Homophobe??? Josh Homme Responds For Using the "F" Word
Filed under: Gay Gay Gay
An open letter from the Queens of the Stone Age lead singer.
He says…
"Member of the Peanut Gallery:
Some journalists & citizens on the internet & are wondering: Q? Am I a homophobe because I included a slang for gay in with other "acceptable" curse words during a verbal lashing I gave a young concertgoer, after being hit by his shoe, during a show the other day? A= Nope. My gay family & friends, as well as myself, KNOW I am not a homophobe. For years now I've known gay is not a choice; one's skin color doesn't determine one's intelligence level; & red hair doesn't mean you're someone's stepchild. You see, it's not the words, it's their intent. I never said, nor suggested, that being gay is wrong, but apparently, based on your outrage to my flu-infused rant, you do! By that logic… I also told that young whipper snapper I'd have anal sex with him… how can I possibly reconcile these opposing viewpoints? I called him a pussy too. Does it mean I hate our one worlds' collective vagina? I never have been nor intend to be politically correct. That's your cross to bear. To me, that PC world would suck more shit than the porta-potty truck at Glastonbury. Homophobic? I'm in Queens of the Stone Age for crissake… You say, "So. Your band name doesn't prove anything." Maybe not. But it's a helluv a lot more definitive than the logic of some watchdog… (sorry canine-American, canine-European, canine-African, canine-Australian & canine-Asian) moralist, keeping score from pure perfectionville? If your glass house is squeegeed that clean & you need to do something, do what the great philosopher Bill Hick's once suggested: — forgive me–. Or don't. I'm not asking for either, OK? I think you should let both of your cheeks go loose so the stick will drop out. Either way I expect that you'll soon find another injustice from your chair, then roll to your bullhorn & point it out to the rest of us… Because you're so above it all. Or If you'll allow me to translate a wish of mine into your PC lingo:
Will you please go have, consensual, sex with yourself.
Pretty please with all natural, carbon offset sugar on top.
Sincerely,
Mr. Missundastood
A.K.A. Joshua, Baby Duck, Jho
Head Choreographer & Do Stuff Corporation's pansexual spokes-thing"
[Image via WENN.]




RIGHT ON…What the Fuck Ever Happened To Sticks And Stones May Break My Bones, But WORDS/NAMES Will NEVER HURT ME???
QotSA
haha perez shame on you for suggesting such wrong things.
This response was great.
Love QUEENS of the Stone Age
Re: gram – Right On!
Re: Sophi – You're absolutely right. All these other idiots are just too eager to see someone "get back" at Perez that they're still getting this all wrong. They're just as stupid as Josh.
HE IS RIGHT. FINALLY SOMEONE WHO STANDS UP TOWARDS MEDIA. BUT SOMEONE WHO IS ACTUALLY INTELLIGENT!
yeah, i think he's all good………….. people are stupid and anal retentive.
Finally a celebrity that stands by what he says and wont back down to those goddamned pc unclefuckers. Shut your fucking face unclefucker!!!
*wooooooOOOOOOOOO* yeAH bay-beh that's rock an' ROWL.
As a gay man… Josh Homme rules and is pretty much a rock god and hot as hell…. AND is NOT a homophobe. Anyone with half a brain would know that, people need to stop being so over-fuckin-sensitive. GEEZ!!
ahahaha, i love him.
HAHAHAHA.
You just got PWN'd, Perez.
HAHAAHAHAHAH
Josh rocks.
Perez, you are a media whore 15 minute minus and counting and no one respects you. The fact you would pick this incident to rally around your frustrated gay experience is puzzling. But we love you all the same:)
Get in shape and maybe Josh will make you his.
for all of you still living in your glass houses after reading that response, i ask you one question…
What would YOU do if someone threw a shoe at YOU??
YES!!!!!
That was one of the BEST " celeb " responses EVER!!! I use the word FAG with my gay friends ALL THE TIME… I am a child of the 80's for fucks sake!! We all say that shiz!! INCLUDING MY GAY FRIENDS!!! LOL Josh ROCKS
ok i never even heard of this dude, but he just popped up about 100 notches in my book.heck i might even go download his album!
hat off the UN pc world!!
go have consensual sex with yourself… that was fucking beautiful!!
well put josh!
Funny how youcan serve so much shit to people yet you can't take it yourself. Pot. Kettle. Black. you fag
I have a new hero!!
