Speaking Of Chastity…
Filed under: Jonas Brothers
Reading about the Jonas Brothers's vow to remain virgins until marriage, got us thinking….
If you are a young person in America that shares similar beliefs as the Jonas Brothers….
Does oral sex count as losing your virginity?
What about hand jobs???
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Posted: February 22, 2008 at 2:18 pm
Re: The Problem in Prada-TaMarti –
learn how to spell
you satanist
Re: Fraulein_Steve –
I'm sorry they don't want herpes like you do.
and yea Blow jobs and Hand jobs are SEX!
In reply to someone else's comment, Young people DO know that stds can be transmitted through all types of sex. We have that shit pounded into our brains constantly in the public school system. We understand that adults think oral and manual "stimulation" is sex, but we don't share the same values. (at least the majority of teens i've met, including myself) They are both intimate acts, but penetration is the only sex in my book. And dirty christian children vow to remain V's, but loose it and miscarry. (It's true, i've met a few)
i took a vow to stay pure too. i think bjs count. its a kind of sex. i hope they stick to it =] i think its cute. that means they have a strong beliefs. I LOVE THE JONAS BROTHERS!
i think its great and i thnk they count lie ew.. but they count lolz.. they wont do it.. the have a great family and friend support system and they have each other.. now really they wont give in.. if u really REALLY no the joans brothers you no they wont.. they r good guys w/ good beliefes I SUPPORT THEM 150%!!!!! and by the way i have a promise ring too..
Of course, now the gay rumors will start. Str8 men have to prove their manhood and fuck any chick to get 'accepted'. Even at Catholic boys schools, you had to 'get laid' to prove your not a 'fag' or 'nerd'.
People say its hard for girls to grow up, but boys have it twice as bad.
I share similar beliefs as the Jonas Brothers, and oral sex doesn't count as losing your virginity, but it's still going against the promise you make, the purity rings are for staying sexually pure till marriage oral sex is sexual so it counts as going agaisnt the promise, same with hand jobs and blow jobs and all that crap.
Didn't Britney say she was a virgin when banging everyone back in the day???
In retrospect, they do. You feel just as guilty as the real thing afterward.
Someone PLEASE tell me why morons in the 50's are saying FIRST? WHO GIVES A SHIT ANYWAY?? Make a comment idiots. These guys are so ugly that if they do get some before they are married it is just bc of their name.
Tres Little Homos…
FIRST, bitchesss!!!
i thought you used to like them jonas boys?!?! now what are you saying?!?! they are obviously not going to be like britney.
they are going to keep their word! their parents are not like britney's!
I dont think it counts no. Nor do hand jobs.
I adore the jonas brothers very much!
& I support them 100% for staying pure till marriage!
But, I do wonder a lot if they ever masturbate!
hahhaa how can you not go through life without
at least doing it once!
you know Joe has for sure!
Who the fuck would say that oral sex and hand jobs "don't count"? Anyone who says that is morally bankrupt. There is no such thing as a virgin because we're all human from Day One– we are SEXUAL BEINGS. Virginity is an archaic concept– it was all about a woman being a man's "property." The mere history of it should offend ALL of you. And just take a look at what happened to Jessica Simpson. She waited her whole life to get married and then cheated on her husband and now sleeps around. What a surprise, that she was in fact morally bankrupt this entire time. And I am so fucking sick of you bastards defining yourselves based on a completely MEANINGLESS TERM. You don't "become" sexual when you have sex. You don't "lose" any aspect of yourself when you have sex. When you love someone, you should have sex– why the fuck would you hold back? And if someone asks you who was your first love, what are you going to say? "Uhhh, I'm not sure." That's soooooooo fucking romantic. There are so many of you brainwashed assholes out there that it depresses me beyond words. Some of the most innocent people I've known have been in love and had sex, and some of the most immoral people I've known have been conceited self-professed "virgins" who are in actuality hypocrites and unattractive.
neither counts unless your married!! Then its "sex"
For those people saying that purity is stupid, um no its not. its accually really smart. and its beliefs that some people have. dont try and call us stupid when were doing what we believe just like your doing what you believe.
It's so funny to me that everyone here is saying it doesn't count. If your wife gives some other guy a blow job are you going to say it doesn't count? What if your husband gets a blow job and herpes? It's not chastity.
I, by the way, am far from chaste. But I'm informed about STD's, and give me a break– if you think oral sex is "safer" than penetration, you ought to do a little research. You can get herpes from a virgin, my friends. Educate yourselves.
