Let Them Mourn In Peace
Filed under: Australiastic > Heath Ledger
Heath Ledger's family will arrive in New York City on Friday from Australia.
Out of respect for their privacy, we won't name the funeral home the service will take place in. It'd be nice if the media left his family alone on that day, but we don't think that will happen.
Ledger's ex, Michelle Williams, and daughter, Matilda, arrived at their Brooklyn home on Wednesday. They were greeted by hordes of paparazzi. So wrong.
We didn't use those pics. Nor did we use the pics of Ledger's body being taken out of his apartment.
And we won't use pics from outside the funeral parlor.
Hopefully others will follow suit.
[Image via WENN.]




Thank you perez for respecting the family and not posting certain pictures and trying to let them mourn in peace. You've got class Perez and that's why you're the BEST!!!! I always hit your site 1st
wow Perez, im impressed..you finally learned where to draw the line. I agree, show the family respect. Feel free to report on toxicology reports, etc..but we dont need to view the grief and sorrow on the loved ones faces and further add to their pain.
good for you Perez! At least one media outlet in the world is showing some respect for his friends and family who are suffering the loss of a loved one!
glad you're respecting the family by not using those photos, Perez.
Yes. I know Jamaica is a very homophobic country. But I love you Perez!!!!
Perez, i've found your site witty and funny…even if you were kinda mean. But this post shows you guys truly do it right. There's a time and place for everything. Kudos and RIP a truly gifted actor.
Perez, I had no idea you had any class, but it looks like you have a little!
Perez, You really are a genuine good guy. Love your site.
I'm happy to read your plans for respecting his family during this hard time; admire you for doing so especially in this business (the right thing to do).
You are a sweetheart Perez.
THANK YOU!
THANK YOU!
THANK YOU!!!!
that is very repectable of you perez.
sorry for all the nasty messages i left about you spreading rumors-
i just think it's sick to kick someone while their down- and this is the worst down- he can't defend himself, you know?
BEST POST I'VE SEEN ALL YEAR!!
I'm glad you're taking the higher road and respecting the family.
Thanks Perez, I knew you were a gentleman with a good soul! Thank you for showing class and respecting the family's privacy during this tragic time. YOU ROCK PEREZ!!!
I really respect that Perez. i live just around the corner from his apartment in SoHo amd the media circus is truly disgusting. I can somewhat understand the public's fascination with this terrible event, but we all need to remember that a man died- a father died. As a culture, we need to not obsess over celebrities and really respect what his true friends and family are experiencing with this great loss.
Well done. Good thing. Respect, man.
I agree. Well done and very respectful, Perez. Thank you.
Good for U, Perez! People fuss so much about U but I've been on your website since the beginning when I heard you on WFLZ in Fla. You're the man. Don't listen to these others - go to another website if you don't like it - It's that simple. Love ya Babe!!!
Very decent of you perezzers.
bless you perez. unfortunately other sites have the information on line. Rest In Peace Heath.
GREAT DECISION!!!!!
Perez - that is lovely
lets hope you set an example here ! x
That's so awesome you are respecting them like that. It's so sad and my heart breaks for them. If only the other media outlets would follow your lead.
Campbell Funeral Home, it is in People already…..
it's about time someone showed some respect. it's horrible. this whole situation is just so horrible and these poor people can't grieve in private. my heart goes out to michelle and their baby.
very kind, strenght to the friends and family, heath is a terrible loss, may he rest in peace
I have a lot of respect for you Perez. Thank you for setting an example. Everyone deserves privacy, especially in a time of mourning. Its just unfortunate that other media outlets to do not realize this. R.I.P. Heath, my condolences go out to his friends and family.
classy move perez. very respectful.
LIFE IS SHORT, BUT YOU'RE HERE TO FLOWER.
Thank God! Someone has some respect for Heath Ledger's family and friends during this hard time. Thanks for being an example to the media Perez!!! I love you!
Thanks Perez! That makes it easier for me to visit your site this week knowing those won't be on here. What a sad time.
Wow, I am a bit surprised. I didn't think you would do something like this. Good for you Perez, you really do have a heart.
I am impressed….as much as I luv gossip , enough is enough
Great job Perez!!!!! I hope others will follow you on this. Let there be some respect to someone's death.
R.I.P HEATH!!!!!
YOU WERE AN AMAZZZING ACTOR.
YOU WILL FOREVER BE REMEMBERED!!!!!
WE LOVE YOU!
Good for you Perez. You know where to draw the line (except for with Britney of course), you are decent.
Thank You for that! This family deserves to mourn in peace!
Your a good man, Perez. I'm proud of you.
Thanks perez! Hopefully others will see this and follow suit!!
I hope you stay true to your word. If so, you have my respect. It would be nice if others would follow suit.
myspace(dot)com(slash)everyday_is420
RIP HEATH!!
RIP Heath! AND FUCK the press!
Perez, I'm really impressed by this gesture on your part. I could not agree more with your decision. This is when a line needs to be drawn between what is and what IS NOT entertainment. I wish that you would consider taking the same stance when it comes to Britney Spears though…
It's nice to see that some people have some class. Very respectful-Thanks Perez-
thanks perez.
perez does have a heart
Finally, a little decency! It seems like you've been listening to the hoards of upset "fans" leaving angry comments. Thank you for listening.
Good call, Perez. I love you!
I came over from that "other" site because of this issue. Thank You.
Its very nice from you perez. Hope others will follow you… They need privacy.
Good example Perez!
Hopefully more will take your lead Perez…
The public should start boycotting shows and publications that use these photos.. it's wrong & in such bad taste.
RIP
Thank God someone in the media has a heart, thanks Perez. RIP Heath.