Thats an awesome letter. Well Put Josh.
We just had the Charlie Sheen apology, but Joshua can't seem to own up. White people, it's uncool to say the "N" word; straight people; uncool to say the "F" word. Why? - because it adds to the hatred.
Lighten up you politically correct twats.
Fine people but you should all go live in that bubble called San Fran.
The word "fag" was used for other meaning and to describe other things long before we changed it to an "offensive" term.
Re: Sophi – you are fucking DUMB. get over it. find something more important to bitch and whine about.
Josh rocks.
Perez, you are a media whore 15 minutes minus and counting. The fact you would pick this incident to rally around your frustrated gay experience is puzzling.
But we love you all the same despite your faults.
Get in shape and maybe Josh will make you his.
Your evdently fucked up just to let you know a FAG is a fucking cigarette, and i dunno lets try not make fag seem like a worse word than the N one mmkay, its not that bad you fuktard
i believe him!
look, i am one of the people at my school who leads the day of silence for gay rights & i fight for equality, tolerance, & respect along with the almost 50 other students that me & my friends have gotten to join the movement.
i can tell the difference between someone who truly mean malicious intent behind their words, & someone who if just throwing the word around for lack of anything else to say.
Josh is a good guy. :]
JOSH ROCKS! Great response! Way to set them st8….haha.. I LOVE QOTSA!!
AMEN!!!!!!
best response ever. as a supportive straight, i agree with him.
ahah brilliant, what a response
we live in a pc world gone mad and its beyond ridiculous
everyone needs to loosen the hell up and stop crying about such stupid things
loves it
i believe him!
look, i am one of the people at my school who leads the day of silence for gay rights & i fight for equality, tolerance, & respect along with the almost 50 other students that me & my friends have gotten to join the movement.
i can tell the difference between someone who truly mean malicious intent behind their words, & someone who if just throwing the word around for lack of anything else to say.
Josh is a good guy. :]
Wow…i think im in love. I didn't know he was so badass. Badass-ocity has me all a tingle. Love smart, sarcasstic rockers. Meow.
Sweet! Well said Josh!!
Josh is a genius. Amazing band.
Re: texaslove – If he stopped long enough to insult the guy, then he could have stopped long enough to throw the shoe back without yelling those idiotic things he said. Sounds stupid to you? Same goes for the idiotic things he yelled.
josh roxx!!! first lily, now josh–perez watch out!!!
Ok back of my man Josh. Perez do you feel better about yourself degrading people that are actually doing something with their life? You call yourself a journalist…seriously all you do is gather information about celebrities and post it with dirty drawings. My 5 year old niece can do that..hopefully she wont. You are pathetic..get a real job.
well put! I think I'm in love!~!
LOVE HIM! SO SMART
Ok, Josh homme is officially a legend; he really kicks your ass perez and he manages to articulate his point rather than just engage in crude slander like you do Perez. Give him a break.
Josh: Right.
Perez: Wrong.
as a gay person I was not offended and saw nothing wrong with the clip. get over it perez. you are more of an idiot everyday… he is right..
Perez, he seems quite intelligent and most certainly not homophobic. I think for the most part you are like Rosie when she gets offended by anything or any slur that might be able to be seen as such. Personally, I think that you need to ease the fuck up, ps. love the website.
quit being gay Perez
I LOVE this guy! Amen!!!
That was hilarious. I don't understand why people get offended by him, he's never (that I know of) done anything homophobic or slanderous like his concert bashing. That was a well written 'fuck you' to whoever he sent the letter to.
Love it! Our society is getting too ridiculously annoying w/ being p.c. If I cried every time someone offended me; they'd have to commit me. Grow up and get over yourselves people.
Josh is awesome and can I get an A-fuckin-Men!
I love how everyone thinks that Josh's response was for Perez himself…like Josh would give a fuck what he though. This open letter is days old drama. Undeserved drama at that. I applaud Josh for having the balls to say what he really thinks- and if it offends you- then you don't get QOTSA or Josh. Get over yourself Perez.
AMEN! Someone with a brain!
I mean seriously… who throws a shoe?
Josh is totally right. I'm glad he didn't change his tune just because someone complained. Has the world deteriorated so much that his scolding a rude concertgoer is the main focus of some crazy group. Let's focus on the REAL injustices people. Yay for Josh, and his refreshing honesty.
