Heath's Family Says Goodbye
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Heath Ledger's family is publicly sharing their grief.
The actor's parents and sisters each wrote touching tributes in the Friday edition of the West Australian newspaper.
Here's what they said.
His father, Kim, wrote:
"'Heatho,' 'Beef,' . . . my beautiful boy, so loving, so talented, so independent, so caring, so young . . . no more chess games mate . . . this is it, couldn't beat you anyway!
My body aches for the sound of your voice, our chats, our laughs and our life and times together."
Your truly varied artistic skills, insatiable desire to improve and eclectic abilities set you apart from any other person on the planet . . . it had only just started for you … and for us to further enjoy. We were one, in soul and commitment. Just . . . Father and Son. I will love you forever, Dad."
His mother, Sally, wrote:
"Our darling boy, special in so many ways to all of us. You knew you were so loved. You lived life with courage and daring and we are so grateful for the wonderful times we shared. We will be there for Matilda. Your loving Mamma, Rog and Ash."
His older sister, Katie, wrote:
"I can hardly breathe when I try to write this. We were the ultimate in soul mates. I feel both my heart and life have been torn apart. I loved our special talks, our daily chats from where ever you were in the world.
I especially loved all the precious time we spent together. We were so fortunate to have you as long as we did. You were so many things to so many people, but to me you were just my little brother.
There will never, ever be another "Heath" and I think that in itself is the greatest tragedy.
I will continue to talk with you everyday and love you just as if you were here. You will never leave my thoughts "Roast", ever."
His younger sister, Olivia, wrote:
"You're my idol, my hero, but most importantly, my loving big brother. I'll treasure every moment we spent together. I love you Heath, I miss you and pray every night you're safe."
His entire family wrote:
"How do we describe our sudden and tragic loss? … You were the most amazing individual "old soul" in a young man's body.
You so loved us, as we dearly loved you. As a close knit and very private family unit we have observed you so determined yet quietly travelling in your self-styled path in life, nothing would get in your way … no mountain too tall, no river too wide.
You dreamed your dreams and lived them with passion and intelligent commitment. We have been privileged to accompany you on a ride through life that has simply been amazing and through it all, we have loved each other beyond imagination.
Your true legacy lives on in beautiful little Matilda, who will always remain in the greatest of care. Our hearts are broken . . . Dad and Ines, Mum and Roger, Kate and Nathan, Rori and Scarlett, Ashleigh, Olivia, Elana and Nadia."
[Image via WENN.]




i don't understand, if they all really were so close, wasn't there anything they could do to help him? my mum and dad were always running after me when they thought i was losing it, and thanks to them i've left all that shit behind you.
even amy's mum and dad seem to do everything they can to help her, even thoug it's sometimes a bit weird, their please throught the press
i don't think his family really knew him, if they are so schocked now…
that was so beautiful and moving. he is so loved by his family it brings me to tears. it was so personal and sweet. my whole heart goes pout to his family. the world seems so unfair that he is gone. love you forever heath.
I loved you in "A Knight's Tale". Your other movies were great as well, but you really did it up here. So sad, so young and obviously had so much more to give. May you rest in peace. God bless your family during this horribly sad time.
That was so beautiful it made me tear up. We see that he was greatly loved in his short life and thats all that really matters now. As long as they keep him in their hearts he will always be with them. I'm truely sorry for their loss as well as Michelle and Matilda. Heath was a very wonderful and talented man.
Wow, I don't even know what to say. Made me cry.
I pray that the Lord will be with Heath's family and friends in this dark hour and that they will be able to come to celebrate the life of their loved one. The world has lost an extraordinary talent and human being. My heart goes out to this family.
Re: REST DEAR HEATH – What an idiot you are…
Re: kiara – IDIOT !!!!!!!
Very eloquently said. You can feel the fanily's loss in your own heart as they humanized him to the rest of the world with their words of admiration and repsect and grief. He was a son and a brother long before any of us knew of him as an actor.
