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It Gets Better….

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But only if you're alive to experience the better!

Suicide. Will. NOT. Make. Things. Better.

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52 comments to “It Gets Better….”



  1. 1

    please perez just kill yourself you heinous freak



  2. 2

    Hate to recycle this post but Mario's hypocrisy is unreal
    Eldridge Cleaver's top 10 tips to become a cyber bully like Perez Hilton
    1. Trash people today whose ass you kissed yesterday
    2. Draw hearts on dudes' crotches and draw cum on chicks' faces
    3. Speculate and insinuate that Kristen Stewart is a lesbian
    4. Nickname a 15 year old girl Slutty Cyrus
    5. Fawn over young boys half your age that have odd tics shaking their head
    6. Make fun of Ali Lohan's eyebrows as much as possible
    7. Talk mad shit on very sick celebrities then say "Sad.Sad" when they OD.
    Editor's note: RIP Brittany Murphy
    8. Try to "out" as many celebrities as possible and call them "gayfaced"
    9. Make fun of women for their clothes and weight
    10. For all posts on Matt Bomer make sure to write "the openly gay actor" and don't forget to draw the aforementioned heart on his crotch.
    On a serious note, if you're depressed or feeling suicidal please talk to someone about it. There is light at the end of the tunnel :)



  3. 3

    Dear Perez
    As much as I love you and your 'it gets better' msg, it would be easier to stop bullying if we didn't live in a culture where someone who makes a living drawing cum dribbles on people's pictures and disseminating rumours about people wasn't the spokesperson for anti-harassment. It's possible that mean or stupid people take their cues from a culture at large which says it's okay to make fun of people on the internet, consider their sex lives our personal business, and basically promote the message that some human beings deserve ridicule and humiliation. Maybe some people (celebrities? bad dressers? liars?) "deserve" it more according to you, but as someone "older and wiser" I want you to ask yourself, who gets to decide who deserves it, and who decides what's normal? How would you feel to know that the bullies we hate are actually copying your style, if not your targets? Something for all of us who read your site to think about…



  4. 4

    Suicide is never the answer. There are always people in the community you can talk to. You can go to support groups, church groups or your family if they're tolerant enough to accept you. There are also friends who will accept you, especially in this day and age. People aren't as homophobic as they were 50 years ago. There's always someone like a teacher, best friend, sister or brother who will lend a helping hand. You don't need to end your life at such a young age when you have so much to look forward too. You don't need to travel alone to face obstacles without a shoulder for support. Believe me, it helps!



  5. 5

    Do it!



  6. 6

    That being said, don't go to Perez for support. He's the worst gay role model anyone could have. By the way Perez, what about talking to sisters about being gay? Don't gay women count?



  7. 7

    your the biggest bully perez



  8. 8

    Oh shut up !, not that i don't care about the gay teens commiting suicide, but putting this under "Gay Gay Gay"? like the phrase "suicide will not make things better" only applies to gays.You'r soo stupid, gay teens shouldn't be bullied but straight teens and children can be ?? [especially young celebs by you] .Noone should be bullied, Noone should even consider committing suicide.By the way, stop trying to take credit for "It Gets Better" .You're trying way too hard, did you get it from Lady Gaga?? do you want to go on Larry King Live again ??.GLAAD even hates you, you bully gays on here all the time,because they aren't ready to come out yet, who the fuck do you think you are pigshit ?



  9. 9

    i think even if Perez is trying hard (and maybe honestly) his comments are irrelevant in this issue. As read on the other posts, he is the first one making fun of people on their physical apperance, their taste, their partnership and way of living. it seems that if this person is not on the same "wave" as he, Perez will make fool of them publicly. He is very keen on this cause JUST because he is gay too. At the end, he is doing the same what theses young people have experienced everyday with the celebrities or "celeburtards". And we are part of it, reading it everyday



  10. 10

    Re: Eldridge Cleaver – Very well said!

  11. Bytch says – reply to this


    11

    Perez, maybe its time to simply report on celebrity news. Your goals for "outing people" before they are ready to make announcements on their orientation constitutes a form of "bullying" that perhaps you need to look at. Not to mention your shitty misogynist attitudes. I support gays, but you seem to be gay AND hate women and that makes you a sad fuck.



  12. 12

    So basically Perez's mindset is you can poke fun and start fight with 15-16 year old girls and literally call them a slut, Or you can call a few girls a "coke whore" you also publicly attempt to "out" people by saying things like "gay face". But if someone commits suicide that happens to be a gay person..yea ..Perez came out of the closet and endured the same stuff people do..So why on earth he would want to out people knowing what its like. But you can't pick on gay people? I'm sorry but you being a speaker for anything related to this you're terrible at. No one respects you. Everyone hates you. The gay's don't even like you. You're hypocritical idiotic immature fat ass homo. People aren't focused on the subject..About bullying. You're focused on -gay- only bullying. When you come off to people as that ^^ people will ignore the "issue" and instead they are focusing on you.