Re: Marc – Why are you saying it's not okay for "whites" or for "straights", I understand adding to the hate theory, but you are segregating races and sexual preferences. If it is not okay for one race it's not okay for any. The only way to stop something is to set a guideline for everyone. Not to segregate and say it's okay for this person or that person.
"To me, that PC world would suck more shit than the porta-potty truck at Glastonbury" HAHAHAHA this guy is fucking brilliant!
And, the coins a great Bill Hicks phrase. I'm going to go buy all of his music. I hope he blogs somewhere. I would read it.
LOVE LOVE LOVE his response!! I am so over you middle class bored boring gay white house-husbands with nothing better to do, whining about who last said fag. And Perez, you fat Mexican knobslobbin' whore, you join right in with them as if it's provides you with some status by associating yourself with these white bitches. I'm sick of all your whiny causes, from your taddle-tell tally list on the GLADD site, to your syrupy chants for gay marriage…its all bullshit when under your breath, and behind closed doors you say some of the same things that you wanna indict this very cute singer for. he is really cute actually!! yum!! So here's to all you middle-aged cosmo slurping, prada-wearing FAGS….take your grievances and shove them up your overused HOLES!!
The world needs more Josh!
I would totally like to have anal sex with him. i think i even have in my dreams before!!! I heart red heads!!
I am now a new fan of his….he sounds super cool and funny
mmm…that is one sexy and eloquently spoken motherfucker. i guess some would read this and think he actually does fuck his mother. people are stupid and jump on bandwagons to burn a witch all too soon…all the time………its mediocrity at its finest
..good job josh!
LMAO! He's funny!
Love it!!!!!
I love it. While I did think he went on an excessive rant, he's right. Everyone needs to calm down.
Queens of the Stone Age are a huge rock band Perez, but you probably didnt know that since you only listen to hag music. So goes truly good music! I love them!
maybe you should stop using the F word "FUCKTARD" actually you are nothing but a FUCKTURD. get over it Perez he is right and you are so wrong. and I'm a fag what of it.
For those who don't read and just stare at the pretty pictures, that was the perfect response to an outrageous claim.
Re: Katie – stfu douche bag
THANK YOU. one celebrity who has a pair and will stick up for himself to this ridiculous politically correct world we have. no one is allowed to have an opinion anymore!!
Re: Jenne –
totally fucking agree. that was brilliant!
What a boring, self-indulgent rant that apology was- yeah, yeah, yeah we get it- you're not gonna be PC- oh, you rebel, you.
He's got a point. Perez, you are so busy with your self-promotional bullshit and hawking your cheap clothes that your blog has dwindled down to a bunch of straw-graspings mingled with "Look at me! I'm famous!" 14 minutes and 50 seconds have already elapsed for you..
amen! josh is the man! you should bow down, perez.
Josh is the MAN and will kick your ass if you don't like it. Perez, you are the FUCKTARD so……
Great response!!!
One question though: Why does Perez get all fired up when somebody uses the F-word when he on the other hand women sluts and whores for no reason - like Jodie Fosters new girlfriend for instance??? Hypocrite.
that has to be the BEST thing i have read in a long time. hahaha!
he's right. a lot of people need to mind their own business and not get so uptight over everything all the time. fags
HA HA HA WAY TO SHOW HIM BABY DUCK YOUR INTELIGENCE BLOWS MY MIND, YOU ARE THE BEST!!!!!!!
PEREZ YOU HAVE TO BE ONE OF THE BIGGEST HIPPOCRATES IN THE THIS WORLD, SOON EVERYONE WITH A DECENT FUNCTIONING BRAIN WILL HATE YOU FOR WELL JUST BEING YOU…A FUCKTARD.
Speak it, Josh.
QOTSA FTW.
Lighten up, kids. Really.
Words only have power if you let them.
Otherwise they're just fucking words.
Team Josh… he can call this fag a fag anytime…
LOOOOOOOVES it. PS–I am in no way homophobic and am in fact a huge supporter of equal & civil rights. I am a liberal, but this PC crap has got to stop at some point. He wasn't likening this guy to any kind of stereotype. I just don't get why all these people have to come out and publicly apologize for something they said. You heard the rant. Make a decision yourself on whether or not you want to continue to support the person. Personally, I have become a new fan. Geesh. We are all so damn sensitive.
