Charlie Apologizes For Using The "N" Word!
Filed under: Celebrity Feuds > Denise Richards > Charlie Sheen
As we told you guys first via phone on our Gossip On The Go…
Charlie Sheen and Denise Richards are in a yet another vitriolic public exchange of words.
And this time it gets racial!
As previously mentioned, voice mail messages that Charlie left for Denise over three years ago surfaced earlier today, Wednesday.
Hmm, who saves 3 year old voicemails??
Looks like someone had intentions to use them for revenge or blackmail!
Charlie's messages included several curse-filled rants and even a clip of him calling Denise a "fucking nigg–."
Yea. Digusting!
CLICK HERE to read the transcripts of Sheen's voice mail messages to Richards.
Hours after the recordings were released (and then vanished online), Charlie issued an apology.
He says, "I deeply apologize by my choice of words to all I have obviously offended; especially to Tony Todd, an African-American, who was my best man at my first two weddings."
He goes on to say, "Three and one-half years later, the reasons that caused the anger and frustration displayed on that voice mail continue to be manifested on a daily basis" especially because "my children did not show up today for a custodial visit without explanation."
Ughhh….
This is such a tough one.
Team Charlie or Team Denise????
It's like picking between diarrhea or constipation - neither are pretty!
[Image via WENN.]




See everyone gets all puffed up about words like N*****, its just a word…just like Fuck is a word and Shit, and all those words. They mean nothing. People need to learn to just look beyond that, sometimes shit just pours out without thinking.
Denise is a retard, see that is just a word.
How is this a tough one????? A racist john who could have given the mother of his children AIDS and has repeatedly verbally abused her or a mother who raises her children with their grandpa on a farm???? Real tough decision.
Those poor children …
Don't like either of them, but ever since I've seen Denise's new show I like her a whole helluva lot less. She is such a bitch and I think the two of them are the perfect match. Calling her a C*** doesn't bother me since she used the same word in one of her shows when talking to the People reporter.
Definitely disagree w/the N word, but I can see him getting that mad at her. She seems just as vindictive as he does.
Team Charlie! She's an asshole. He shouldn't have said what he did, but I see it as a lapse of reason. She's just fucked.
Three years later is a little long to suddenly become outraged, Denise.
OOPS!
I think Denise is a racist, too, for not calling him out on this when it happened, and instead 'saving' it to use later to get one in. Why the wait? Seems like she didn't find it so horrible herself at the time — which makes me wonder about her character as well, or lack of.
The word in question should not be so taboo. Charlie said it to discribe someone who he thinks is trash, a low life, which is what the word means to me. Or it could mean a term of enderment like yo whats up _. Lets all grow up a little. Some racist people would use the term and thats not cool but its a word. I wouldent give it that much power. Its no diffrent then bitch. Some people have used the word in a horribly abusive way. I dont mind to be called a bitch or a cunt for that matter. Because at the end of the day its just words.
Denise is a down-to earth mom and from Illinois not phony-ass Hollywood where this spoiled piece of crap is from, he rants and raves and is so messed up on meds he doesn't know what he's saying. How can he talk like that to the mother of his child. Denise if you're reading this, we love you and your dad, your a great mom and beautiful, screw the haters!!!
Charlie was not being racist. He was just calling Denise a mean word, which might not be nice, but does Denise Richards look black to you? He was just using a mean word that had nothing to do with color.
Re: TLogo – As a black American, I have to say shame on you for making such a ridiculous racist comment. No, that is NOT how THEY are. Putting a label on a group of people like you just did? Now, that is racist. I have plenty of white friends and loved ones, and they wouldn't DARE say that word.
Re: its j –
See, you're logical and intelligent. Most people who post here are uneducated urbanites who party for a living and have never been to college. The ignorant wear the biggest chips on their shoulders… you and I know it's just a word. People need to learn not to be so easily offended and affected.
Dats Fucked up! I look @ him differently now.
GO Obama!
I didn't have a side, but now his racism has come to light….so FUCK Charlie Sheen!!!! Racist Bastard!
Team Denise.
THAT WORD GETS THROWN AROUND SO MUCH NOWADAYS, WHO CARES ANYMORE??
Big Effin Deal. What a bunch of whining pansies… Get over it. He was mad at his ex-bitch. Why don't you send him the censorship letter so he knows what not to say in a private rage the next time.