Re: i am virgin too…not!! – i love virgin
wow.
that would suck.
i wouldnt vow to be a virgin till i got married,
who knows how long it will take for them to gett married.
wow. they must be hornyyy!
raha.
there still mint as thhought.
Let's face the facts, Perez. The only reason you are caught up on this is because you've got a pedo crush on all three & if you were ever given the opportunity, you'd like to think they wouldn't mind to do anything but 'the real thing' with you.
You are a twisted soul who needs to be saved more than anything.
Truthfully? The Jonas Brothers are way better than you & any other popstar. NO. Not because of their music. I know many people who make better music than them. & NO. Not because of their looks. I'd rather date someone else. -But because they have morals unlike the rest of Hollywood.
My vote is for them to keep the silver bands & wish that their parents could have raised stars like Britney Spears, Lindsay Lohan or Paris Hilton.
I dont think the JB count oral or hand jobs as sex. I mean we already know Miley Cyrus has most definatly has sucked Nicks dick real good. Joe probably has done everything but sex. Kevin, well Kevin theres not much to say. I mean they are guys they do have needs, unless they just masterbate in there tour bus.
I have to say, the jonas brothers come from a strong religious family, they are being influence by their parents. I won't be surprise if that is a reason why they decided to get themselves a ring….. Also, is not hard to lead a free sex life.
I personally have a purity ring and I am already in my 20's. I don't need sex… my boyfriend really respect my decision to wait until marriage.
And I have several guy friends that want to save themselves… and trust me.. they are not gay… they actually make fun of themselves how hard it is… not doing anything… lol
As for your question. Any type of SEX is unacceptable. Having a purity ring… it means you will be carrying a pure life.. such as not doing no sexual acts…
hand jobs might be ok for guys.. but many choice not too…. so they stay away from porn or anything that might trigger their little buddy to get happy.
If you want a purity ring.. you really need to be 100 percent sure is something you really want to do… so good luck! Is not as bad as it sounds… really.
THEY SOUND LIKE NICE MORAL KIDS WHO WOULDNT APPROVE OF HOMOSEXUALS EITHER
Aaaw, they are so cute that they make me wanna f*ck em! ~_^
LADIES & GENTLEMEN!
I give you the Queen of ALL Media!
He is so up-to-date.
My god Perez, this is something that was known to the public since 05. Nice Perez. Nice.
Next time you want to bash them, try to think of something that every Jonas fan DOESN'T know.
& by the way, the fact that they want to remain pure doesn't suprise you. It's the fact that you won't get anything from them if you tried.
3 guys that look like that and they want to keep their virginity until they get married??? GAY GAYER GAYEST.
lol all this bullshit about god is soo pathetic. I'm not gonna go into the whole thing too much but whatever you shouldnt let things that the bible says control your life. Oh and so what if you think im going to hell i couldnt care less. There is way too many god obsessed people in this world who try and force their beliefs on people.
I am 18, and im a virgin. VIRGIN MEAN HAVING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE! nothing else counts.
Ive given head and hand jobs and gotten fingered but im still a virgin. I am also not a whore.
These boys will regret saying this because all humans have needs and urges.
oh well their loss
haha so all 3 brothers decided this together? were they holding hands at the same time? LAME! sex rules. and if i were those guys i'd be looking to get BJs left and right. BJs dont count handjobs rule but dont count but i have ta say anal…thats pretty close to sex.
What pussies, ever girl would probabaly fuck these boys dry, including miley cyrus and they wanna remain virgins….. I bet in 5 months we will see a video with them and Lance Bass….(yeah I'm calling them gay)
oral sex IS considered sex! you can still acquire all kinds of std's from oral sex if condoms aren't used. so play it safe…wear gloves (condoms).
Oral/anal sex is still sex. I commend them for making this vow. I hope they can stick to it.
i think it's admirable for the jonas brothers to take so strong a stand. why does everyone want so badly for them to fail? just because you've given up trying to control your sexual drive, or never even wanted to try in the first place, doesn't mean other people can't do it. or that there's something wrong with them for doing it. so why is everyone so hateful toward these kids for doing something they feel is important? they're not hurting you. they're not condemning you.
and sure, they might mess up, but what if instead of screaming "i told you so" or "hypocrite" we realize how many promises we've ever fallen through on. their screw ups are the same as ours. there's just no reason to be so hateful. lighten up.
no it doesn't count..