I LOVE QUEENS OF THE STONE AGE. And Josh Homme is my biggest crush in the world, Im sad to say I'm borderline obsessed with him. I caught his concert in Halifax and he was PHENOMENAL! Ha sang accapella and it was beautiful, he also played alot of QOTSA's earlier work. It was a good crowd and a good venue, amazing concert. Later the week, he played a show in St. John's, Newfoundland, the province where I'm from. During the concert he had water bottles thrown at him, where he then stopped the show and told off the person for their disrespect, then continued the show even restarting the song. He then later had a shoe thrown at him, and I can see that from his frustration he is somewhat justified in using such a harsh word. He was just performing his art and some dipshit who clearly isn't a fan of the band decided to interrupt him twice. Seeing that the majority of their songs revolve around love-making, the very opposite of hate, I doubt any hints of homophobia are their intent. I am embarassed that my province had to represent themselves in such a way.. but oh well. The concert I went to was amazing and Josh was great with interacting with the crowd. I don't think you can judge him solely based on this reaction, it was due to ignorance so it got an ignorant response.
I love JOSH, HILARIOUS
never heard of the band or him before - but will go and buy some of his music on iTunes - because he's clearly a lot smarter than most of the PC world out there. And a response like that promises pretty good lyrics
amen. well said, i'm so sick of these self righteous bloggers. give me a break, you sit in front of a computer all day, you're really someone of high moral fiber.
Isn't a fag, a CIGARETTE?
and also….most of my gay friends rather be called a fag over a homosexual.
there is no logic there..
get over it. jeez.
Perez is nothing more than a fucktard himself, slamming whoever he can to get more limelight… Hey Perez, you aren't a celeb and will never be… You know why??? Because you THINK like a little, small, insignificant piece of shit, that's why…
Get oever yourself already… Your 15 minutes is almost up…
best post you have posted all year Perez… oh wait you did not even write it, get a clue. maybe your blogging days are over…
Finally someone has a brain in their head. I think all would agree these words are "hate words". You use them when you are angry at someone or you want to make someone angry. They are not always used because the person saying them is a biggot. If they called a gay person a "f#ggot" or a black person a ""n#igger" that would be wrong, but it is clearly his intent to show dissatifaction for the person. Same goes for Charlie Sheen. The PC world is a hypocrite and stupid.
Thank goodness he cam back and said that! That's just what the PC world needed to hear! I agree with him wholeheartedly!
Yeah, Perez…you are quite the misogynist as someone else pointed out. You are a confused, jealous 'Mean Girl' gay guy. Mischa is beautiful and you have to point out that she is not perfect. Lily Allen is very talented and you have to point out that she too has faults. You pick on girls calling them sexist, derogatory names all of the time - not PC at all. It is way more insidious than anything Josh said after he was physically attached and his adrenaline was flowing. You sit there and look at pictures of attractive young women on the Internet and seethe with jealousy, and then attack them from a place of prejudice…'Nuff said. You are a funny asshole, though, which is why I look at your site. I loved the 'Choosing between diarrhea and constipation' comment about Charlie and Denise.
Brilliant; funny and he cut to the chase. (Applause)
Finally! Someone who doesn't back down. You PC fucks need to get a life!
i'm gay and I love the word fag… I am what I am… a fag… so what… get over it Perez… I hate to burst your bubble but you are a big time fag yourself…
hahah good for him! I love him! And he's so right!
ps. If you've ever seen him perform live you will realize he is the sexiest man alive!
I love it!!!!!!!!
People in the world need to get their Humor back and shove the PC!
Go Josh, he needs to speak in front of a live audience, maybe then people will get the stick out of their ass.
Sorry… I kind of agree with him. People are way too concerned with being politically correct. If I, a Mexican American, were politically correct, I would have imploded with anger by now. Its silly to freak out over a word. And his statement makes perfect sense.
in his answer he was defenetley smart… and funny
that was amazing
wow that was good.
God, Perez, stop being such a fucktard fag, ok? I am sick to death of all this PC crap!
That was a funny and intelligent response. Stop trying to find fault where it shouldn't be and find fault w/ people who are actually hurting others who are different on purpose. Go pick on some skinheads or something, will ya?!
Who are QUEENS OF STONEAGE? Are they famous? Why do they matter?