Nobody Puts Perez In The Corner!
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Posted: March 6, 2008 at 12:51 pm
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Nobody Puts Perez In The Corner!Filed under: Personally Perez > PerezTV > Patrick SwayzeHe's like the wind! Posted: March 6, 2008 at 12:51 pm
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Wow Perez, thanks for sharing that with us, about death, your father and all. I feel so sad for Patrick Swayze too. Big hugs coming your way Perez!!!
Perez ~ I have never commented anything before and never really felt the need to, but this time I do. That was deep. . . . . . . and certainly beautiful. I like seeing this side of you
You have an awesome personality and I just love ya! Thanks for the words Perez!
Live everyday like it's your last. Everyone laughs when I say that's the reason I don't do overtime at work, but I hate it and I don't want to spend my last hours in a job I hate. It just pays the bills. They don't understand as they've never lost anyone to cancer, they don't think they'll get it young, they don't think it could be them.
Unfortunately when you're given a year to live with cancer, you spend most of it in pain, being sick, going off your food, losing weight, passing out, having a Hickman line to pump chemo into you, crying, getting angry, doing research and trying to find a cure, trying to get everything in order around the house for your family. The last thing you get to do is go on holiday, they won't insure you and you feel so shit you're not up to it. My Mom was 55 when she was diagnosed with colon cancer, they gave her a year, she lasted for 2. If you want to stay in this world so much, fighting and not giving up can buy you some time and might just cure you. I wish Patrick all the best, it's not the cancer half that time that makes you feel ill, it's the chemo and the cocktail of drugs you have to be on. FIGHT ON PATRICK.
WORD Perezito!
Re: Dan – If you hate him so much, what are you reading his site for? Funny as it is, Perez are friends with all the celebrities he writes about. They know it's what he does for living. Perez is a good man. He helps so many people every day, with his site, cause if your life sucks, it's nice to read about someone whos life sucks too. It makes you feel better about yourself. So shut your mouth. Asshole
Nice to see you have a kind soul down in there, Perez. You're right - he has been in some notable movies that have left an indelible mark on our pop culture. One movie you forgot to mention was The Outsiders. Maybe too Old School for most readers on here but it was big in its day. And the hilarious SNL skits he did with Chris Farley too. He's an all around talent. Get well Patrick.
I know exactly how you feel Perez…My father passed away suddenly a year and a half ago and it still feels like it was just yesterday. It never gets easier. It really does make you realize that life can be taken away from you when least expect it. Live everyday to the fullest and make sure that you take the time to make yourself happy…no just others.
Love you!
My Dad died the same way Perez.
I'm sorry you had to go through that too.
xoxo
*aaaw* you'd make a good dad ’cause you've got that CLEAR knowledge where here only for a couple years, the *poof!* you're gone. AND you're not being selfish, ’cause once you DO have a kid, it's the MOST self-less person you turn into. your edurance of staying up/alert and patience is tested to an insane level. day-after-day teaching a little person how to talk, and show love…..plus, its pretty cool that they pick up on your manerisms, my kids love all the music i love (for now), and you see your extended family IN them. triiiiipy. so yeah……that'd be cool to see. a little mini-perez, heehee!
Thanks for the hug. I really needed one.
I give one to you too.
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You're not a fatalist! You're a Cuban we are raised to live in anticipation of that proverbial shoe to drop.
I am so sad about Patrick Swayze…It's a sham
HUGS,
V
I just went & bought the Dirty Dancing movie & CD & the movie Ghost. I like Patrick Swayze I hope he gets well.
Perez you have to to stop waiting for the bomb to drop that is no way to live! You are doing something you love to do and that is why good things are good. You have to follow your heart and know you deserve all the good things that come your way! Don't will bad things to happen to you. I'm a new mom and having a kid puts it all in perspective their is no blessing better! Go for it have a baby it will bring so much LIFE into your life you will wonder what you did before having one. And then they throw a tissy fit in the middle of a restaurant and decide maybe take out is the way to go. Good luck to you and may you have all the success you desire and deserve!