You were a diverse and wonderful actor who lived your life with dignity and respect. Your endearing shyness in your interviews and the way you sometimes fidgeted or wrung your hands showed you were real and somehow comforting. You were and are one of my favorite actors and my heartfelt sympathies to your Matilda and family. And also to Michelle because a huge responsibility falls upon her to be there for their sweet baby girl…rip xoxox
Wow…. I'm crying.
It's things like this that make me wish I had known Heath or any other young person who died to early.
i have been crying over his death since wednesday! I am so sad for his family and friends and especially his daughter and Michelle Williams… He will truly be missed by me
i am so heartbroken over this whole ordeal =( rest in beautiful peace heath
This family is truly beautiful. It's one reason I admire Australians so much. The are very open and warm. Men hug and are easy with affection. Women are strong as well as soft. They really know how to appreciate life and don't waste time in all the negativite stuff like, sadly, many Americans do.
God bless them all.
this is heartbreakingly beautiful
Wow. This just breaks my heart even more. I can't imagine losing my brother.
wow, that brought tears
awwww brought tears to my eyes *sniff sniff*
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Re: hisfd – WOW
that is a fucking weird ass thing to say
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I am still devastated that he is gone. I cried my eyes out when I read this post from his family. This just wasn't suppose to happen. He should be here. I will miss him. I will honor him through his films and thank God we were lucky enough to have him on this planet, if only for a short time..Tears are too much today.
be well everyone.
that is so sad.. i feel so sorry for the family… they loved him just as a family member… its horrible to think that he is gone.
This whole thing just isn't fair. Why Heath? Why Now? There are so many celebrities flaunting their drug use on a daily basis, Heath was practically an angel, and he ends up dead… it's just not right.
PS I am not the same Lauren as the other one (105), that bitch needs to fucking shut up.
its a loss to the world…he was a great actor and he was so young…he didnt deserve it..R.I.P Heath
There's a grief that can't be spoken
There's a pain goes on and on
Empty chairs at empty tables
now my friends are dead and gone
Here they talked of revolution
here it was they lit the flame
here they sang about tomorrow
but tomorrow never came
in the table in the corner
they could see a world reborn
and they rose with voices ringing
and i can hear them now the very words
that they have sung became their last
communion
in a lonely barricade
at dawn
my friends my friends forgive me
that i live and you are gone
there's a grief that can't be spoken
theres a pain goes on and on
oh my friends my friends
don't ask me what you're sacrfice was for
empty chairs at empty tables
now my friends are dead and gone
I cried when I read this.
Such a loss to the world.
Im still in utter disbelief.
I just wish that the paparrazzi would have left the family alone,but there like war crimes against humanity. There dissscusting human beings!
How lucky the heavens are to have you!! Until you meet your family again stay just the same but pain free!
How lucky the heavens are to have you!! Until you meet your family again stay just the same but pain free!
RE: GIGI - #125
Your comments show your incredible ignorance and disrespect for the ways of others. I NEVER pass my comment on sites like this but just couldn't hold back when I saw what idiots like GIGI think of our traditions. Serves me right for even reading this comment section.
In Australia, it is our way for family and friends to place messages out of respect for our loved ones when they die. This is done in the Death notices of our local papers. It is how we do things here and quite frankly I am sure the Ledger's and their friends don't give a rat's ass what your small mind thinks. You call them 'famewhores' for placing their tribute to their son and brother in our local newspaper….well had they not done this it would have been totally unlike what we as Australian's do. They are NORMAL Aussies.
The problem here is that these Death notices are usually only read by people in the community - I am sure the Ledger's never expected this to be printed on a bloody Hollywood Blog.
R.I.P Heath
PISS OFF GIGI!!!!
heartbreaking…..beautiful…..it also brought tears to my eyes…God, what a sickening loss. i wish people would stop throwing stones! i take ambien for insomnia too! he had pneumonia and was exhausted. he made a mistake and possibly took too many and it cost him his young life…and you mock that. sick bastards!!! r.i.p. heath. you were a wonderful actor, and your family obviously adored you. they and your daughter are in my thoughts!
Re: jojo – SO THAT WAY I DON'T HAVE TO READ YOUR POST EITHER
DOUCHE BAG !!!!!