Chill out, P. Like, fine, but chill out anyway.
Common sense might dictate not to use them, but it might also dictate that mudslinging PA for pseudo-abortions pushes the limits of good taste.
thanks perez! be the bigger man!(-i am addicted to you-)
Thank you!
good call perez.
loves you for knowing where to draw the line.
Awesome idea, P! I wish other's will follow in your footsteps. Heath's family and friends need to mourn in peace. RIP Heath!
Well good for you Perez!
Perez is a typical fat, desperately unhappy homosexual who hates women and anyone who doesn't agree with him. Sounds like the republicans he hates so much! Oh wait, but he's gay, so it's ok to hate.
I read you page all day long. I love the gossip, but I have been disappointed lately in the paparazzi's over-coverage of peoples private lives. I applaud you for not showing pictures from the funeral or of the grieving family. Now maybe we can leave Brit-Brit alone. Nobody cares if she is driving around town shopping at Target.
Good for you, Perez. It's nice to know that keeping your soul in an unmutilated condition is worth more to you than making a greasy buck. Very classy.
Thanx for the respect, they all deserve it.
good idea perez… r-i-p heath
Thanks for doing the right thing on not publishing those pictures! Let the family grieve in peace.
good!!! makes me vomit that their stalking his family right now >:[
Glad to hear it Perez. I agree with you and hope others will follow suit.
Thank you. We are all interested in his story but his daughter and family deserve some respect.
Thank you Perez for your grace and tasteful reporting of this sad, tragic story.
very respectful, good for you!
good for you perez! its so sad hes gone.. they need to just let his family be!
i love how you take the moral high ground NOW. jack ass.
then why don't you respect Britney's insanity?
Yay! that is awesome Perez. Having lost someone close, I cannot imagine having to go through the grieving process with strangers constantly in your face, taking your picture and offering empty words of condolences!???!! Grieving is something that we all do differntly, but deserves privacy. The media shoud give it a few months and then get the story.
Good job Perez, that is the right thing to do.
I LOVE PEREZ!! If only all media vulchars had the same respect for the mourning/grieving process. Hey Perez! Congrats on the win in court!! Free Speech bitches!
Thx Perez. You might sometimes cross the line too far, about this time aou really act totally right!
@JG: You know Heath Ledger? Or better knew … You saw him take drugs? Bought him some? And even if you did … who are you to judge?
The one who is without sin might cast the first stone… (and nobody will get hurt.)
@Neil: FIRST? Omg … that#s really disrespectful… Quite amanzing mankind we have today. It's not important anymore if someone dies. No, but being the first to comment on PerezHIlton's website!
Perez, you probably don't want to pay for the pics. I bet they are super expensive.
It's really classy of you to not give out such info.
I'm glad you're showing respect. I think you're doing the right thing.
I do find it interesting that those who are quick to judge Perez for being a celeb gossip blogger are lurking about the very celeb gossip site that they criticize! Be careful not to throw stones from your glass houses!
its good to know you have a heart perez
I agree. Thank you Perez. Heath is dearly missed by his fans, but it will never be ok for his family. They need privacy. Thank you for being human.
Thats very respectful of you Perez:)
Sadly, the rest of the media doesnt care.
I feel bad for his family…
RIP Heath
Good for you Perez. Now, can you teach the others the same manners??
good for you
THANK YOU PEREZ!! FINALLY!! SOME RESPECT FOR THE DEAD
Mazeltov Perez.
Nice to see the show of respect!
Awesome Perez!
Good man…….It's not entertainment…..heath's mourning family and friends should not be preyed on during this tough time..They are not celebrities and should not be exploited for grieving the loss of a loved one.
OH STFU Perez..now you are trying to play Mr. NICE GUY…when we all know you would jump your mother in a dark alley and beat her senseless with a club if it meant more publicity.
I'm glad to see you're showing some respect, Perez. I wonder if you would have the same respect if it was Britney or Amy Whinehouse……………
uppers downers screamers laugher, whatever…
its just a shame that some ppl are so selfish, i feel terrible for poor matilda rose because that is who will really suffer not having a dad
seems like thats what he wanted…
now his hair will always be combed
may he rest in peace
Thank you, Perez! We appreciate you taking a stand with regard to those pics.
Oh wow Perez. I guess this makes up for all the lies and other bullshit you've done on this site. Right around the corner is a major fuck up for you. There are so many people who want you to get a taste of your own medicine. Right around the corner, fat fucking hypocrite.
good job perez! thank you for showing respect to his family- it is wrong at a time like this for them to be making money
That is fantastic, thank you Perez
I enjoy your site for that attention grabbing pictures of celebs.. Thank you for not pub. those pics- it is disgusting to show a 2 year old girl who lost her father at his funeral or on her way….so thanks
Thanks for showing some class, Perez
Thank you for having enough respect for the family to not post their pictures. It shows a lot of class to leave them alone during this incredibly difficult time!
Thank you Perez for being so respectful. I am all about the entertainment industry and I love going on entertainment websites (especially yours!) but this whole Heath Ledger situation has really upset me. When I see pictures of his body in a bag being rolled away and other such ridiculous pictures, it breaks my heart. It's one thing to see a celebrity out shopping on Rodeo Drive (where they know they'll be spotted too) and take a picture, but it's another to invade the space of a group of people who are in extreme mourning right now and also to disrespect the late Heath Ledger by taking pictures of him being rolled away. Media is great. Pictures are great. But enough is ENOUGH!
Perez, thank you for your honest viewpoint of what's happening. Also, you've gained a newfound respect in my eyes for being so loyal and standing up for what you believe to be right. Not printing any of those pictures was a decision few will make. You've shown your true colors, and we like what we see.
great job, perez!
class & dignity.
-Amy