Dear Perez, big hugs to you as well. My dad's mother died when he was 7 and his dad died when he was just turning 15.. it has definitely affected him as person, and I am so sorry for the pain and loss you have felt and continue to feel. I have no doubt you will be a wonderful father, your heart is so big despite what people may think.. I know what it's like to expect the worst to protect yourself from hurt, and I respect your courage to share how you feel with us… It is a very personal thing, but something we all must go through and you should know that regardless of whether you have children or not, you will live on.. You have been such an inspiration to so many GLBT youth out there, and you will always be iconic for it. You make a difference Perez, and not a purely negative one as some would suggest. The positive impact you have had on all of our lives will live on and inspire generations to come.
I'm sure this is just one more comment you may not get around to reading, but I hope you know how much we love and support you.
*big hugs* xoxo
I will give you a hug and have your baby
!!!!!
I hear what you are saying Perez….life is very short and very precious…but it seems to me you forget, and all too much, that EVERY life is precious. Including yours, and yet by reading some of your posts that you put up even after this one….you continue to make other people's lives miserable, by more or less laughing, teasing, and taunting them when their chips are down whether or not they brought it on themselves, they certainly don't need horrible reminders. But I guess that is what is making life so good for you right now, right? So I have to say how can I believe that you really care about anything when clearly your actions prove otherwise.
Huge hug to you Perez!! HUGE HUG!! and LOTS of POSITIVE thoughts for the Swayze family!! Patrick Rules!!!
That was Sweet PereZ. MY best wishes 4 Patrick, I Love Him
www.pancan.org and www.lustgarten.org
research + hope = a cure
Well, hopefully it makes you think a little more carefully about how you might feel if something horrible happened to someone like Denise, Avril or Rumor. Would you feel good about yourself and your life if Rumor comitt suicide tomorrow? Yes, life is too short. Life is too short to be putting people down and influencing followers to do the same. Life is too short for the kind of knowingly ignorant negativity that will always do more harm than good. Let's not forget that our words and actions can be like ripples from a stone thrown in a calm lake. Would you like to die with that on your shoulders, knowing you could have done something different, or better, that would have had a more positive ripple effect? Maybe not - Not until you are already dead, reviewing the effects of the harmful stones you have cast.
this has really changed my thoughts of u, theres more to you than all that gossip
love u! keep it up ur blog cheers me up any daay.
My grandmother just passed away about a month ago from pancreatic cancer, and she died 4 days after being diagnosed. We were told that the minute you have a symptom it's too late to save you. Luckily, Grandma had a stroke (I know this sounds terrible) and died very quickly, because from what I understand it's also the most painful cancer of all and there is little to no treatment.
So sad!
I am in the process of losing someone close to me to cancer. Its nothing short of devastating. I feel for patrick and his family. We too were given a few weeks to a few months- thankfully we are past the original prognosis and she continues to take one day at a time. I often joke with her that she should dye her hair purple and run naked through the streets. But she continues to live her life as she always has. With dignity and honesty.
Get a grip. Fuck.
Perez you are such a sweetie. Sending you hugs! ((( ))) Kisses for Teddy too.
Hugs to you too Perez
perez, you are wonderful.
thank you for being so honest.
thanks for the hug… hugs to you.
=)
I have thought about many of the same things as you said you do, Perez…
wow that was sincer go perez!!!!!!
Perez is like the wind, maybe a stinky fart……
Thanks for being so real and sharing that with us!!!
Perez you are an amazing guy.Thank you all of your wonderful posts.Love and hugs coming your way from Scotland! XOXOXOXOXOX
God perez! Its so nice to see this kind of side to you I have your page as my home webpage so whenever I go online you page is the first to pop up and I really like almost in a sense seeing you as a human not just this crazy blogger who gets down on ppl but in a funny way I might add cause I love you! but yea thanks for making see you in a differnt manner I love you and hope all goes well in you life
I love that you are so Emo. You have a big heart. I am not sick, but I think of death all the time too. I wonder "what if" all the time. I keep telling myself that I'm not afraid to die, but then when I dwell on it, I think I may be afraid. My thoughts and well wishes to Patrick and to all of you that are not well with whatever ails you.
