This Breaks Our Heart
Filed under: Gay Gay Gay > Clay Aiken
Even though he's reported to spend hours trolling the Internet for gay sex, Clay Aiken has revealed that he has NO sex drive at all.
How sad!
He's shut it off, he says. And understandably so, he can't indulge in his sexual needs when he isn't comfortable enough with his sexuality to be open about it.
This excerpt for Clay's new interview with New York magazine makes us wanna cry for the poor un-horny Idol reject:
He does not plan on dating, and he is not involved with anyone. “Heck, no,” he says. “My dogs.” He has never had a romantic relationship with anyone, unless you count the girls he took to dances back in high school in Raleigh. “I just don’t have an interest in … any of that at all. I have got too much on my plate,” he says. “I’d rather focus on one thing and do that when I can devote time to it, and right now, I just don’t have any desire.”
But Aiken is 29 years old and he is also a human. Surely he must have needs. Urges. He contemplates this in silence for 20 or 30 seconds. “Ah think maybe I don’t! I mean, not really. I’ve just kind of shut it off, maybe. Is that bad?”
Do the Claymates really want the Gayken to be so repressed???
I really love Clay. I'll say that upfront. But I'll also be first to admit that he's not an A-List celebrity and that his fan base is very specific (and obviously does not include the average Perez Hilton reader)… So, why in the heck does Perez post about Clay so freaking often?? Based on the comments below, nobody here cares (although they seem to care enough to hate!). Nothing Perez says here will sway his fans and haters will be (self)haters because they know no better (and haven't been loved enough). As a self-professed Clay lover I do acknowlege that there is a good chance that he is gay. SO FREAKING what!!! Why would someone like Perez, who is gay himself, promote such hatred toward another possibly-gay man? Just let him be and allow him to discover himself on his own without your hatred and ignorance hounding him.
This is the same kind of nonsense Boy George spoke in 1982 (he eventaully came out and admitted to ALL kinds of sex with the drummer and many others). It is to keep the HOUSEWIVES clueless. The rest of us–come on! He's got enough money now, he doesn't have to keep torturing himself in that closet!
Hey, isn't that a Hillary Clinton campaign photo?!!
Re: paca –
Dude you are such a fucktard. Get a life!
I BELIEVE HIM. SOME PEOPLE FOR WHATEVER REASON DON'T HAVE THAT STRONG OF A DRIVE IN THAT AREA. DIFFERENT PEOPLE HAVE DIFFERENT DEGREES OF SEXUALITY AND IT'S ALL CHEMICAL AND HORMONAL. I THINK ABOUT GOOD LOOKING GUYS EVERY TEN SECONDS AND FALL IN LOVE WITH MEN VERY EASILY. ONE OF MY FRIENDS LOVES GUYS AND GIRLS EQUALLY AND WITH HIM "IT'S" ALWAYS ON AS WELL. I HAVE STRAIGHT FRIENDS THAT ARE HORN DOGS AND SOME THAT JUST ARENT INTO IT…AND I HAVE A GROWING NUMBER OF FRIENDS WHO FEEL CHEMICALLY AND EMOTIONALLY THAT THEY WERE BORN THE WRONG GENDER. PERSONALLY, I THINK IT'S CREUL THE WAY THEY'RE RIDING CLAY. REMINDS ME OF HIGH SCHOOL WHEN MY SEXUALITY WASN'T FULLY DEVELOPED YET AND PEOPLE WERE CREUL….AND NOW THEY'RE FAT AND BALD WHILE I'M STILL OUT CLUBBING. HOW DO YOU LIKE ME NOW? HOLLA AT YOUR HO
Re: JustSayin – #29 YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY 100% RIGHT. I THINK "OUTING" IS HORRIBLE…FAMOUS OR NOT…UNLESS LIKE YOU SAID IT'S A HYPOCRITICAL GOP TARD LIKE LARRY CRAIG…TEE HEE…I JUST WATCHED HIM ON YOUTUBE CALLING CLINTON A BAD NAUGHTY NAUGHTY BOY! RESTROOM SEX IS DISGUSTING BUT, LIKE BILL, GETTING IT ON IN THE OFFICE WHEN YOU COULD GET CAUGHT IS EXHILERATING AND HOT!!