REST IN PEACE HEATH LEDGER
this is so sad, it's so wonderful to know that he was loved so much by his family. he will be greatly missed.
What beautiful people. Now I see why Heath was such a beautiful person too. God bless little Matilda and EVERYONE that has mourned his loss. *drying tears*
Heath has passed beyond the veil and there in the loving hands of our heavenly father shall he remain for eternity…that before this life,we were all heavenly brothers and sisters and he has now gone home. Rest well my heavenly brother,that one day we shall meet again.. my condolences to family,friends and children. God Bless
So sad. I cried >.
aww that is soo sweet and sad heath will be missed that was such a sweet message it brought a tear to my eye
xxx
#444 represents the angels that are guiding you into the after life.
you will be prince.
They got it right….they were so blessed to have had him in their lives as long as they did. He is Home now. Everyone should take a minute and look at their own lives…your loved ones. Appriecate them, love them….you never know when they'll be gone.
an obviously lovely, very loving family… so sad for them.
So many people are dying everyday…my heart goes out not only to the parents and family spoken of here but to all the families that have lost loved ones.
I Love you Heath, i hope you rest in piece, i really hope his family does well and his exwife and little girl, i've been there and im saddened
This is truly heartbreaking.. We will miss you Heath.
it's amazing to feel so sad and upset about a person i never met, i think the reason this happens is because we can place ourselves loosing someone so special in our own lives, and also when you see another family in pain and grieving you can see their heart ache, i live in australia and it has been a HUGE shock to us all.
i can see why he was so wonderful- he had a great family!
RIP HEATH
It made me cry. This is so so sad.
Re: Howard – your an ass
I am truly devastated over the loss of such a wonderful actor and most of all an amazing person. Nobody could ever be able to replace him for he was genuinely one of a kind. My thoughts and prayers go out to his friends and family. I can't help but to come to tears everyday knowing that he is no longer with us. He is truly loved in my heart forever and always….RIP Heath
HEATH THANK YOU FOR YOUR TALENTED LIFE! YOUR SOHO NEIGHBOR-V
Gone way to soon. The world is a lesser place. RIP.
Why does society obsess over the death of a celebrity? The publicity over the death of Heath Ledger shook me up, then quickly pissed me off. This man was an ACTOR for Pete's sake. He did not come up with world peace, the resolution to hunger in Africa or come up with a cure for AIDS. He lived a lavish lifestyle in his many houses and partied lalal la la la in celebland.
Why must the world shed tears over him so much and publicise his death, when millions of people have died who have given back so much to the world in a positive way? I am convinced the only reason why his death is being covered so much is because he starred in ONE good film. Okay, yippy skippy. That and because he has a cute face. Big deal. What else has he done? Starred in other huge blockbuster films that were life altering? Nope. So, what is it?
Loving mothers, fathers, sisters, brothers, cousins, etc die every day. Why is it that they do not get a big hooplah to celebrate their lives? Yes, you can respond that Heath was famous and it's only natural for is death to be all over the news, but that does not make it normal and should not be accepted. What has he done for you? You never knew him! Let his family and friends grieve and you worry about your loved ones!
If there is a heaven, I hope Heath is up there with all of the rest of the celebrities wondering why they aren't receiving special attention anymore.
HI.. I AM RICH!!! I AM SAD BECAUSE OF SO MUCH MONEY AND FAME.. LA DEE DAAAAAAA!!! I WANNA DIE!!! pills PILLS! Bye MKate, youre the best Twig lover anorexic I have ever licked
PS! THE FAMILY IS MAKING A HUGE ASS STATEMENT?? GUESS THEY DONT CARE FOR PRIVACY AFTER ALL!! MILK YOUR SONS DEATH HUNNY!!
Re: KATHY –
I agree.. to a certain point. But I see where you come from. The world really is making too much of it, however he is a celeb, and they are just better than all of us right?
wow, such beautiful things to say about him. My heart aches for his family
wow i guess there are a LOT of heartless fucks writing shit about his family. If you dont care then why the hell are you commenting and going on this site. Don't fucking bother no one whats the hear what u have to say anyway.
So very sorry.
my heart goes out to his familly and many friends…i'm very very sorry for your loss.
