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A New Statement from Perez Hilton
Filed under: Gay Gay Gay > Personally Perez > Sad SadFrom the heart:
"Words can hurt. I know that very well, from both sides of the fence. The other night in Toronto, after feeling physically threatened by a verbally abusive Will.I.Am of the Black Eyed Peas, I chose the most hurtful word I know to hurl at him. I was in an out-of-the ordinary situaton and used a word that I would not utter under normal circumstances. My intention - however misguided it may have been - was to stand up for myself and tell this belligerent man that I had enough of his badgering and was not going to continue to let him berate and intimidate me. I wanted to hurt him with the word I chose, not anyone else. Unfortunately, the one who got hurt was me and, subsequently, a lot of other people. I wish none of it had happened. I can't take it back. I did what I thought was best at the moment to stand up for myself in a non-violent yet still assertive way. Clearly, I am not homophobic. Also, I am not nor have I ever claimed to be a spokesperson for the gay community. I am just speaking for myself, a gay man. One who is labeled "flamboyant" in the media. An American that is not granted equal rights under the law. I will continue to speak out for equality and I will continue to say things that upset both gay people and straight people. Who I am as a person and what I do for a living are two separate things. I've come to terms with all my incongruities and am proud of who I am and what I do. In closing, words can hurt. But words should not provoke someone to violence. Stripped away from the mask of Perez Hilton, I have been extremely bothered by the public reaction to my assault. Violence should never be condoned with such statements as "It's Karma" or "I don't believe in violence but….". In fact, several television and radio shows over the past couple of days echoed the sentiment "He had it coming". Would they have said the same thing if I was a woman? Would I have "deserved it" if I had been stabbed? Or shot? Or killed? I was attacked from behind without warning and repeatedly punched in the head in a cold, disgusting and unnecessarily violent manner by Polo Molina, the road manager for the Black Eyed Peas, who I did not even speak with that evening. I did not share any words with him and his assault on me was completely unprovoked. I feel like everything happens for a reason and I leave this traumatic experience as a person with more compassion. Specifically, there was an instance last year when actor Jesse Metcalfe was attacked outside of a Hollywood nightclub by a fellow entertainer. I did not condone the violence, but I did make light of that situation. I regret that. Sincerely. There are many ways to deal with disagreements, both good and bad, but violence is never the answer. Never. I now know that first-hand. It should not be condoned, promoted or accepted. No one "deserves" to be the victim of violence. No one "has it coming." NO ONE. And victims should not be ridiculed. I look forward to marching for equality in Washington, D.C. this October. And I look forward to standing up for my rights in a Toronto courtroom shortly, as I fully intend to seek every lawful remedy against the man that attacked me."
- Perez Hilton
June 23, 2009
Los Angeles, California
I think its disgusting that people said Perez had it coming, well then there are alot more people in the media and in society that have it coming not someone that has an entertainment website. The Black eyed peas have lost a fan….
ok, so if I waz walking
in a crowd and someone
pushed into me on purpose….
U people think that is not
starting something…I hope
someone pushes into you
and we'll c how calm u can b!!
and perez did not run up 2/pill i am,,
the crap he writez in here
ain't reason for a punch, if so
Y DOESN'T EVERYONE PUNCH HIM, THEN?
I agree, violence is NEVER the answer. Stand up for what's right Perez! Love you and God Bless!
I'm sure most celebrities like the Black Eyed Peas resent Perez for being invited to A-list functions considering he is only a blogger (one with horrible taste in fashion, I must add). The fact that he makes fun of them makes them further resent him and it's only a matter of time before the resentment bubbles over in violence. Stick to being a blogger and leave the A-list functions to the real celebrities and all should be good in Hollyweirdland.
You should be ASHAMED and note that MULTIPLE groups are calling for your ban from the advocate cover / upcoming media events / speeches / book signings . etc.
I speak for MANY ( trust me ) in saying that your viewership is up this week because of the OUTRAGE. and we wanted to see your sorry ass statement. IN THE LONG RUN , you have dug your own grave. you are a filthy , uneducated pig which should NEVER be a voice for the gay community NOR the REPETITIVE celebrity CRAP / COKE DOTS ON NOSES. its getting old . its over Mario.
I support you Perez. Hang in there. You are a tough cookie and can fight back. Legally! Yes, it sucks when the gay community imposes their standards on us. And it hurts when they judge as they have been judged.