Re: JustSayin – #29 YOU'RE ABSOLUTELY 100% RIGHT. I THINK "OUTING" IS HORRIBLE…FAMOUS OR NOT…UNLESS LIKE YOU SAID IT'S A HYPOCRITICAL GOP TARD LIKE LARRY CRAIG…TEE HEE…I JUST WATCHED HIM ON YOUTUBE CALLING CLINTON A BAD NAUGHTY NAUGHTY BOY! RESTROOM SEX IS DISGUSTING BUT, LIKE BILL, GETTING IT ON IN THE OFFICE WHEN YOU COULD GET CAUGHT IS EXHILERATING AND HOT!!
Re: Charlie – #105 YEAH "PACA" IS SUCH A FUCKTARD HE ACTUALLY THINKS ENNIS DEL MAR WAS A REAL PERSON WHO DIED OF AIDS. ENNIS DEL MAR WAS A CHARACTER IN A MOVIE PLAYED BY HEATH LEDGER..A STRAIGHT ACTOR. ENNIS WASN'T REAL PACA. WHY DON'T YOU KILL YOURSELF YOU PATHETIC FRIENDLESS LOSER? YOU HAVE NO FRIENDS AND NO LIFE AND I CAN TELL BY YOUR GRAMMER YOU BARELY GRAUATED HIGH SCHOOL SO I THINK YOU SHOULD BLOW YOUR FUCKING BRAINS OUT
Maybe he's anti-social..
Just come out already Clay…everyone knows anyways…
"He's shut it off, he says. And understandably so, he can't indulge in his sexual needs when he isn't comfortable enough with his sexuality to be open about it."
Why don't you stop jumping to conclusions you fucking dipshit? If he IS gay, he'll come out when he's ready, not when you force him to like you did with Lance Bass.
You're such an idiot it's not even funny.
Perez, you gotta do a mercy fuck for Clay. Take one more dick for the team. Then us straight people will catch him with a net when he flies out the closet.
he's being a southern gentleman about. A lot of ppl dont talk about that kind of stuff in the South…it makes ppl feel shameful and uncomfortable…………………I got over it though! Bring on the sex!
He looks like Hilary Clinton!
AN OPEN LETTER TO CLAY AIKEN
Dear Clay,
O.k., its like this…
Coming out to your family is sooooo tough,
but live YOUR life, not theirs.
Re: lisa f –
actually a collective plural has no s.
regardless, typos are a feature of perez's website.
YES CLAY do come out!!! It's perfect timing for ya. You could use that for your next platform to exploit in your quest for fame. You'll pull in the big gay crowds and hopefully sell more albums. Plus that angry, passive aggressive persona you carry around will become more light and fluffy and you just might be likable. I want the naive, cutesie act back that you used to win idol. Tip for claymates: Don't you ladies get tired of the constant sarcastic jibes he throws at you during interviews. On the view he said you embarrassed him during one broadway show. Wow, he really appreciates your support !
Re: paca – HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA! WHAT A FUCKING IDIOT, AGAIN! YOU'RE SUCH AN ASSHOLE YOU CAN'T EVEN DISTINGUISH BETWEEN REAL PEOPLE & FICTIONAL CHARACTERS! THE VENEREAL DISEASE HAS TRULY ROTTED YOUR PEA-BRAIN! YOU NEED TO STOP SUCKING THAT DONKEY'S COCK, THE JIZZ IS CAUSING HALLUCINATIONS! OH WELL, YOU'VE ALWAYS BEEN DELUDED ANYWAY! JUST KEEP SUCKING IT PUSSYBOY!
poor clay! how lonely must that be?
HE LOOKS LIKE HILLARY IN THIS PIC!!! hahahahahahahaaaa…. wow. that's so weird.
look at the hair! seriously!!!
