Change It!
Filed under: Barack ObamaMore than 100 retired generals and admirals in U.S. Armed Forces released a statement on Monday calling for a repeal of the military's "don't ask, don't tell" policy on gays so they can serve openly.
How will Barack Obama handle the situation when in office???
Thus far, he's FAILED us on gay marriage!
Posted: November 18, 2008 at 8:59 am




barack isnt even president yet you fucktard
WTF! HE IS NOT OUR PRESIDENT YET!!!!!
DUDE THERE IS LIKE 2 MONTHS LEFT BEFORE HE CAN EVEN FART IN THE WHITE HOUSE!
HIS HANDS ARE TIED
WHY DON'T YOU ADDRESS YOU'RE PRESODENT BUSH ABOUT THIS!
I loves me some gays, but I do hope that Obama focuses on the Economy, the War(s), Health Care and the Environment before anything else. It's hard to get upset about marriage rights when I look out my window everyday at the increasing number of homeless people on the street and console friends who are losing jobs.
PEREZ - take a tip from Mr. Obama and focus on solutions not complaints. I don't think you want to assign responsibility to the Federal government just yet - we don't have a legislature, popular vote or Supreme Court that would get anywhere near the issue at that level. Focus at the State level and educate yourself on how the machine works so you can use your influence for good instead of inciting a state of victimhood.
THIS is exactly the kind of bull**** rhetoric that pi**es me off. HELLO? Perez, you clearly are unaware of the fact that Barack has not been inaugurated yet. BTW, ""inaugurate" means to begin or start officially and to induct into office by a formal ceremony. That being said, as of now he doesn't have the executive power to make the changes regarding Prop 8. You sound like Fox news; blaming the economic woes, etc. on Barack, when in fact there is nothing Barack can do at this point politically. I really think you should stick to entertainment news. Anything outside of that is not your expertise, obviously. Just an update: George W. Bush is our current president and has the executive power. Jesus wept.
i love ya perez, but obama had nothing to do with prop h8. he's not the president yet and he was the senator of illinois, not california. he has not failed anyone.
HE'S NOT THE PRESIDENT YET YOU STUPID FOOLS! YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER PEREZ! And he didn't vote for that Proposition. Blame the mormons, and now blame Barack? Angry gays are letting themselves turn stupid. You might as all call yourselves Sarah Palin.
YOU ARE AN IDIOT.
Ha. I love that you only care what our President Elect can do for YOU. Screw the rest of the country; he has failed precious Perez. Give me a break. You're a pathetic example of the ignorant voters in this country.
If he failed on gay marriage, why the hell did you campaign for him? If he is really the messiah, you should accept all he commands.
how can he fail us on gay marriage? He isn't even in office yet! But i do get what you mean, he and the Democratic party are AGAINST Gay Marriage from the BEGINNING. Their stance on the issue was CLEAR. So all gay people who voted for OBAMA can shut the hell up b/c you knew where he stands on this issue! IF you wanted have a chance at legalization of gay marriage, you should have backed Dennis Kuchinich, you dumbasses! DAMN! How stupid can you be?
wait a minute!! how can you claim that 'He Failed Us' on gay marriage when he hasnt even taken office yet.. WTF…
why not also blame him for failing us on 9/11 or the financial crisis.
Re: Acherub –
Bahahahahahahahahaha. No one will give them a hard time about it. I TRULY hope you're using sarcasm…
Have you ever been military?
I'm pretty pissed off at this post. Really? HE FAILED YOU? How the fuck did he do that, exactly? He's not even in office and I do believe he's said more than once that he supports gay rights. You're kind of acting like a jerk lately; I think it may be time to keep your political views to yourself.
Re: tm4peace – all they want is there partners moneys… there are lots of straight couples who aren't "married" because they choose to be that way. I'm all for legal rights an all but leave the sanctity of "marrage" to the the MEN and WOMEN they way God intended. it's not just a word to us cristian folk. it means men and women. we are in the end times now. and what else will be left to do? animals?