People posting on this topic will have much to regret about freedom of speech in another 20 years. Good luck.
ah man Perez are u gonna start off all of your stories with this now? "As we told you first via our Gossip on the go…" you're such a celebrity that it's disgusting
This is absurd. The N word really is just a word. A word that was part of quote of the day from Ice T, and he will he be given a hard time about using it? Denise surely hasn't shown much class in her language. Didn't she call a woman a c word to her face AND it was being filmed for all to see? I think that is actually more offensive then this phone message.
I don't know which is which, but I'm going with which ever one is diarrhea. I'd pick that over constipation any day!
Speaking of apologies, have you apologized for your hot topic clothing line.
team denise!!!!!!!!!!
I'm Team Charlie. It's totally understandable to use words you don't mean in the heat of battle. Denise is just a crazy slut.
I totally understand why he called her that, and I'm not offended. I used the N word all the time, jokingly and in anger, before I learned where it came from, and what the connotation really means. Bottom line, he wanted to really insult her, and he called her such a negative, dirty word. Obviously, her behavior was so bad that he had to go there. There's lots of people, non-blacks, that I wanted to call the N word. Team Charlie.
Denise is definitely diarrhea.
The key here is when he said he was best man at his first two weddings! lmao. Charlie Sheen is notoriously an asshole.
TEAM DENISE…at least she isn't a racist and STD infested like Charlie I need to pay for Sex Sheen.
Why is it OK for rappers and other blacks to use this word, but when it is used in a derogatory way by a white, such as calling someone a "bitch", they are persecuted for it? People need to get over it, and if blacks have such a problem with it, then they should quit letting their children listen to music which preaches it as a way of life. Let's face it, this world is no more a racial slur than it is an insult to anyone, black or white. I am so sick of people like Perez screaming racist as soon as something as this surfaces. How many times have people used this word not as a racial slur, but an insult? How many times have you used the forsaken "N" word Perez? It's just like you to change your mind about someone the second something like this happens. Quit crying, people are human. It's not the 1960s. Meanings change and and we should treat everyone equal. Blacks use it, but whites aren't allowed? Doesn't make sense. Call me a honky, cracker, whatever you like. I don't care. One must rise above. If I was ever married to the psycho, who knows what would fly out of my mouth when she does the things that are apparent in public. Get over it.
team denise the whole way….this just shows how low charlie goes, and shows truth to her claims..please change yoru mind perez! love
They're a matched set — He calls people the N-word, and she calls people 'c*nt.' Nice; real nice — and so good for the children …
who cares, everyone says bad words when they are mad, i m so sick of tip toeing around the black community, get some thicker skin
BULLSHIT! There shouldn't be any question at all whose "team" to pull for - she's just yet ANOTHER example of a talentless fame whore riding for all she possibly can. She needs to have her cunt cauterized so that she can't reproduce more meal tickets.
All right, so Charlie has issues, we all knew that. His choice of words? Not so great. But I'm sooo Team Charlie. Denise is a vicious cunt.
neither..they're both bad parents..but im pretty sure they enjoy the publicity…can they act like there's something more important than them? geez
Uh, just a LITTLE late there, Ms. Richards. Three years?
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TEAM CHARLIE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DENISE IS A BITCH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
SHE CAN'T LET THE PAST GO!!!!!!
Team Denise…he's always been and will continue to be an asshole
READ THE DEFINITION !!!!
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NIG**R =Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive. a person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc.
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YEP I'D SAY SHE IS!!!
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TEAM CHARLIE!!
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Not racist, but im TEAM CHARLIE!
Team Denise . She put up with a lot of his shit when they were married…drug addiction ….. prostitutes? Out of the two, she is the lesser evil. by far.
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READ THE DEFINITION !!!!
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NIG**R =Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive. a person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc.
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YEP I'D SAY SHE IS!!!
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TEAM CHARLIE!!!!!!
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and PEREZZZZZZZZ charlies not racist, he just made a mistake, he apologized, okay?!?!?!
TEAM CHARLIE ALL THE WAY!!!! If this chick is anything in "real life" like she is her "reality" show, she must be a real bitch to be around. She has the absolute worst dispostion and bitchiness I have seen in a very long time. And she flaunts it! That is what is especially disturbing. Ya, Charlie wasn't an angel, but at least he made a whole hearted effort to clean up and be a good husband and dad. She is just an out-right pig.