And hugs to you, Perecito!!! You are such a sweet, sweet boy!!! I think that when a young person (Patrick Swayze) is told by doctor "you are going to die," the young person gets into an altogether different plane and the thinking changes. After the little bit of the shock, then everything goes forward pretty positively. When/if the time comes when the illness takes hold, then the person is in bed, helped by others, by medicine, there is humor in things. When the end comes, so it comes. Don't you think? Shock, acceptance, "I'm going to beat this," putting a positive face forward, decline, end. And that's that. The reason that everything in your life is going so well, PERECITO, is the positive thoughts and wishes going your way from all of your fans (us!). I see your name dropped EVERYWHERE–Bazaar, Vogue (Perez Hilton said…the queen of all media reported…Perez Hilton first announced). Do you even KNOW IT?!! Enjoy your beautiful life, and for everything bad in your gorgeous brain, I say: SOLAVAYA!!!!!!!
aww perez! you are so sweet! and it is totally normal to think about death and be completly scared about it, because it IS the scariest thing in the world. all we can do is live our life in a good way that makes us happy, and try to touch the lives of others. my prayers are with patrick swayze. and remember, miracles happen everyday, and maybe today is patrick's turn!
LOVE YOU PEREZ!!!
perez, at first i kept coming back because of your silly wicked humor, but soon i discovered the huge heart underneath it all. i love you.
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Wow Perez, that hit home. My dad had a brain anyurism and suddenly passed away when I was 15. After I am now 27 and have had alot of death in my life. i have had best friends, uncles, and i have no grandparents left alive. I try to live life to the fullest because I know in an instant it can all be gone. I find myelf thinking about death alot and i think that it is because i have been surrounded by so tragedy. Last year my grandfather (dads dad) passed away from cancer and then the very next night my Uncle on my moms side died of a massive heart attack. I pray for everyone who has to deal with all this pain. Like Madonna said "Poor is the mans whose pleasure depends on permission of another." Make life ROCK!~420
CONGRATULATIONS PEREZ !!
YOU'LL SOON DIE OF AIDS !!!!!
FUCKING WHALE, NO WONDER WHY EVERYBODY AROUND YOU DIES, YOU'RE SUCH A FUCKING PAIN IN THE RECTUM !!
DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE !!!!!!CONGRATULATIONS PEREZ !!
YOU'LL SOON DIE OF AIDS !!!!!
FUCKING WHALE, NO WONDER WHY EVERYBODY AROUND YOU DIES, YOU'RE SUCH A FUCKING PAIN IN THE RECTUM !!
DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE !!!!!!CONGRATULATIONS PEREZ !!
YOU'LL SOON DIE OF AIDS !!!!!
FUCKING WHALE, NO WONDER WHY EVERYBODY AROUND YOU DIES, YOU'RE SUCH A FUCKING PAIN IN THE RECTUM !!
DIE DIE DIE DIE DIE !!!!!!
this honestly touched me. haha oh perez you are just the sweetest.
that was sucha nice video , cant believe bout patrick so sad, i downloaded all the songs from dirty dancing and Ghost, seriously just cant believe it, hope he does well , will be thinkin of him and saying my prays…
xx
Perez you are sweet to care, but… please do something with that dustrag of a mop of hair already! Shave! You could be such a good looking guy, why does it look like you are wearing a bad toupee?
my grandpa died of pancreatic cancer
and it sucked. ur so gone at the point of being diagnosed because they put u on TONS of medications. it changes ur personality and by that point it was a good moment wen our grandpa died cuz we knew he didnt have to suffer anymore
xo
You made me cry baby, but you're right about everything, love and hugs.
Aww… perez… big hugs to you too! you are so sweet in this video, no one ever gets to see this side of you. I love your website and coming here everyday lets me kind of take a break from the real world… so thanks. you are appreciated.
patrick was supposed to come visit my cousin back in the early 90s as a part of the make a wish foundation. she was obsessed with his movies. unfortunately he was too late and she died a couple weeks before after a long battle with leukemia. just the fact that he was coming comforted her so much, though. i think he really helped to put her at ease and she could go in comfort.
i hope patrick will pull through, because he's touched so many lives through his acting.
I know Perez! It affected me too. So hard to believe, but cancer has no limitations. I just got over Breast Cancer and I am only 35! You have to think positive eveyday! I believe in God and have a positive attitude. I also go to your site everyday! It brightens my day!