How could he have FAILED you on gay marriage? He was running for the president, not an office for the state of CA. You knew before you voted how he felt on Gay Marriage, and you voted for him anyway, so you're not allowed to bitch about it!
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Having been in the Army in the late 80s and early 90s when "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" was in it's infancy (BTW. that was during Senior Bush's time, Clinton just actually approved the final bill for it) IMO (don't attack me for it) DADT, is really a protection for the gays in the military. There is A LOT of drinkingin the military, so people get stupid and tempers flare. Well, "men" feel threatened by gays, they feel it "compromises" their manhood when hit on by one. It really does protect them. My hubby is a marine now and a few months ago a gay marine broke into another marine's room while he was sleeping and starting hitting on him. Marines are trained to KILL. Luckily, this guy wasn't drunk, but he did punch the gay marine. Not saying it's right, but it is what it is. The gay marine is lucky the other guy didn't kill him, he was a big guy and could've easily done so. I've seen Solider Girl, very good movie, very sad, unfortunately, it happens often.
Of course, with keeping your views to yourself, you shouldn't stop giving information about what's going on in Politics…just stop with all of these damn snide comments.
Wow, you're an idiot, Perez. Barack Obama is PRESIDENT ELECT. He isn't in office yet. Bush is still president, and holds all the executive power that comes with the office, until January 20, 2009 when Obama will be sworn in. What, did you think he became president on election night? Failed you? Your stupidity is what fails.
Perez I have to say that your a little bit of an idiot. Obama is president ELECT- which means that he is currently not serving nor does he have any executive power. Maybe some one needs to stop looking on wikipedia and take a politics class.
Just another reason to think you are a dumb ass Perez.
let's at least wait until he's in office before you start saying he's failed you. your state failed you!!!!
err in case you didn't realize, we can only have on president at a time. DUBYA is still our president and President-elect Obama does not have any executive power until Jan 20, 2009.
Idiot.
Re: laurad – Then it's safe to say that men and women get married for 'moneys' as you put it….
well written by the way…you should do a spell check smarty pants…
What it comes down to is what people believe…not everyone believes in God, not everyone believes in gay rights, not everyone believes in marriage! It's all opinion…religion is an opinion…all religions are different, just as all people are different.
Your comment about animals is just outrageous…you have no clear, solid argument. …and you can't write or spell. When you learn how to debate well…than answer me…I don't have time for people who can't back up their statements…
Re: Acherub – No one will give them a hard time about it? Wanna bet? I've seen it firsthand!
I'm going to repeat what everyone else has been saying: He's not president yet dahling. He hasn't failed anyone. But by the way, he doesn't support gay marriage, just civil unions. However, he was AGAINST Prop 8, but ultimately this was a state constitution issue, not federal so even if he was PRESIDENT and not PRESIDENT-ELECT he couldn't have done shit about without a Supreme Court appeal. Let's try to be smart here. I love you and all, but your frustration (and deserved anger) kind of makes you look like a tool.
Re: missjules5x – well said…..never thought of that…..
i bet if you were openly gay in the military…you would get the shit beat out of you…..
thats why the gay men should bunk with the girls…lol….j/k
he couldnt have failed anyone yet he is not president until next year!
THIS JUST IN: FIDEL CASTRO IS DEAD
Re: missjules5x – LOL I am military wife
Yeah…he hasn't done anything yet because he isn't in office. Unfuckingbelivable. Honestly, you think McCain would have done anything? Such a far weather friend…
Barack Obama is against Gay Marriage genius, he has made that perfectly clear, he is not going to be your ally. Next time study before you vote.
WE HAVE MORE IMPORTANT THINGS TO DEAL WITH RIGHT NOW, GAYS IN THE MILITARY IS NOT #1 ON THE "TO DO" LIST. CHILL THE FUCK OUT. LET'S FOCUS ON UNIVERSAL ISSUES FIRST…
PEREZ YOU PUT GAYS TO SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEREZ YOU PUT GAYS TO SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEREZ YOU PUT GAYS TO SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEREZ YOU PUT GAYS TO SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEREZ YOU PUT GAYS TO SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
PEREZ YOU PUT GAYS TO SHAME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
perez that is the stupidest thing you have ever said. Obama is not president yet he has not failed us on prop 8, dont be that way!
oh WHATEVER perez… he did not FAIL you, he is not in office yet, so i'm sure it will be on the agenda! Secondly i think the ECONOMY is an important thing to focus on first since it effects ALL of us! Sorry i want gay rights also, but give me a break, saying he has failed you! fuck off
Gays are great at cat fighting. Lets do it. SLAP THAT BITCH!