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I'VE SEEN HER SHOW AND SHE IS A CUNT.
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READ THE DEFINITION !!!!
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NIG**R =Slang: Extremely Disparaging and Offensive. a person of any race or origin regarded as contemptible, inferior, ignorant, etc.
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……..YEP I'D SAY SHE IS!!!
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TEAM CHARLIE!!
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Truth be told, I like Denise Richards and her new TV show. Even if she's been a hot mess, so what? Dealing with an ass like Charlie Sheen? Some of the things going on in her life? I'm sure it hasn't been easy. She curses a lot…but its kind of funny (I just hope it isn't around her kids–but they aren't on the show too often).
Go Denise! You're fabulous no matter what anyone says.
Someone already brought this up, but why is it okay for Ice T to use the n word and not okay for Charlie Sheen? Personally, I do not think that anyone should use it, but for some reason, no one seems to care when a black person uses the n word. Just for the record, I'm black, so I suppose "technically" I should be able to use it, but I think that it's a horrible derogatory word that should be left in the past.
It doesn't help that they're both playing it out in public and I certainly don't agree with Charlie's choice of words. Denise should just shut her trap and then I think Charlie would stop attacking her. So what he likes hookers. THat's his business. I think he does genuinly want his children to be happy but all Denise seems to be doing is pimping her kids out and whining the press on how he's so bad to her. Well stop pushing his buttons and leave him be. Then this whole mess can stop. Those kids are what are important. I still am on Charlie's side though. He's just been pushed to the brink to many times buy her. Maybe if she'd grow up and take things seriously, then maybe things would be a little different!
why when i post comments either they dont show up or they take 50 million years to show up..
Team Denise absolutely. You are ridiculously hard on Denise Richards. You give her such shit about having an affair with Richie Sambora when your friend Tori Spelling did the exact same thing.
Charlie sheen has always been a dirt bag. Hello? Remember Heidi Fleiss. Why is it so hard for people to believe that he was shitty to her? He's been shitty to every woman he was ever with. Give it a year or two with Brooke Mueller and we'll be going through this kind of shit all over again.
Loosen up on denise, she is not as bad as that scum bag.
team charlie i guess but choosing either team makes me feel slimy
TEAM DENISE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
they deserve each other,seriously.
everybody is unconsciously racist,lets be honest,Charlie just showed that in the wrong place,not so smart…Even though he didnt used the word to offend an African american cause im pretty sure denise isnt one,so why the drama?
Black people say shit about white people all the time,but when a celebrity says something thats wasnt even directed to someone black,than noooo this is an outrage! WHY do we feel oh so sorry for them? Theres NO fuckin victim here.
Oh please…the guy is an absolute jack ass.
Team Denise…every time!
TEAM CHARLIE!!!
It's Charlie Fucking Sheen. When did anything he say matter? He hires prostitutes, and is a coke head. He's a freak! Denise Richards is crazy. She cheated with her friends husband, and whores out her kiddies. End of discussion.
The ONLY reason she has a show is because she was married to Charlie Sheen. They're both awful parents, IMO. Poor kids.
Re: TLogo –
You know, african americans or any other race claim that stereotypes and generalizations about their race is wrong. And they're right, it is wrong to assume that because you see one black person living on welfare, they're all living on welfare. That would be ignorant and wrong to assume, just like it is ignorant and wrong for a black person to make a racist, generalized statement about whites. Think about it hypocrit.
Re: Britt – Not to your face but behind it you knoooow they do aunt jemimah!
Denise is crazzzzy.Go Charlie.Two and a half men rocks.Oh yeah Denise is a whore!
Well, how dumb are we?? "My best black friend at my wedding." Oh whatever. But I will say this….ready??? I dont care about their fights! Not a lick. In a way, I cant believe A. That they ever got married and B that they ever divorced. They seem to be cut from the same cloth. Both seem to be liars, both seem to be cheaters and both love their kids. Somewhere today, somebody found out they have cancer, and somebody buried a child, somewhere today, important things took place. Reading about their marital problems is not of importance to me. They both need to do some soul searching and find out the meaning of their lives and decide what type of environment they want their kids growing up in and just do it. Saleen OUT.