My heart was breaking while I read that and a lump formed in my throat. His family wrote the most beautiful things I'd ever seen.
My heart goes out to his family.
Rest In Peach Heath.
We shall all miss you.
xx
i almost cry!
condolences to his family & god bless them
R.I.P
R.I.p
R.i.P
how tragic.
more than likely they'll pay a tribute in all the upcoming award shows starting with screen actors guild.
Re: Howard – wtf is your problem, yes people die everyday but did you realize he's a public figure, and he is much loved by MANY.. you just want to start BS since clearly you have nothing to do.. let people grieve a much talented actor,brother,son,father! damn your ignorant self.
i was heartbroken when i found out he died. he was so young and loved strongly. his familys messages just brought me to tears.
R.I.P heath andrew ledger
RIP Heathe Ledger ='(
i could just cry reading his father's little tribute :[
this is beyond sweet and touching.
tears were streaming down my face as i read that.
crazy how an amazing actor suddenly leaves us.
r.i.p heath, your amazing talents will never be forgotten.
thoughts and prayers to the ledger family during this hard time.
Oh Heath you're adorable .
I blame Michelle Williams! Reports are now surfacing that Heath was worried because he was anticipating that Michelle was going to seek sole custody of their daughter. And where was his daughter has he lay dead? In Sweeden with Michelle on a long movie shoot. Since custody was not handled yet by the courts I would not think that dear Michelle had any right taking her daughter out of the country. Recovering from drugs or not, Heath had a right to have access to his daughter!!!! Michell Williams was obviously playing "the ex" role perfectly by using her daughter as a pawn. Seems as though he died of a broken heart!
Michell Williams is a no talent hack, her acting abilities are equal to that of a junior high drama student, daughter of a big time IRS tax evader, and just all around nothing! I feel sorry for poor Matilda to have to grow up with such a bitter and heartless mother.
the tears are just now rolling down my cheek
i hardly even knew who he was
never took a huge intrest in him infact
yet i now feel like i knew him…reading those messages
he was loved and that love for him can only grow stronger as time grows older
right now i don't see him as a big hollywood star…i see him as a fantastic person who was greatly cared for…someone who lived a great life
since he is basically a stranger to me
AWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW……how sad!! i had little tears in my eyes like i think every person did. Rest in Peace heath. watched brokeback mountain today, and u deserved an oscar..
xoxo
omg.. this letter just made me tear up..
so sad..
such a tragic loss.
i love you, heath ledger.
rest in peace.
i really dont care about the shit about celeb but i really dont like the person who made this page i've never seen him or wait yeah i just saw him with victoria becham but whatever i mean he shoulden't go show the world all about the mistakes celeb do…but then again it's really fun to see\read news about celeb iknow it's not very nice but it's kinda nice to see what kinda mistakes celeb do i mean if you are a fan of them then you can see what kinda of mistakes they do so both im glad and not about the page=)
Re: gigi – THis is an Australian custom. Most families write messages to their loved ones and publish them with either a funeral or death notice in the paper. My family did it for my cousin and grandfather when they died. Does that make us 'famewhore'? You're a moron. That's about two steps up from a pig.
I wish there was a way to turn back the clock Heath…and stop this from happening… One of the most talented and promising actors… so many images left unseen, so many emotions left to portray. And on top of it all, you seemed to be a genuine, nice and real person…
Wish I could turn back the clock and stop this from being true… You won my heart…talent is a most splendorous thing… I wish I could still watch you when we were both in our 60’s. Wish there was a way… My heart sunk when I first heard you were gone… And it sinks everytime I think of you… I just shake my head in sadness and disbelief…
I can´t take your face out of my mind Heath, and Gustavo Santaolalla’s “The Wings” from Brokeback’s soundtrack is playing in my head and won’t stop…Probably because it’s so sad, and so beautiful, and it reminds me of you…
Rest in peace, Heath.
This is just me, one who never met you but now feels as if she lost a very dear and close, special friend, saying goodbye…
You’ll forever be up there with the greats to me Heath…
It’s really hard letting you go…
You will be missed.
Love always,
Daniela.