If you didn't know his take on gay marriage before you voted, Perez, that's your fault. I'm sure you did, and you voted for him anyway, so I don't know why you're bitching about it now. Obama is a great step in the right direction. As many of your readers have pointed out, the man has not even been sworn in yet, so you never know what might happen once he takes office…
It's not like you'll be getting married anytime soon anyway, Perez. I'd be shocked if anyone proposed to you. Do you even date? I mean, Christ lmao, you have to date before you get married.
But seriously, way to spoon feed the pissed off conservative assholes on this site, if you said "McCain has already failed us" they'd have a bitch fit, but they're LOVING how you said Obama already failed us…no matter how ignorant that comment was. It's obvious that if Obama was for Prop 8, that would be the ONLY factor in your decision to vote for the other candidate. Nothing else matters to you besides gay marriage. I'm against Prop 8, but there are so many other important things to worry about besides gay rights.
he failed us? He is not even president yet. How can you say that..
he's not even in office yet you fucking idiot, how the hell has he failled you?
I'm so tired of hearing about gay marriage, i wish you homos would go back in the closet and stay there.
Hey Perez… It is way to early for you to be saying Obama failed at anything, esp. since he is not even in office yet. I understand that you are angry about prop 8 passing, but pointing the finger at Obama is ridiculous and you're making yourself look bad.
Re: Bulldog baby – Wow you're an idiot, what is Obama supposed to do about this when he isn't even in office? You're clutching at straws hun. You're a prime example of conservatives today, and that's not a compliment.
NEWSFLASH!!! BARACK-"LIGHTNING", OBAMA BOUGHT YOUR VOTE WITH FALSE HOPE AND LIES OF "CHANGE". EMPTY SUIT, HAS HIS OWN MOTIVES, NEVER SUPPORTED GAYS, NOT NEARLY ENOUGH ACTUAL HANDS-ON EXPERIENCE… 49 MORE MONTHS TO GO, LORD HELP US ALL. LET'S JUST HOPE HE DOESN'T PULL OFF WHAT HE IS CAPABLE OF.. CHAVEZ, AMERICA THIRD WORLD COUNTRY BY 2016!
I MEAN SERIOUSLY, HE WANTS TO CHANGE OUR NATIONAL ANTHEM? LOL!.. GOD BLESS AMERICA
Please, Perez. I know you're mad about Prop8, but people aren't going to take your political stances seriously if you slander Barack Obama for something he had no control over.
What are you talking about retard?? He isn't even in power yet…you have more power than he does right now…get a grip and quit pointing fingers…where is your donation P-naz????????/
While I do not agree with gay marriage, I don't see what the problem is with being gay and serving in the armed forces. Being gay does not diminsh their ability to work. The Obama thing shouldn't surprise you; I don't think he has changed his stance on gay marriage…he has always been against it.
he has no power over anything Perez so how can you say he failed us?
Perez thinks that Obama should have spoke out against Prop 8 on the campaign trail. Perez seems to think if Obama did that (I guess in his thinking because he is a democrat he should be supporting gay rights) that more people who have voted against Prop 8…that it would have swayed the high black vote at least. See, Perez has to take that angle since he can't bash blacks or latinos like he does the Mormons.
Pray tell, how did he fail in this aspect as Schadenfreude (post 4) stated, he has ZERO executive power. If anyone failed it would be the millions who voted for Prop8…….not our President elect…..
barack has power in his voice, in speaking about it. are you all that stupid?