Wonderful time for everyone to truly examine their selves. Perez, no matter what the bitches say, you are relevant. For that alone, hang tough xoxo
you are right, violence is not the answer. but then… what is the answer perez? bc obviously when all the ppl you talk about ask you to stop talking about them in such a mean manner, you dont give a shit. so, you want ppl to get so emotional that they resort to violence. so, stop talking out of your ass. at the end of the day, you are a bully. plain and simple. you make a living out of making people feel bad about themselves, and youre acting like a whiny bitch when you get punched in the face. FUCK YOU! i read your site for gossip, not to read how ugly fergie is. thats not gossip. that s just cruel. at the end of the day you need to look at yourself bc your words got you into this situation. your UGLY words.
Re: Sparky2384 – If it bothers you so much dont go on the website who cares if you like or not "Sparky"
Perez, two wrongs don't make a right. You should have never called him names. That's just as bad as Polo hitting you. You BOTH were in the wrong. Did you deserve it? Absolutely not. No one deserves to be punched. Count your blessings that you didn't get more seriously hurt. Hope you feel better soon.
Violence blows and solves nothing. I'm with you all the way Perez!
Re: YUCK – Loser dont you have anything better to do?Your name says it all YUCK!
You deserve this. You are not a victim but a suspect. You brought this to yourself. This is what happens to you because YOU judged people and YOU destroyed peoples lives. Carrie Prejean was one of your victims and I think this is what happens when you live to draw doodles on Vanessa Hudgens face.. Good luck
oh perez!! nobody deserves this, we are with u on this one!
No one deserves to be attacked but as an intelligent, grown man, you know those words, the same words that have been used to hurt you and who you are time and time again, you still owe Will an apology. Show him that he is "subhuman" and that you are better by apologizing and by continuing to show the same compassion you've shown in your statement going forward. I have always loved your site (minus the insipidly stupid jizz drizzles) because you truly do get the scoop, but you also seem to live to incite hatred towards anyone or anything that doesn't align itself with YOUR beliefs. Either way, I hope Mr. Molina gets the punishment he deserves and I hope you and everyone that has witnessed this mess learns to choose their words and battles wisely. Life is too short to be a shit-starter or a victim. Stay strong, Perez!
Glad you are okay Perez!
Now you're screaming "injustice" like a girl. Take it like a man buddy. When you make a living doing what you do, trashing people, you've got to expect this and a lot worse. You're right, words hurt. Words are just as violent as punches. And you hurl your verbal violence daily at people. If I were you, I'd be careful. Keep doing what you do and this is not the end of it. Stuff comes back. Put out nasty energy and it's gonna come back to bite you…
Very Heartfelt. Violence between anyone is never the answer. No one had it coming! Do we feel because a woman dresses sexy she had it coming. I think not! Time to move on. Perez keep your head up. Don't let this get you down. Stand up for all you believe in and be a better person. I'm sure you have learned a lot from this situation. God Bless
So refreshing to scroll the comments
to find less hatefulness and more positivity.
All human beings make mistakes.
A mistake of language is human.
A mistake of violence is animal.
I do feel bad for you
but………
you're constantly attacking people as well
It just seems like you can't take what you dish out.
PEREZ IS A BITCH WITHOUT ONE REAL FRIEND IN THE WORLD.
To Perez: It is horrible that this happened to you. Will-I-Am & his crew were wrong. He and the BEP's make fun dance music but are generally what's wrong with music and the industry these days because his talent is LIMITED!!! I grew up in the 80's and say fa**ot sometimes too by accident because it used to be ok to say it and because I love gay people and am pro-gay rights all the way so it seems almost silly to be so sensitive about it because I don't mean it meanly…also, when feeling threatened and in the heat of the moment, we as humans say random shit! While your job does poke fun at people, nothing makes what happened to you ok!!!! Also GLAAD should suck it because they only get involved when it's safe - there are MANY other times that worse things happen & I wait for them to make a statement and they don't. Clearly you are not anti-gay so just leave it with them! Feel better, good luck & nail them in court!
To Anyone being nasty to Perez: IF YOU DON'T LIKE PEREZ & WANT "KARMA TO GET HIM," THEN GET OFF HIS SITE & STOP ENJOYING HIS WORK, YOU HATEFUL RIGHT-WING LOSERS! JESUS ACTUALLY THINKS YOU'RE HORRIBLE YOU FOR BEING HATEFUL!
Ok, new post already. Back to work. Chop chop!!!
I'm sorry… I can't help but find your video amusing… "I don't need publicity… I have 10 mil hits!" yada yada…. I can't stop chuckling.