Hey Perez, have you heard of 2012?
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Perez! dont make me cry! ahhh i can never watch people cry! I love you and will never forget you and you would be an AWESOME father! that would be sooo cool.. i love my dad too tho
lots of hugs
There is no death.
Don't feel bad.
We're all OK.
Thanks for that vlog Perez. Hopefully Patrick will be one of those people that beats the odds… 5% right? Gotta think positive! Life is so short, and you never know what tomorrow will bring. Oh, and I think you'd be a great dad… If you feel ready, go for it.
oh Perez , that was so sweet, you made me cry, you have such a big heart, I know you are not nasty, you just are doing what made you famous, that's all, you are a nice person, I love you babe
what a touching post, perez. this is my first post, although I am watching your page since a long time. I can totally understand your thoughts. And although I think it´s weird to read gossip ( I do it myself, I know…), to write gossip,… it´s good to see that you do what you do with passion, emotion and a good mind.
I am 24 and I also already lost a few beloved friends and relatives through tragic circumstances. that totally changed my view for life in an extreme way. suddenly you become aware of your own evanescence. I all at once realized that no none but myself has the responsibility to decide day by day about my life (which is hard work!). I learned about the significance to be good to others to receive good energy. even more necessary is the love for one self. for the only life, body and soul we have… no matter how bad we feel. the secret is to reach a balanced harmony of your body, mind and most important SOUL. so many people talk about it and it surely is hard work for me - day by day. when you start to listen to your inner voice, you start to eat healthy (which is reason number 1 for most of the diseases) and to generally overthink your life you´re in right now. well, I didn´t want to write a novel, but I felt like having to add someting to this subject. give yourself an inner smile and keep up the good work!
This video totally makes up for all the crap you've said about celebs over the years. It shows that behind your bitchy façade, you're a genuinely good and caring human being. I totally agree with you, life is too short to spend it doing something we don't like. I really hope Patrick Swayze gets better, he may not be an A-list actor anymore, but he's still a talented man and it would be a tragedy if he did die.
hugs to you and Patrick, Perez
Youre a lovely person Perez, lots of hugs to you from Sweden!
Perez, don´t think about death so often, I know it is difficult, but it is better to keep your mind busy thinking about your everyday life and how would be the best way to spend it.
Hugs!
Re: George Bush III – Re: George Bush III – erm fuck off george bush the thrid….y the fuck r u on perez's site u dickhead….PEREZ I LUUUUUUUUUV UUUUUUUUU!!!!!
Oh wow!! I felt you on this one!! I have the same fears that you have!! I have been sick for over 10 years….2 weeks out of every month I have bad pains!!! Doctors still cant figure it out!! MY bigest fear is that I will be alone for ever because who will want me like this right?!~ commitment is a big issue for me! Thank GOD! I have the best family in the world! I think about having kids 2 but I think they are for selfish reasons….I just dont want to be alone when I get older….but just the thought of having kids scares me! I dont know what else to say….I think your video pretty much covered it!
I give you a big HUG from the heart!! You are such a cute teddy bear!
Love, Gigi
Perezze, you deserve everything you have achieved, so don't feel hesitant about the transient nature of 'things' or 'being', just enjoy the fruits of your labour. Thank you for all your hard work. HUGS!
i'm glad you took the time to say all of this… wish more people that have the outlet like you do would…just speak out loud & allow people to relate & not feel alone… luv you perez…
luv you patrick swayze…believe it or not - your work somehow made a small impact in my life…
Perez,
Thank you for taking the time to speak out on this. I was shocked as well. I agree with the girl who said he would probably like for people to know he is still alive today and that is a gift. I am ashamed of the people on here who use this comment space to count first 4th or whatever. I wish Perez there was a way to delet them or have them not show up on these comments. Since I rarely comment unless I feel compelled to. Pray for his family his friends. God Bless from Texas!