Ok all you guys sayin that if you belive it doesn't count your stupid you need to shut up. I am not knocking you because of what you belive. I am sorry but it is NOT sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! YES IT IS A SEXUAL ACT AND IF YOU WANT TO REMAIN PURE YOU SHOULDN"T DO IT……BUT straight out sex is vaginal or anal.
Sure its easy now they,re not in love or in a serious relationship I had the oportunity to make that promise but yeah to me it was more with my self I wanted to wait for that person who waited for me so yeah and I did I think they'll lose it when they do don't matter age lol or get raped by a crazy fan lol
Didn't the Hanson bros do something similar? And they all got married very young as I recall! I think these guys can do it if they get married at a young age………alot of really devout Christians do!
For all the Christians on the board- what do they tell you at church when you are still waiting for that special man or woman to come along when you are in your later 20's, 30's, or 40's? I would love to see a Christian who is older come out and say that they are still waiting! I just don't think it's that hard to say no when you are a teenager, especially when your values tell you it's wrong!
People are getting married much later these days…….How do you handle that if your're trying to wait and there is no husband/wife in sight?
or getting fuck in the ass still counts as a virgin???????!!!!!!!!!!
All I know is you ho's better stay away from my joebee-kins.
OMG-what loser the JonASS brothers are! that is so gay to loose your viginity until your married! god, everyone who turns 17 will loose thier virginity! now im pretty sure they are gay,because no guy can resit having sex!! what losers and FAGSS!
wow reminds me on britney spears and look how well that turned out.
this isnt really new, they have been public about their chastity since they first came onto the scene a couple of years ago. they seem to be really into their vow, i dont think its just a publicity stunt and i really do think they will stick to it.
Their A hole's have already been stitched up from rough gay sex!
Re: ELAINE – YOU ON THE OTHER HAND SOUND LIKE A SLUT WHO'D LOVE TO SUCK THE SHIT OUT OF MY ASSHOLE! SO PUCKER UP AND INHALE CUNT!
It is your choice how far you want it to go. I would know this because, i have one also. Those boys are great role modelsandif you dont like them, keep your fucking mouth shut.
Kay thanks (:
Oh and Perez the boys said that you are one of the websites they visit most often.
Here's the thing (:
10. What's your favorite Website?
Our MySpace page, but we do use Google a lot and we like PerezHilton.com.
It was on a seventeen interview!
dunno if they will stick to it becuase i dont know them as people but yeah thyev done this pure thing since way before they were famous
shame tho……
THEY ARE PERFECTLY CONTENT AND SATISFIED DOING EACHOTHER.
They crave attention, its pathetic.
no oral sex and handjobs don't count, at least to me
losing virginity is when you have actual intercourse.
I THINK THAT IS GREAT AND THEY ARE AWESOME FOR BEING THAT WAY……NOT TOO MANY PEOPLE WANT TO LIVE WITHIN THE GRACE OF GOD…BUT I GUESS THEY'LL GET MARIED AT LIKE THE AGE 18.
You take this website that seriously?
Frankly, thats a no life nerd thing :B
Go read a book,internet is killing your braincells.
I think I speak for most people in america when I say, Who the hell are these guys?
Only actual sex counts, oral and givng hand/fingering or anal dont but it depends on the person really.
Is this possible? There are virgins still in existence over the age of ten? Finally! For goodness sakes, with all the craziness with our beloved teens in the world we need to start a virgin cult cause honestly…
i hateeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee them
how are they going to keep these promises when they have girls all over them all the time
i saw them last night they were absoulutely ahhhhmazing and so gorgeous i got to meet them too =] and i got hugs from all three of them! it was all so breathtaking
depends on how conservative you are, plenty of people i know who plan on staying virgins don't count those things. I personally don't believe that it counts as losing your virginity but it does seem to rather defeat the purpose of staying pure and keeping those sexual things for your significant other.
yeah it absolutely does count. its the same thing. what you get from that is the same thing you get from sex. its ridiculous that everyones making fun of them for it. just because theyre guys who actually have self control and who respect their future wives enough to wait…i think ya'll are just bitter cuz you didnt and got hurt emotionaly by it.
i go to a catholic school and ever since 5th grade we were taught that even having "lust" for another person is a sin and in 8th grade my teacher flipped out at a public speaker telling us just to kiss cause apparently to her that is a sin at our age and we are not ready for such a serious commitment
but idk it depends on the person, religion, and beliefs, and i guess morals
wow you people are really ignorant! the jonas brothers are in no way like britney spears! she is a dirty slutty hick! the jonas brothers on the other hand are classy and smart and their father is a minister! they took a vow to chastity a long time before they were famous so just leave them alone and get a life! and just so everyone knows:they are NOT gay at all! ur just jealous assholes
you can't have a good marriage unless you have good sex.
how are you going to know if the sex is good if you only do it AFTER you get married? and besides that, how are you going to know if it's good or bad if you only do it with the one person you marry, and you have no one to compare it to?