Re: fuckinhomo – do you come here just to do that?
to call him out for being gay?
’cause really, you should get a life if that's the case
being an innorant fuck who seeks out people to hurt is really not a great goal to have in life
Re: Sparky2384 – Sparky - this is the best post of all. This Fatso Perez is a punk and an a-hole and finally got what was coming to him. When you open your mouth all the time like a punk you will eventually get your ass whooped for it. Your a punk Perez and good riddance to you.
Yes, violence is not the answer. However, your daily written assaults and verbal assaults in your videos are not the answer either. You are just as wrong as the people you attack daily. I understand you are trying to be humorous but unfortunately ony 5% of what is on this site if funny, the other 95% is your childish attack on the people you do not like and shameless pimping of those you deem to be in your good graces. My only hope is the backlash to all this ends your 15 minutes of fame.
Those who say if you don't like it, don't read the site. I agree, the problem is this idiot is all over mainstream media and I am just sick of the over exposure. Seems like a lot of people feel the same way.
the truth is WE'RE A BUNCH OF IGNORANT APPES!!!! full of contradictions…
what are we to do we're all flawed, we're humans, we're the thinking species and somehow the most stupid!!!
Goor for you! We are all standing behind you!!!! March on!!!
You are disgrace to this world! You are what is wrong wrong with blogging and celebrities. There are other sites that 'bash' celebrities, but they have limits and are actually funny! When you go on just jared . com, you get he info about celebs, but without disgusting drawing and comments.
I do not think you were scared when he punched you and because of physical abuse, but you were so scared when you realized there was nobody on your side at the moment. YOU WERE ALONE! At that is what scares people the most. I am glad this happened, because all this time I was thinking I was the only one not to like you.
You should apologize to WILL I AM, Miss Cali (ex), Jennifer Aniston, All the boys and men you sexually(verbally) abuse on your site, all the women you hate so much.
When I heard about this I was flabbergasted. Seriously. What possess some people. I've been called names, told I'm ugly and generally bullied my whole life and I've never hit anyone.
I agree that you maybe made the wrong choice to continue to trade words with Mr. I.Am, but then again, sticks and stones and all that jazz.
If the BEP's manager was so incensed, he should have hit you with a lawsuit for slander and/or defamation of character and seen where that got him.
Violence is never the answer unless it's for a murder, child molester, pedophile or rapist.
You are none of the above and did not deserve what happened.
I will say that I hope you get justice from the Canadian courts. I'm from Canada and I don't have much faith in our justice system. Good luck with your day in court, big P!
USA fights terrorists every day, but you are just one of them. You do not kill people, but you kill them inside piece by piece. You terrorize (verbally) people EVERY DAY!!
You are not Gay Community Advocate?? Is that why you were attacking Miss Cali every moment you had? You never said, " I WANT TO GET MARRIED NOW', you were making the big deal out of FREEDOM OF SPEECH (that is what she said) for the gay community that don't wanna have anything to do with you, JUST LIKE THE REST OF THE WORLD. You are alone and that is why you are so bitter. You lost the weight so you can get laid! OMG!!!
This site should be closed, until then access should be denied to ppl below 21 yrs old! This site is everything that is wrong with THE WORLD today!
Peace from Canada!
p.s. DO NOT come back, we do not want you!
fuck you perez you piece of dog shit worthless scum
Violence is NOT the anwser!! It's primate like. To me violence it's a lack of intelligence. Stay strong Perez, I Love you and I beleive you all the way!!!!
the canadian court room will LAUGH you out!
seriously what "severe sentence" do you expect?
have you seen yourself in that video?
how can they prove will.i.am or his manager hit you?
you are pathetic!
you could have got hit by an accident in a crowd like that to get such a minor minor minor minor… shall i say it again, minor injury.
i'm glad you are prepared to humiliate yourself more!
Re: ebabymomma – No sweety, its your priorites and morals that stink of shit you fucking imbecile! The fact that you support Perez when 99% of the population thinks he got what he deserves means it sucks to be you bitch. I guess you are just as big a douche as Perez with the morals of a hooker…
I don't believe either of you are in the right here. You realize we are all apes that can go off at any time for no reason. I realize you feel safe and cozy behind your computer screen, but while I have never been physical with anyone over words on a computer, if I had any chance of seeing them in real life, I'm sure they would be sorry they ever got monitor-tough with me. I would probably be ever-aware of my surroundings if I said the stuff you say. Just to be safe stay on the defensive. Expect that everyone wants to punch you and you'll always be ready for it. Plus you could learn how to fight back. Instead of cupping your eye and crying. I've met alot of Gays you wouldn't want to mess with. Be one of those, don't be a victim punch back.