Bless you Perezito
I'd give you a hug too, Perez. But please, don't hate doctors, we try our best and sacrifice so much of our time and personal life to save/heal/comfort other people. Many times it's not possible, but we keep on trying. Patrick, God bless you.
perez, you would make such a good father. you are so sensitive and open and sharing that with your children would be the best gift you could ever give. i just adore you. thanks for being so real and sweet.
i like Patrick Swayze and i'd like to send him by best wishes.God bless him!Perez i didn't know this about your dad.i'm so sorry about that.and i understand that your tears especially this time are REAL cuz you still have a lot of pain inside u for the loss of your father.and although you r the queen of internet gossip deep down you're so sweet and sensitive.that's why i love u so much.
THIS IS REALLY SAD TO ME.MY DAD FOUND OUT HE HAD THE SAME CANCER ON MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND AND DIED RIGHT BEFORE 9-11.
i've never posted a comment before, but i just have to let you know, baby–you're totally amazing and i love you. this video ruled. felt it in my heart. HUGS.
Bless you Perez. Remember to feel that pain and anguish when you make fun of Rumer. Sorry to hear about your dad and grandpa.
wow perez
i am aexactly like you and agree with eveerrything you said. but you know what? you deserve everything you have and enjoy it. we love you, keep doing what you;re doing… cause nobody does it better.
i feeel so blessed to be ok and have a loving family that sometime i too wonder if i desreve it all, but we just gotta keep living and apprecaite every single day! and if we dont do it for ourselves…. lets do it for those who can't!
thank you for that. like you, i had people very close to me die when i was young: my gigi when i was maybe 9, my grandpa when i was 10, and my dad when i was 11. and, to top it all off, my grandma died almost on the day of my 18th birthday (which is huge in manitoba, canada where i live). it surprises me all the time that i never went into depression when i was a teenager. God knows I had a reason to. but i knew i had to stay strong. for my mom and my sisters.
but anyway, thanks for this video-blog. it gave me a chance to reminisce.
don't be sad, honey….you're right, life is short, that's why we need to hold people that are awesome close, and the ones that suck, don't waste anymore time on them and let them go, keep positive, do what you love and then when your day comes to exit, you'll leave behind those who love you
Aw! Your video made me cry! I've been diagnosed with Thyroid Cancer and I'm only 18! It's made me look at life differently and prepare for death. I'm getting 3/4 of my thyroid surgically removed tomorrow afternoon so this video really touched me. Thanks so much!
This was really inspiring Perez! I had cancer when I was 15 years old, a brain tumor. After intense brain surgery and years of recovering I'm doing okay now. I am 20 years old and try to live my life to the fullest every day. Don't dwell on the thought of death, because if you do you won't be able to really enjoy the good times in your life. =]
Love you perez.
Thanks for such a heartfelt message. You made me cry!
Hugs to you.
Re: Jess –
Jess, good luck for tomorrow, i send my best wishes to you! But honey, keep the faith, thyroid cancer, especially at your age, is cured very often! I send you a big hug. sorry for my english! greetings from spain
Wow Everything has ALWAYS got to be ABOUT PEREZ!!!! You are such a fucking FLAMER!!!! I love Swayze but maybe give him or his agents a call instead of HORING yourself on a fucking video. All about you. Dipshit.
Perez, everything you said resonated with me. I, like you, am a "fatalist" as you put it, I like you have this weird tendency to think of death every day… My uncle had pancreatic cancer and died a few months ago, he was like a second father to me. I think of him and where he is and how he doesn't exist every day.
My thoughts are with Patrick Swaze and anyone else in similar situation…
My respect to you Perez.
You're sweet, Perez. Un abrazo para ti también
oh perez!!!! i love you!!! that video really hit home for me. first of all i agree with you about the kids thing, sooo much. one of the worst thing ever for me would not be able to have kids. but i also relate to you in that ive had so much death in my life too. nine months after my grandmother my dad died suddenly too, in a construction accident. so i can definitely relate with that pain. ive been really sad about patrick swayze too, but like you said, its just a reminder to live life to the fullest. take care, love you!!!!!
Hey Perez, I think its nice you feel a genuine emotion for this and I have to say I think the press and media have handled this situation well. This goes on around the world every day and cancer is now sadly a part of life I guess, as is death. Thats why I like with the Britney coverage u have that u want her to be well again - yeah so celebs put themselves out there in the public eye but theyre still human at the end of the day and a lot of the media wishing crazy things on them just for a story is terrible and hey what goes around comes around!!! luv ya perez xxxxx
AMEN Perez!