Perhaps you are in need of a refresher, but it was Bill Clinton that made this into law, something Hillary defends to this day instead of demanding a repeal. You can't blame Obama for the voters in California, or around the country for that matter. This is in no way Barack Obama's fault, you are just too childish to realize it. Grow up and get a clue.
fuck you're a stupid hypocrite sometimes perez.. seriously, how you go and say Obama failed you on gay marriage, last time i checked he didnt even VOTE in the state of california.. let alone have any power/had won/was even president-elect/is in charge yet..
seriously, sometimes i think you are actually related to Paris.. IDIOT.
wah wah wahhhh ollama did it again. theres ur "CHANGE" h0mo
Re: Tash20 – Sooo true! I'm glad somebody else sees that!!
he is not the official president until Jan. What do you expect him to do? Wave his hand and overrule all of the votes that voted for it? You want more government in your life only when it benefits you.
How in the hell has Obama failed YOU on gay marriage? He's the president elect, not the president. He's a senator from Illinois right now, not from California. Californians failed themselves on this. You owe Mr. Obama an apology along with every one that reads this site for posting ignorant statements like that.
YO PEREZ. I WAS JUST WONDERING IF YOU REALIZE THAT "YOU" ARE THE ONE WHO HAS PERPETUATED ALL THIS HATE BETWEEN YOUR GAY AND STRAIGHT READERS. NOT THAT YOU GIVE A FUCK ABOUT YOUR READERS. WE'D PROBABLY WOULD'VE GOTTEN ALONG JUST FINE WITHOUT YOUR FUCKING BULLSHIT STIRRING EVERYBODY UP. SO FUCK YOU
Perez, I love you, but sometimes your lack of knowledge on how things work makes me cringe when I read your site. The pathetic passing of Prop 8 was on the STATE level. As of now, the only way to change that is through the state of California. The thing that most bothers me is you saying that Barack Obama has "FAILED" us. First off, he is President ELECT! He does not have the powers of the President at this moment. Second, if by chance the Prop 8 appeals get to the national level, he could not single handedly overturn the outcome. He could veto it but it all comes down to Congress. So to say that this man has failed us before he has even begun is not only inaccurate, but unfair.
Uhm, maybe you haven't realized it's not Jan yet?
He's not magical you know, he doesn't just have to snap his fingers.
Why don't you just post more useless dribble about Jolie.
YOU BETTER POST MY SHIT ASSHOLES!
He is the president elect. Not the president. Chill out!!
Re: Frakall – I knew I would find someone's comments who totally understands that our problems need to be listed and prioritized.
This man has much to contend with but the subject of terrorism scares me! I saw Obama's first press conference after being elected and he looked extremely tired/somber! Protecting us from terrorist strikes (like president Bush has) should be a top priority as many countries hate the USA. Bush did that part right. Think back after the 9/11/01 terrorist strike…this was a sad day for us all!!! We need to remember the president elect's priorities!
I'm sorry Perez, but this 'same sex marriage' pales in comparison to the bigger picture that Obama has to deal with like protecting our lives!!!
LOL!
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Mario = Dumb, Selfish, Ugly Fat Arse!!!
You can't blame him, he isn't president yet, blame those who voted for it.
Obama has NOT failed you. stop being ridiculous.
I'm so sick of this marriage debate. i'm gay too, but i could care less if i am able to legally marry someone. We should be focus on equal rights, not if some f'n church is legally required to marry someone. there are SOOOO many more important and pressing matter's in the world…give up the gay marriage battle..focus on civil unions that provide the same benefits. marriage is over rated
Amen bro! Prioritize!
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Homeland Security!!!
Just read an article about this on Marine Corps times. One of the backers of this is a retired Admiral. He goes on to say that his daughter is a lesbian. See, this is what sucks. He didn't say, but most likely since he was active when the DADT went into effect he was against it, but now, that he is retired and his daughter is a lesbian it is in his best interest to be against it. All of these high ranking officers are saying to get rid of it. They are retired, honestly, their opinions at this time don't mean shit. Why weren't they more vocal about it when they were still in the military and it could've made a difference. Fucking hypocrites as usual.
UM Barack had nothing to do with Prop 8… wtf, how can you say he failed you?! He has no power yet! Idiot!