You do know that Denise is white? So how can it be racist? Some people are idiots! The "n" word omg like you can't hear it on every "urban" cd and movie ever made. I don't think that word means what you think it means.
What's racist is to think that it's ok for one race to use a word and all other races can't use the word. That's RACIST. Grow up.
I'm rarely undecided about anything but choosing one of these two is like deciding between the devil and the deep blue sea.
team charlie for realz, bitches. you know his ex kep that tape BECAUSE he said the n-word. she is sick and needs to grow up for her daugters' sakes.
I am still Team Charlie, even as an empowered young woman. Denise is trashy and classless, and if I recall this time period three years ago, she was spreading these crazy things around the media about Charlie being "inappropriate" around his girls, jacking off to porn on the internet, and refusing to let him anywhere near the children. I can see why the man would get mad.
I don't condone using the 'n' word, but in the heat of things, people say a lot of things unconciously. In all actuality, he probably didn't even remember saying it until Denise posted the voicemail. He has apologized for his actions, and has moved on. Denise is attempting to destroy his image, when she's really destroying her own.
Again, Team Charlie.
Shame on you Perez for putting your nose in the air when you have done trashier things. Remember that "funny" video you made some months ago about premature babies? Uttering the 'n' word to your crazy ex-wife who is publicly bashing you and won't let you see your daughters is NOTHING compared to that. I like you Perez, but quit forgeting that your shit doesn't stink.
Charlie used the "n" word as an insult. It wasn't even about someone who is black–which makes his use of the word that much worse! He called her that. I can't even comprehend how he could do that. Wow. Charlie has topped himself yet. I am all for Team Denise and I love her show! Go, Denise!!!! Charlie sucks.
Im going through an ugly divorce myself from a drug abusing creep. In 18 months he has provided no help for his son. I can raise him on my own. However on a weekly basis I receive voice mails calling me a CUNT, Lesbian, that im fucking black men(not fucking anyone black, white, green, or lesbian). Some people are SICK mentally and I think drugs do long term damage to their brains. So I am TEAM DENISE on this! Im sure he put her through hell.
damn,,its just a fucking word!!!who care?????
Re: TLogo –
don't label every white person with the same brush!!
Holy CRAP! Those 2 are raising CHILDREN?! Please. I'd like to take them both over my knee. I just hope that the 2 of them can grow up for the sake of their kids. But hey–all is fair in love and war. Charlie released her email begging for his sperm, so she released his v/mail of him using the classless "n" word. I do think Denise is cooko for #1 marrying a known prostitute lover and gambling addict, and #2 for having all of those pigs and dogs running around her home!!!
team charlie
Team Denise duhh
Team Denise!!!
TEAM DENISE!!! Charlie is a scumbag. Always has been, always will be. And I love how he uses the "I have may black friends" comment to try to convince everyone that he's not a prejudice racist piece of shit. If your best friend is black, the N word is not in your vocabulary. I don't care how pissed you are at your ex wife.
Team Charlie all the way, and I am an empowered young woman. I don't condone his use of the 'n' word at all, but people say a lot of things when in a fit of rage. If I recall the time in which these voicemails took place, Denise was spreading a bunch of shit to the media about Charlie being 'inappropriate' with his girls, jacking off to porn on the internet, and not letting him see his children. I'm surprised he handled it as well as he has.
Denise is complete trash. It shouldn't matter how "bad" he treated you, he is still the father of your children. That's what should really matter, but she's too busy destroying his image than to concentrate on the girls.
Futhermore, shame on you Perez for pointing the finger. Remember back a couple of months ago, when you made that 'funny' video about premature babies? I do, and I found that more offensive that the use of the "N WORD!!!!!1" He's not perfect, and neither of you. Let it go.
Team Lola & Sam
Can either one of them please grow up & think about the kids?!
When you lie down with dog's, YOU GET FLEA'S!!! Denise is a country HO and should know this.
You are just figuring out what kind of person Charlie Sheen is? I been in the church while his dad was on his knees praying hard for Charlie. He is a mean person. He has done all the women in his life wrong, from his oldest daughter's mom, to Denise Richardson! Speaking those horrible words about her dying mother was too much, he's not a nice person. Denise is not a saint, but having to put up with him and his evil ways must be tough. If he had talked about my dying mother like that, he would be in serious trouble, like me kicking his butt!!! There's a place in hell just for him!!