  13. 13

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~PEREZ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
    everyone is right, you CAN NOT be a hypocrite
    Either turn your site into a positive one & keep giving messages of hope, or continue being a bully & stop your posts about "anti-bullying/suicide"



  14. 14

    I concur. This message is pointless coming from someone who is a bully himself. You tear people down for a living just like the ones that tear down those taking their own life. It is the same behavior even if it is from a different direction. Even through all of the narcissism, "celebrities" are human at the end of the day too.

  15. cymro says – reply to this


    15

    i'm with everyone else here - your BULLYING of christina aguilera has sickened me - don't underestimate the power of your disgusting words. i sincerely look forward to the day that more people stand up to you you disgusting person. and, as a gay man - who the hell are you and lady gaga to think you speak for me?!

  16. cymro says – reply to this


    16

    so you want to ruin the careers of jennifer aniston, leann rimes, mischa barton, christina aguilera and COUNTLESS others (while supporting other talentless bullies such as kanye and kelly osbourne) and you think you can then act as a spokesperson for good?! your horrible opinion sadly has a knock-on effect so stop looking for people's downfall because we're ALL waiting for yours.



  17. 17

    Eldridge cleaver said just what I wanted to say. Oh the hypocrisy!



  18. 18

    If there are any people on this site thinking about killing themselves b/c of their sexuality — there are literally thousands of website you can gain help at. Don't use the man who spreads hate as steadily as Fred Phelps does towards gay people as a platform to help you feel better.



  19. 19

    Perez is advertising suicide here.. Planting many seeds.. He is probably responsible for a few suicides coming up.. SAD SAD SAD… Perez should just kill himself and make the world a better place. If he read



  20. 20

    If he read his USER COMMENTS he would think suicide is the only answer. No one likes him.



  21. 21

    You are so obscenely ignorant about mental health so please either educate and inform yourself or keep your ridiculous comments to yourself before other people naively allow themselves to be influenced by your stupidity. Suicide is the ultimate way to "make it better" for someone who is experiencing pain and / or depression etc. as it acts as an escape from the pain. Your plea to not commit suicide as it "does not make things better" is just yet another example of your over inflated ego, arrogance and misguided sense of self importance



  22. 22

    suicide is not an option. it is horrifying from the people you leave behind. they say everything happens for a reason, although it definately may not seem so at the time. reach out and ask for help. if someone does not help you go to someone else. suicide is not an option.



  23. 23

    Re: Eldridge Cleaver – well said



  24. 24

    Remember the last scene from the movie, In and Out, where everyone in the auditorium comes out as gay?! National Coming Out Day is October 11th. On that day lets have a celebrity campaign where everying comes out as gay whether they are or not. For one day each year, everyone will be gay. Maybe we can turn this suicide tide around and make being gay a not un-cool thing but cool! Please pass this message on to anybody and everybody. On October 11th everyone will come out as gay!



  25. 25

    Re: Eldridge Cleaver – Shout out to Eldridge Cleaver & Sookie & everyone else commenting on Perez Hilton's hypocrisy. Well said, couldn't agree with you more!
    Perez - it makes me smile when you're "nice" to ppl in your posts. But you are calculated with your cyber bully agendas. Just because your a good son to your mama, doesn't make your actions any better. You don't have to make your money on bullying ppl. You're sad.



  26. 26

    Oh yes Perez it gets better doesn't it? Remember when you posted those naked sex pics outing Dustin Lance Black not too long ago? I'll bet it got a lot better for him and his sex partner. How nice of you to show us all of that.



  27. 27

    yeah, what everybody else said!!!!! SUCK IT MARIO!!!!!



  28. 28

    Regardless of whether Perez is a model for anti-bullying or if his message is only geared toward gay males or gays in general; research shows that the more suicide is advertised (especially among teens) the more likely the trend is to continue and grow. Up until the past 2 weeks, you wouldn't be able to find news articles describing a teenager's suicide. So while I will continue to support the "It Gets Better" campaign, I would like to point out that the "death count" posts are not helping, but hurting many others.



  29. 29

    ELDRIDGE CLEAVER SAID IT CORRECTLY….PEREZ YOU ARE A HYPOCRITE. HOW DARE YOU BEG FOR PEOPLES ATTENTION WHEN YOU SLAM EVERYONE. I WILL DONATE, GIVE TIME, DO ANYTHING FOR KIDS THAT ARE EFFECTED BY BULLYING…BUT NOT THROUGH THIS WEB SITE.
    KEEP YOUR HEADS UP KIDS, IT DOES GET BETTER. AND THE PRINCIPALS,SCHOOL DISTRICTS, AND PARENTS SHOULD BE HELD LIABLE FOR OTHER KIDS WHO BULLY OTHER KIDS. THERE SHOULD BE LAW SUITS FLYING



  30. 30

    You know, I am glad Perez has seen the light. I emailed him several times over the past couple of years to tell him that outing closeted gay people (especially young people) would eventually leave him with blood on his hands.

    Perez, I support your "it will get better" campaign. However, I still think you owe an apology to all the people you've outed over the years. Until you do that, I will continue to have serious doubts about your sincerity.