Re: devil_dawg_wife – I meant that at the time he was for DADT. and now he is against it. Too much caffeine this morning!
Dear Perez: You need to get over this and move on! This is making you look as bad as the 'nut jobs' across the country that are crashing some churches and being obnoxious. And, quit blaming it on the Mormons…they only comprise of 2 percent of the population in California! This is bad representation…don't be foolish…let it go!!!
barack didnt back gay marriage because it would have hurt his chances of winning the election. im sure when he takes office he'll change his mind. but anyway it was the 52% of california voters that failed you not obama
Re: GoGoGadget – gays are in the military moron
The don't ask don't tell policy is for the protection of the gay soldiers, and the comfort of the straight ones in bootcamp and wartime. Don't be critical of something you don't understand
HEY fuck you pinche Perez, don't blame obama! WTF, don't say that HE failed yall.. your own people in California failed yall.
peace
The fact is that Obama is a puppet like they all are. He's already proven his true colors by staying mute since Prop 8 passed. He preached acceptance, diversity and change in his pre election speeches to sway voters, but has already dropped the ball. He's no different than any other dirty politician. It was really sad to see US citizens throw everything behind this man. He talked the talk, but he has already failed to walk the walk.
I'm pretty sure that had nothing to do with Obama. He's not even in office yet and you're blaming him for things that voters in a few states did? This is what's going to happen to the country the second something doesn't go well. He's not even in office yet! Why don't you blame the people who still discriminate against minorities?
Perez, are you a retard???? HE'S NOT PRESIDENT YET!!!!!!! WTF?
Yeah, he hasn't given those tax credits yet. Oh wait, he is not president yet??? Since when you became a time traveler Perezito?
yeah it's hard to say he's "failed" us when he hasn't even taken office yet.
if you're referring to the ridiculousness passed in florida, arizona and california… it's not his fault that some people in those states were stupid.
we have to give him the chance to do something before we say he's failed us.
What the fuck are you talking about?? You fucking idiot!
Don't expect the demoncRATs to do anything about this either. The demoncRAT party is the party of do nothing. The only time they do anything is when it lines their pockets with money or their corrupt friends.
How did Obama fail on gay marriage, Perez? (A) He's not in office yet and (B) he's not governor or senator in any of the states that passed props to ban gay marriage therefore had no influence. Putting the blame on Obama is simply foolish.
Re: mamajud – Right?
First, give Obama a chance…he isn't in the White House yet! Second, and more importantly, this is a really important issue. It was Clinton that screwed this up and came up with this don't ask don't tell compromise. It sucks and it needs to be changed so that everyone can be who they are when they serve in the armed forces. It is hard to believe that you could be risking your life for your country but if they find out about your sexuality they will discharge you. It's inhuman!
Hmmm was it him or the ignorant public that voted for that stupid repelling of gay marriage in California? I think it would be great if the military starting educating it's soldiers and officers about racism, bigotry, sexism, and homophobia..and got away with this stupid policy. People are people no matter who they emotionally/sexually bond with. When are people going to just worry about themselves…NO MORE DISCRIMINATION - everywhere!
1. Obama is not Prez yet.
2. The US citizens are the ones who voted it in
3. Fail is a strong word, think before u use it.
Its an insult to the man that openly said NO on 8 so plz plz stop putting up post pointing blame on why it passed. It has so now is the time to fight for your rights not try to make excuses. Continue the pettitions, the demonstrations. Obama is woking on it all…
You voted for him Perez! I have never heard of a Muslim/Christian yet that has agreed to gay marriage! They make a lot of promises and then give the old kiss my ass speech once you elect them. At least the other side told you where they stand from the get go. Get ready to spread the wealth Perez. I believe you are in the tax bracket that he's looking at to help those of us that don't make six figures a year. Love you Perez, but some changes aren't always for the best.
Re: INeeDsiT – He did NOT say openly NO on 8. The No on 8 campaign said that he did, but he clearly stated that he OPPOSED gay marriage. The NO on 8 campaign was flawed. They lied even more than the Yes on 8 campaign did. Why would Obama say anything on Prop 8 anyway, it did not affect him since he was not serving nor running for office in the state of CA? Think, people!
as much as I am a gay supporter and it saddens me to see prop 8 get through.