LOL! It's all an image for the fans! THEY ARE LIARS like Britney, Lindsey, Jamie-Lynn, ect ect! LMAO!
i took a vow of chastity when i was 12 and i stand by that im 16 now
plus its not like im a "loser" because i have morals so far all of my boyfriends have respected me more because of it and i dont see the point in giving yourself to someone unless its someone you truely love and i know you can love before marriage by why not wait and prove that you have self control. i respect jb and think other people should really think about it.
PS- perez oral sex doesnt count its actual intercourse
I love that they want to stay VIRGINS I hope they can in this day and age. These kids today are over sexed and need something to look forward to as an adult. Hey I have a daughter that is on this same page. Maybe they can meet up in 10 to 15 years and make a great family. Thats what I am talking about.
Go VIRGINS
You say that this will break when they are 20 but does anyone realize how old Kevin is? He is either having a reall hard time with keeping his promise (but I am not sure which girl would want to do that shit with him) or he is lying.
Blow Job does count as not being "pure" but you'd have to ask them about a hand job. My friend supposedly wants to be "pure" but already did both.
if your making a vow of chasity because youre a christian, like the boys are,
then you wouldnt do blow jobs or hand jobs.
its vulgar.
If you climax and you're not the only one in the room. That's sex.
i highly doubt that they will keep that promise. and bj's and hj's don't count as losing your virginity to me.
Blowjobs are not oral sex unless you swallow because you can't get pregnant unless you swallow.
no
PEREZ SHUT UP.
they are CHRISTIANS! can you not get that through your multicolored head??!
even if those things didnt count [[which they DO]] jb wouldnt do that.
theyre not just normal teenage guys. gahhh i almost wish you didnt like them bc youre such a pain in the ass about everything.
My boyfriend has herpes so he can only have oral sex to protect me!!!
Re: Katie – HA HA HA! Honey, you're just aching for a response aren't ya?
i don't think that those count as losing your virginity, but someone who has taken a vow to stay pure until marriage, like myself, probably wouldn't do those things. even though i'm not religious, i still think it's important to wait to have sex until a little later in life, when you know who you are and if you're truly ready for that commitment.
and just a note; the jonas brothers took their purity vows before they even formed the band, so this isn't really anything new.
I am a huge JB fan, and i personally think that bj's will count.
but not hand jobs.
PEREZ FOR PREZ in 08!
i think its sweet that they vowed to stay pure, thats another reason why all of the girls fall for them, they aren't worried about having sex. i vowed to stay pure also, and i haven't broken that promise, why would i? Shouldn't you be married, and in love to give a guy your 'special' gift?. i think so. but that's just me, i feel that you can still have a realationship without sex. If thats all the guy wants from you then whats the point? At least if you dated on of the Jonas boys, then you'd know that sex isn't the reason they like you, you'd know that they aren't just dating you so that they can 'get some'.
Go Jonas Boys!.
Well, they don't count as losing your virginity, but if they made that kind of commitment, then doing anything sexual would be wrong.
im 16 and i dont count bjs or handjobs.
FOR THOSE THAT MAKE THE VOW OR JUST DECIDE TO BE VIRGINS UNTIL MARRIAGE, IT IS A DECISION THEY MAKE BECAUSE THEY BELIEVE THAT SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE IS INMORAL, THEREFORE ORAL SEX FALLS UNDER THE CATEGORY OF INMORALITY. HOWEVER, THOSE THAT MAKE A PROMISE WITHOUT GIVING TOO MUCH THOUGHT (STUPID PEOPLE) WILL PROBABLY TRY OTHER THINGS. SIMP[LE AS THAT
It's pathetic that showbiz people use virginity or faith as selling point. And these kids are too young to understand that what they are saying will come back to bite them in the butt big time. Their agent, manager, marketing executives from their label told them to make a full of themselves.
What if you are not ready to get married in your 20s, not finding the right person or whatever, are you going to be a 30 year old virgin? That's just creepy.