Is this an Andreas Serrano portrait (or just a Serrano ripoff??)
eww he's sp weird and he looks like hilary clinton in this picture
good, great, happy to hear that, b/c the thought of that ugly freak having sex with anything makes me absolutely nauseous and creeps me out to no end.
LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He kinda looks like Hilary Clinton in that picture.
betcha clay gayken whacks his weenie non-stop. so repressed.
What two consenting adults choose to do or not do is their own business. It is a choice to reveal your sexuality not a duty.
I can't stand you outers. Show some respect for an individuals right to privacy. For ffff sake.
I don't want to hear about anything sexual concerning Gayken; thanks.
OMG! Does this mean that he is a virgin? I kind of feel bad for the guy. Everyone needs to be fulfilled sexually at least once in a while.
I don't find anything remotely 'sad' or 'repressed' about Clay Aikens lack of sexual interest in anyone. If he is indeed asexual, then he isn't experiencing any raging desires that would be tormenting him to begin with. Which means he probably feels perfectly fine with the way he is. It is other people who have the problem, not him.
There is nothing 'sad' or 'repressed' about Clay Aiken. If he is indeed asexual then he is not experiencing any raging desires to begin with. Which would mean that he is not suffering any sexual feelings that he is trying to 'repress.' The media in general is so sex obsessed it is easy to forget that there are a lot of people who can easily live without sex and be perfectly happy. What is the big deal anyway? People are born the way they were meant to be born and it seems to me that the quality of a human being should be judged on the basis of the goodness of their hearts rather than the direction their hormones may be leading them.
Again I reiterate, SO FUCKIN WHAT?!
If GOD brings back Heath and Brad,
we`ll give HIM an Aiken ,2 Spears, and
an Olsen Twin!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
OR BOTH
Re: doggie balls – God hates men who suck their own mothers' pussy juice! So you must be at the top of the list cuntsucker! Here you are again hating gays & women, what a wasted piece of shit! BUT, since you don't care that people think you're a sick vile fuckwad I'm sure that ANY woman coming in contact with a fatal disease like you will see through any facade you put up. Are you really Scott Peterson?
that pic of him is soooo ugly to look at. eww
It's NOT repression! Asexualism is a real and respect-worthy sexuality. Be who you are. LOVE who you are! x
WTF…Everyone knows. Clay, you so gay.
Seriously…. no one gives a rats ass
clay's hair dresser should be fired! he acted strange on the view, covering up his mess. gay gay gay very gay!
he is probably asexual! there is nothing wrong with that.
I'm sure glad I don't have Claymates. They have to be the biggest burden to face that any singer could have. Just obnoxious revolting and disgusting people.
He ain't "asexual" you stupid old twatmates.
He's a gay man, he has sex, lots of it, with men.
maybe he decided to become a eunuch so he could hit those high notes.
damn he is ugly…who the hell was the photogtapher that took this picture ?!?
no really…he needs mariah's beauty crew to be able to pose like that -_-'
FYI: HALF THE SHIT IN THT ARTICLE ISN'T TRUE
Jesus, just because the guy is screwing half of his fans doesn't mean he's gay…give him a break
Maybe he's just a Eunuch? The yahve no sex drives, You know Like Michael Jackson would be with out the little boys(If Michael lived in a world of only Adults).
he's starting to look like L.RON HUBBARD….!
reminds me of Boy George a little more than Amy Winehouse does.
George was WAY into heroin years before it became news, so Amy is sort of always right up front about it all.
George was WAY into covering up everything, even his sexuality when he was on the cover of everything. His famous line at his zenith was
"I'd rather have a cup of tea than have sex".
hmmmmm…..boy clay.
Did you know that the original John Boy in the novels that inspired the tv series was actually named CLAY BOY????
Good night, CLAY BOY…
Asexual is the Biology term given to plants and other living things that reproduce but don't actually have sex. Sexual beings are humans and animals. Therefore Clay is a sexual being and not asexual. Unless he is a sunflower.
I don't feel sorry for him. He has more money that all of us posting put together.
This is getting old,who cares who Clay sleeps with!!!! He is awesome!!!! You go Clay!!!! SPAMALOT!!!!!!