I think that this needs to be left in the hands of the supreme court and the lawyers.
President Obama has much to work on that is more important than this (yes it is).
because if he does not get this economy back in order, whether one can marry will be the last thing on our minds as we stand in lines for food, lose our jobs, houses, retirements and investments. We are so close to our whole system failing.
I am not trying to be mean, I support all human beings having the right to equality and I look forward to the day when gays are considered to be just as normal as anyone else.
but this is not President Obama fight. his fight is to fix the problems that Bush has caused.
When I look at the newspaper or news on tv, the cause of prop 8 saddens me, but the lines of homeless people, the stock market going lower and lower and the massive jobs being lost breaks my heart and scares the crap out of me. It should be scaring all of you too.
how has he failed u? dat is so immature…if gay ppl wanted prop 8 to not pass u shoulda went and voted which u obviouysly did not ( I voted no on prop 8 and im straight) i have a feeling alot of gays ddint vote…DER IS ALOT OF GAY PPL IN L.A. are u kidding me its fukin hollywood…HE did not fail u dat is sooooooooooooooooo immature wow
He hasn't failed you on anything . . . . it was made very clear BEFORE the election he and Biden oppose gay marriage. But, y'all voted for them anyway, dumbass!
He's NOT President YET! Its the American People! WTF for posting that remark!
1) He was against Prop. 8, I believe.
2) He's always had a stand on this being a state issue, not federal. And he has admitted that he doesn't believe in gay marriage, but so does everyone else running for President when they want votes.
3) He's not Commander in Chief, yet.
Don't go on blaming Obama for things he doesn't even have much control over, yet.
Barack hasn't had ANYTHING to do with the gay marriage issues yet. WTF, Perez? Seriously. Not to mention, while I agree with the cause and I agree that everyone deserves the right to be unhappy, I feel that the economy is more pressing than marriage right now.
How did HE fail you? The people of California failed you. Not him. I support gay rights completely but you acting really stupid by blaming Barack Obama
Perez, you really need to stop talking politics. I used to ignore it when others said the same thing, but now you're just being STUPID. How in the HELL is the passing of Prop 8 Barack Obama's fault???????????????????????????????????? Oh wait - It's NOT! He came out and said Prop 8 was discriminating. What else could he do? He's not a California Voter, nor is he President yet! You are really showing your ignorance!
1. you supported him
2. hes not even in office yet
3. im pretty sure there are bigger problems than gays being able to marry.
Re: tm4peace –
i completely agree with you. what Laurad said was beyond ignorant and completely incompetent. ANIMALS? really? Marriage is an agreement between two willing people. thats all. and everyone should have the same rights. its sad that its a state problem instead of a federal one. and its sad that people think they have the right to turn their nose up at anyone and tell them that they don't deserve the same rights as everyone else. who the hell do these people think they are? i completely agree with you. religion is an opinion and NO ONE has the right to inforce their beliefs on anyone else. thats oppressive and discriminatory and i wonder when this country will stop being so hateful and realize that everyone deserves the same rights and happiness no matter who they are.
Barack Obama was never for gay marriage. He's said in numbers of interviews that he was for equal rights in relationships (insurance, hospital visits, etc,)
youre prob not going to get your gay marraige any time soon- hes not even going to start making any radical changes- puuling troops out- for another two years… hes going to lay low and get peopel trust and money then fuck us allllll-
Re: karpina –
someone can be against gay marriage without trying to take away rights from other people. everyone is entitled to their own beliefs without enforcing their beliefs on others. he never said he would take away rights or though that gays and lesbians didn't have the same rights as everyone else.
and yes Perez voted for Obama/ Biden as opposed to voting for McCain/ Palin. McCain and Palin wanted to take away rights from more than just the gays and change the constitution while they were at it. Obama and Biden as Christians don't believe in gay marriage but they wouldn't allow their religious beliefs to dictate how they treated people in this country.