So I wonder which presidential candidate this asshole is supporting.
Ha ha ha ha ha!
What a dumbass! He should learn to keep his trap shut!!!
TEAM DENISE
Denise is white. Obviously the dreaded "N" word in this context is not racist. If she were black, then we could all be acting like a bunch of PC liberals with sand in their vaginas. Until she gets a major tan, I mean like California Raisin tan, we should all just relax.
Re: Sylvi – Please get an education! Go to school. Get your GED. Do whatever you have to do to catch up with the rest of us, because right now, you just sound like a complete and total ignorant idiot!!!
whatever shes a cunt
Hasn't Charlie Sheen used the n-word before? I'm pretty sure I remember something from a few years back about him using it. So I don't think this is the first time he's said it.
Re: yup – you're an idiot
team neither. both of them are classless has beens who have no respect for each other including the welfare of their children. they are both sorry excuses for human beings and i feel like i caught an std just by reading this nasty, nasty post!
ps- since we are on the subject of race, im white and this really disgusts me.
Team Charlie.
DUH why would you keep voice messages from your ex husband 3 years after you divorced? Shes quite sad. She is a loser who has nothing better to do than to ruin someone else's life. He hasn't done anything wrong. He was insulting her… it wasnt as if he was saying it to every black person.!! why take offense?
sooooo TEAM CHARLIE!!
Dear Perez,
I have enjoyed your blog for a year now and happily watched your rise to stardom. You went from a blogger to an A-lister and deserved it. You deliver the inside goods like no one else……..
until recently. There are a lot of copy cats out there who want to copy your celebrity gossip style ( I won't name them because I don't want to defer traffic to their sites) but I look at them too and I see that they are merely a minute or two behind you in reporting the latest gossip. Heaven forbid but in the rare cases they are actually ahead of you. All of that said ….. I love your site - HOWEVER - you have gone WAAAAAAYYYYYY too commercial lately. I didn't say anything about the clothes line or the radio show or the TV show but when you finally rolled out your gossip service on the phone - I felt I needed to say something. If you are gonna make your fans pay for tis then you WILL lose your base. We will not be paying for what we can get for free elsewhere. You Perez are a personality that we love but your product is gossip and that is everywhere. Watch yourself.
So…if Denise called him a big fag, does it make her a homophobe? Even if he's not gay?
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I'm so confused.
This is such a difficult issue.
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I want to make sure I pick the right person to hate, for all the right reasons.
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It's so hard to have PC hatred these days.
Good for her for keeping that voicemail!!! Perez honey, when you are in a nasty situation like this pathetic divorce, you keep EVERYTHING incriminating about the other person–you would be an idiot not to. So lay the fuck off Denise already–you couldn't help but jab her even if she's in the right…
johnn ive never used the n word you must be a hill billy racist…just cuz ur racist doesnt mean everybody is.
Team Densise! Fuck Charlie he's a pig!
I AM BLACK (JAMAICAN) AND I REFUSE TO LET THAT WORD BOTHER ME, BECAUSE IT DOESN'T DEFINE ME. AFRICAN AMERICANS NEED TO KNOW THAT WE HAVE RISEN UP AGAINST THAT WORD AND ALLOWING IT TO BOTHER YOU JUST EMPOWERS THE PERSON THAT SMALL MINDED ENOUGH TO DO SO. SECONDLY, I DO NOT THINK THAT THERE IS A DOUBLE STANDARD AS TO BLACK PEOPLE MAKING JOKES ABOUT WHITES BUT THEN YOU FLIP THE SCRIPT AND BLACK PEOPLE GET UPSET. BLACK PEOPLE GET UPSET WHEN THERE IS A LEGITIMATE REASON, IF THE JOKE IS FUNNY THEN…WE LAUGH, BUT THERE IS THIN LINE AND MOST PEOPLE STRADDLE THE LINE AND THATS WHERE IS BECOMES RACISM.
Seriously - there was a reason everyone was pro charlie and not Denise nothing has changed except he used a word some people find offensive! Ice T said it earlier but no one gives a shit!
Team Charlie!
If you consider the following: NAACP also stands for;
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In that case Charlie gets a pass.
he needs a std screening and i'm gonna give it to em!
I'd Choose Team Diarrehea anyday-especially bc I am trying to lose weight….