So, it is wrong to stereotype gays as being feminine, correct?
But it is okay to say if someone is feminine they must be gay.
Aside from being illogical and not based in fact, that is hypocritical. You can be gay or straight and be more masculine or feminine.
Clay Aiken may be gay. And if he is, who cares?
But who are you (or any of us) to say with affirmation that he really is. Maybe he is really heterosexual. Either way it should not matter and we should not make assumptions about something we cannot measure.
Yeah right, Perez…like you're getting any… Everyone knows gay men are the bitchiest, vainest people on earth…especially the rich celebrity sort you'd come in contact with as a newly wealthy man…And, there's NO WAY they'd do you… Just admit it… Maybe you'd find some strapping black guy still in denial about his sexuality who'd break you off…they did chubby white girls.. but there's NO WAY you're getting any from a hot white guy…SORRY. Even Jay from Project Runway was honest enough to admit that gay guys who look like you two GETS NADA!!!
This is nothing compared to what some of the rabid fans are doing. They are now trying to put Clay with women and not just any women, but Kate Moennig and Daniela Sea from the L-Word. One is an out-and-proud lesbian and the other is an alleged lesbian. They are so desperate to make Clay a straight man and believe being gay is a crime, they are putting Clay with butch-like women. It's disgusting.
The rabid fans from chexxy's pearls and clay's equalizers are the same fans that are putting Clay with the entire cast from the l-word. They are so afraid he is going to "become" gay as they say and ruin their fantasy. They act like being gay is a crime. It's so sick!
Okay, it is totally obvious that Clay Aiken likes tranny prostitutes, and he's trying to cover it by saying he has no sex drive. Yeeeep.
He looks soooooTACKY TACKY TACKY TACKY.
Some of us are AUTOSEXUAL or simply non-sexual people, and we have the same rights as other minorities, so don't be hypocrites by making fun of us "we've got better/more important things to do than roll around in bed for 3 hours - like designing a new aerospace craft, writing the next Romeo and Juliet, or starting the next Microsoft" folks. You make babies; we make history (though gays only make love, but that's sequitur).
Re: Ms Plow – I was just going to say that!!! Gayken could star in "Hillary, The Musical!"
the reason people care about Clay's sexuality is because he has chosen to bring attention to his manhood– whether it was/is to attract men or women is still a mystery to me– although he has attracted both- so it seems
it is interesting to hear him say he is asexual since I think he is just the opposite.. btaim…. I hope he does find love at some point —maybe he will relax and let himself be who he really is.. he must be very lonely if what he says is true
Re: natemo –
I think Clay does not really know what he wants. Maybe whatever he is taking for his anxiety shuts his sexual urges. So What? Who cares?
Speaking as a man who is openly attracted to other men, but has no desire to actually have sex with them, or anyone, Clay's lack of a sex drive is not that big a deal. I hate to break it to everyone, but it is possible to live a full and complete life without sex.
Oh come on, he's not repressed, he's just lying. Soon enough there will be another ex-boyfriend or one night stand coming forward.
OK! has an interview with a ~mysteriously~ gender neutral person claiming to have dated him a couple months ago.
Clay Aiken is not dating Daniela Sea or Katherine Moennig. That is just a rumor the claymates made up to try and "make" Clay a straight man. They would rather he be asexual than homosexual and it's sad that they are that homophobic. It's sick. Why not let Clay be happy?
How could he NOT have a sex drive??? everyone must get horney sometime or another I thought anyways..maybe hes gay and just doesnt want to come out or something?
but like how can he not give his penis any action AT ALL
Clay cannot say he is straight because John Paulus said he would sue. Clay is obviously not straight, but he may not be 100% gay either. Either way, he cannot answer that question and lie again or John will sue him.
the gayken played this card before. Said he wasn't dating and his dog was his only love. That was when he was doing his hair stylist and before Paulus.. He is a major queen and when he does come out, he knows his fan base of old fat homophobe christians will shrink to almost zero. He also knows he likes the money and it is worth this huge lie to keep it coming.
I feel sorry for him.