so beutefall with her dress, so just shut up if u got nothing els to say . poor thing got hurt by some dighead, give some cimpaty.