Perez, I love you even more now. Very moving and well said. xoxo
Wow that was real emotional, but I totally understand where your coming from Perez. My mom died 2 1/2 years ago when I was seventeen. It was a freak thing and I feel like every since then Im a changed person and all I seem to think about sometimes Is death. I get so freaked out sometimes by it. I get scared of getting older and dying too. I think everyone does. Death is the scariest thing really. But its going to be okay and you just have to make the most of your time here, just like what you were talking about. Good luck to Patrick, I really hope he gets better.
obviously your days are numbered. look at all the crap you put on your website. karma is a bitch! a way to solve this is to may be stop talking trash on troubled celebs. we all have issues. welcome to life. we are born to die, but while living we do things positively much as possible.
This video gave me the chills and brought me to tears. You have tapped into something that every human being thinks about when faced with the prospect of death. Those of us who have encountered it already have the misfortune of thinking about the transience of life every day, whether we want to or not…
Who knew that a gossip columnist could be so existential on the inside!
three years old -my parents died one at a time
Mom -Diabetes she had one leg chopped off then her kidneys died
Dad - never knew him i was two young he died of cancer
Twins died of a genetic disease in their teens
I had an etopic didn't know it at the time filled up with blood almost died
no light just pain
then i misscarried
People die
I feel bad but its the way it goes!
Love to you perez We all grasp Death in a different way and i am glad you use the forum to express it
YOU ROCK MAN
*tears*
Peace
I feel ya, Perez! 4 years ago, my dad had a really bad stomach ache. My mom made him go to the doctor even tho he didn't want to go. The dr. sent him in an ambulance to the hospital. I got there as quick as I could. He was diagnosed w/Pancreatitis. It's not even cancer. While my family & I were visiting w/him, he expressed how much pain he was in. The dr. gave him some pain medicine. He fell asleep. We were glad he was finally asleep because he was in so much pain. It got late & I got up to go on home, I was going to come back the next morning. I touched him to say good-bye & he felt cold. We realized he wasn't breathing. We alerted the nurses. A team of nurses & dr's came to his room & tried to bring him back, but he was gone. Can you imagine? He's mowing the yard one day, feeling fine, gets a stomach ache the next day & is dead that night. It was the worst day of my life. I read your site every day to laugh & now I'm crying, but that is real life. And the more I found out about both Pancreatitis & Pancreatic Cancer, the more I know it's a killer. It's so sad. Love you though. Thanks for listening.
i love you perez! those words really touched me and i feel the same way about life being too short! just keep your head up, ok? :::BIG HUGS:::
Awe, hugs perezzy. This is the side of you that I just love. You are such a sweet guy under all that sarcasm. Big hugs back to you, papi.
Hugs from Oz Perez!!! I love you! Sorry to hear about your dad. You are such an amazing and talented man, I'm sure he would be proud.
xxx
aww, perez has a big heart.
PEREZ- i love you!!!! Nothing bad is going to happen to you, because you make soooo many people happy. I dont know what i would do without your website. YOU MAKE MY DAY… everyday:)
Please, loose some weight! Its not healthy!
Hugs to you Perez! you are a nice guy, I feel like you are a good friend in a way even though we've never met. I relate to everything you were saying and thanks for helping to keep us on the bright side.
Wow Perez…it was really nice to see this vulnerable side of you. It takes a lot of guts to show yourself so honestly when you're vulnerable–it's beautiful. Thanks for sharing this and for your wisdom. Hang in there.
you are such a great human being!
its so great to see that you're a real person! and you show your emotions!!!!
and you say it like it is!!!!
well anyway I hope you accomplish everything you want in life.
Perez~It does suck to be reminded of death all the time. The world is in a sad state and with all the young deaths of people we all know and love it is hard on us young people (I'm 28). I currently am caring for 2 close dying relatives. I always wondered if someone told me when or how I would die, would I want to know? NO. Although, when you are told you have x amount of time, life seems to go on around you like nothing is happening which is the hardest part. x