Doesn't that remind you Jessica Simpson? Now she will fuck anyone who has a movie.
i really like the jonas brothers and i think they have a high chance of staying virgins till marriage. but they will have to battle temptation. i'm a virgin teen n i think oral, vaginal, and anal count as sex. but jerking off is ok. i mean, they're teenage boys. they have to jerk off– christian or not. as long as they dont make their sex habits public, they could last. but since kevin is the oldest, i'm thinking he's gonna lose it first. his bros are gonna ask wat it felt like and he's gonna tell them. so who knows…
JOE is so sexxi!
Remember when Britney Spears was BRAGGING about being a virgin? She had us all fooled even though the REMAINS OF HER HYMEN dragged behind her like a tail for years.
NORMAL AMERICAN teenage boys don't want to be virgins. Period.
And why are these three BRAGGING about it as if they are saying they are BETTER than those NORMAL AMERICAN non-virgens?
These three need to get LAID and FAST. Then they should get haircuts. They look like they have small black poodles sitting on their head.
AND THEY'RE NOT CUTE. THEY ARE F-U-C-K-I-N-G—–U-G-L-Y.
That's right… Ugly, uppity "pretend" virgin boys who hide behind a tossled mess of bad hair.
They need to find a hairdresser who is also a whore. After she works on one head she can work on the other head behind the belt buckle.
MY GOSH. Stop ragging on them. What has this world come to if three innocent boys can't have good moral values and be good kids without someone hating on them? I think they have a very high chance of remaining virgins till marriage.
i think they can MOST DEFFINETLY keep their promise!! they have a great family and support system..
hey maybe thats why beastly cyrus broke up with nick!!
for me, my promise to God is all about staying totally sexually pure, so yeah Im not gonna give handjobs or bjs until im married, if I ever marry, but Im not totally sure what the official Christian stance on this is.
Re: dan – first of all.. NEVER EVER EVER compare them to britney spears, theyre nothing like her!! Unfitney has problems, and its pretty obvious she wasnt a virgin even when she claimed she was. the jonas brothers have had these purity rings for a long time, THEY ARE NOT bragging about their vow!! people ask them about theyre rings and they just answer okay? great. they don't think that they're better than anyone else, they are so humble and down to earth. so your basically saying anyone that promises to stay pure until marriage thinks theyre better then all of the rest. you have no respect for woman whatsoever!! i'm sorry they dont wanna sleep with random girls and treat them like crap just because they wanna get laid. THEY RESPECT WOMEN. their parents taught them well. they want to save it until they find the perfect person whom they marry, more guys should be like nick, joe, and kevin. SERIOUSLY, SOME OF YOU ARE SO FUCKIN STUPID. why do you even waste your time, these boys WILL stay true.. and theyre very goodlooking, and STRAIGHT. just because they wanna wait til marriage doesnt make them gay.. let them believe in what they wanna believe in. THEYRE SETTING A PERFECT EXAMPLE FOR EVERYONE AND BEING GREAT ROLEMODELS. they didnt do this for publicity. one more thing perez. why are you turning on JB? you used to LOVE them, now your just making fun of them? the jonas brothers are amazing, theyre some of the sweetest guys in the world.
they are so cute :]]
i think its adorable how they have purity rings
didnt nick date that slut miley cyrus? NO WAY IS SHE A VIRGIN.. but hey they did break up, probly cause he wouldnt sleep with her
they can deff do this
Just wait a couple more years! I bet one of them will get a super model knocked up!
As a 25 year old virgin, I do everything but intercourse…. Maybe its growing up during the Clinton admin that helped shape my definition of virginity…. Who knows
It also makes me wonder! Do you think that the Jonas brothers have homophobic and Anti-Semitic views as well!? Since most people who talk about how any sex outside of marriage is sinful are also likely to hate the gays as well! Many that have that view are also likely to think that Jewish and Muslim and Hindu exc exc are going to go to hell as well!
THink of it this way! Would you buy a car without driving it? Or Buy a house without looking inside it?
Re: prude – What a wonderful life you have, you stupid bitch.
Re: JONAS FOR PRESIDENT – Yeah I agree. They'll stay "true." And then they'll get divorced.
Re: JONAS FOR PRESIDENT –
Woud that be a bad thing if they were gay!?!
besidese anything that says sex or can give you an std counts…
Re: The Problem in Prada-TaMarti – You need to get an education, and understand religion! So, from an educated woman…F you!
Dude miley Cyrus probably fucked all three of them last night