  31. 31

    The world would be a better place if you killed yourself, Perez!



  32. 32

    Re: Eldridge Cleaver
    So true! My thoughts exactly!



  33. 33

    I dont know perez… until you stop hating on so many people I do not believe you are gonna make an impact on nobody… but I love all the comments thou LMFAO! people do hate you for one reason or another but they do…

  34. Twime says – reply to this


    34

    Regardless of whether or not Perez is a hyprocrite (yeah, he is), I think the message that suicide is not the answer is a good one. However, I think that there shouldn't be a need to tell gay teens that things will get better. The message that should be going around the world should not be about dealing with bullying and discrimination, but rather the message should be to NOT bully or discrimate!!! How is it still acceptable to do something like this ?! The American government should take some very tough measures to make sure that harrassment because of sexual preference ceases to exist. It's disgusting.



  35. 35

    Perez - You have created the social fabric upon which these kids have hung themselves.
    X~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~X
    ((Well said Eldridge Cleaver and the rest!))



  36. 36

    Dharun and Molly will be charged with third and fourth degree crimes for distributing nude and sexual images of Tyler without his consent, and viewing nude and sexual images of Tyler without his consent. This all happened in New Jersey. I wonder if the laws are the same in California? If so, you're up for the slammer big time!!!! Remember Dustin Lance Black? Remember Peaches? Re: Twime – I agree!



  37. 37

    To all those who said kind words about my post: thank you so much :) All of us want to do the right thing and prevent any more suicides but Mario is just not the right spokesman for this campaign to end bullying



  38. 38

    Sometimes it's better to listen to the bible and not be damned to hell. Being Gay is a problem that goes back to parenting… it's ashame that people are this way and our kids shouldn't need to be involved or around this kind of twisted sick behavior. It's not accepted and never will be. Parents we need to teach the kids that being gay is not something that you are born with!!! it's a sad sad thing and a sad time in America for these kind of people.



  39. 39

    you know what, sometimes it doesn't get better.

    i have been waiting for things to get better and have talked to my brother, my husband and 3friends telling them i am at the end of my rope hanging by a thread. and you know what none of them helped me.

    so everyone if someone in your life asks for help so you don't end up feeling guilty when they kill them self.



  40. 40

    Re: youaresofreakinglame – Please talk to someone else if those people offered no help. There is help and support out there. Websites, hotlines, thru your doctor if you have medical, churches etc…



  41. 41

    Re: Eldridge Cleaver

    thanks, i am not gay just an average working middle age woman.

    i just want people to think about it when friends talk to you about their troubles. some people need someone to listen.



  42. 42

    Re: youaresofreakinglame – No worries! I'm not gay either but I know (unlike Mario) that suicide can affect straight people and old people, too. Sadly, a few loved ones have taken their own lives so suicide is a subject that hits close to home. Take care :)



  43. 43

    at least your talking about more important things

    and yeah this is awful



  44. 44

    Re: cymro – you stole those words out of my mouth



  45. 45

    Free will. If someone wants to commit suicide, that is their right. You may not agree with their decision, but it's not your life, so you don't get to decide. But seriously, if you killed yourself, it would make things better, Mario.



  46. 46

    hypocrisy



  47. 47

    we all have to tough it out - shit gets rough in life. there isn't a kid i knew growing up that didn't have to deal with something. - eviltuna.com



  48. 48

    the fact that perez is saying stop the bullying is a mute point. If what everybody truly wants is for these kids to stop offing themselves, then I think post would be more helpful if they stay on topic…



  49. 49

    I just think it's sad that Perez is making it seem like suicide is just a gay issue. He fails to mention that suicide is an issue that affects EVERYONE. Sexual orientation does not matter.



  50. 50

    This shouldn't just be targeted towards gay youth it should be targeted towards anyone who is getting bullied or is thinking of commiting suicide. This isn't just a gay issue, this is an issue that several people face. I struggle from depression and have thought of suicide before, because I thought it was the only way things would get better, but I was wrong. Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. No matter what you're going through it will get better but it just takes time for things to get better. If you're thinking of commiting suicide please talk to someone, or get help.



  51. 51

    What a disgusting person you are Perez. You made your fame by outing and cyberbullying celebrities. You take no personal responsibility for your actions.

    No disrespect to the gay & lesbian community, but I think they are missing the point. The situation in NJ, where the kid killed himself is less about him being gay, and more about his privacy being violated.

    The loss would be no less disgusting than if any teen killed themselves after having their privacy viciously violated. The show of support for young adults should be broader.



  52. 52

    I haven't been on this site since the whole Black Eyed Peas fiasco in June 09. After I saw Perez on Ellen I felt that I had to comment.
    Perez/Mario–I don't believe you. Sorry but I just don't buy it. You are the ultimate bully! I believe you will change to save face, but I don't for one second feel this "heartfelt sincerity" you and your pimple posted for your "it gets better" video. You wish you had YOU as a role model when you were growing up? You think you are a role model? Even a message that is supposed to be uplifting and encouraging just turns into an oppurtunity to promote yourself.
    You disgust me.