It's fair to say that everyone likes a gossip and looks at celebrity crap at one point or another - how can we not?, it's everywhere.
But…
There's a way to go about it, ie you do NOT need to be so awful to people, whether they are celebrities or not. Celebrities are human too.
Keep your claws in.
ever hear of paragraphs?
This is a much better reaction Perez, well written.
Sorry, last comment… I find this all so damn amusing.
Seriously, Mario… your blog video about the fight is embarrassing… you're so self absorbed and a drama queen… you've talked so much sh** about people on your site and strut around thinking you're untouchable… I swear half your whiny video entry was about how many hits you have on your site… so you said you'd "stand your ground" and pipe off with one of the most offensive remarks… and you got smacked down….hilarious.
Sorry Perez, you can't have it both ways. You started it, you escalated it, yet when the other side chose to finish it you now claim that you are the victim. If you had any balls you would take the high road, drop the charges and admit that none of this would have happened without you running your mouth in the first place.
You claim to not be a spokesperson for the gay community, but you certainly have made yourself a one man show when it comes to outing people. But now your advertising dollars are being threatened, so now you go into "poor little me" mode. I'm not buying it.
Re: danthrplgst –
so now according to you the whole negro race always resorts to violence and this is coming from a stupid oompa lompa guido from jersey.
STFU with your lame media induced generalizations
Re: 4thbelle – okay, but he's not "poking fun". calling someone ugly, and making fun of someone when they get attacked is cruel. those are things bullies do. i read his site for gossip. since when is calling a person ugly over and over gossip?
I am Canadian and Perez, you can go into a Canadian courtroom with the attitude of the biggest drama queen in the world which you already have and this is going to be prosecuted as a slap on the wrist because its Canada!
WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM?WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM?WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM? WHERE'S YOUR APOLOGY TO WILL.I.AM?
I am sorry for what happend to you! But i think it was not sooo bad I mean you do not even have bruises, I think you were just scared. But to be honest I would have probably reacted in the same way, if I was being insulted like that in public. I would deeply regred it afterwards and hate myself for it, but still I am just not so good of a person as you claim to be Perez.
I still find your tweets from that night really strange.
Freedom af speech is not an excuse for going around and insulting people just to get publicity.
Also, are you 100% sure it was POLO who punched you? I heard he only confessed because the police would not let the Black Eyed Peas leave Canada before they knew who did it.
So it could have been anybody, even a fan. I think thats quite possible, I mean a lot of people really hate you. I do not buy the way, I think you are hilarious!
So here is my question:
Are you guys a better person than whoever punched Perez?
WHO MANY OF YOU WOULD HAVE SNAPED?
BE HONEST!!!
YES; I WOULD AND THEN DEEPLY REGRETED IT AFTERWARDS.
NO; NO MATTER WHAT ANYBODY SAYS TO ME I WOULD NEVER SLAP.
this is not about right or wrong, i mean we all know violence is never the answer.
It is about honesty and what beeing hurt by words would do to you.
plz reply…
Amen Lovey. 100% in my thoughts and prayers as you go through yet another ordeal for just being you! Can't wait for the day when people just get over themselves and off their high horses and just LIVE!
WOW! I don't think that Sparky 2384 could have said it better! You continue to reiterate that VIOLENCE IS NOT the answer…is verbal abuse not violence? Though I do enjoy your website for the latest celebrity updates, I do not enjoy your insults especially to children. To verbally abuse someone, I feel is much worse than to physically abuse someone. Bruises and cuts heal…the words that hurt our hearts stay forever. I will not say "you had this coming", I will say I hope you learn from this and that you think before you make your next insult on your website. I wish you all the best. PEACE.
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Hey Perez,
I'm very sorry for this awful situation to have to happen to you. i watched the video relating to this and i just wanted to jump through the computer screen and give you a big hug!! You are right violence is never an answer Will i Am is a dumbass. i hope he gets what he deserves and quick. i have very little tolerance for people who think they can put their hands on people. This is terrible.
yeah i definitely stopped caring about this a long time ago…
GO WILL.I.AM!!
we're with you Perez…stay strong!
YOU GOT WHAT WAS COMING TO YOU AND IF YOU DON'T WATCH YOU POISON PEN OF YOURS. IM SURE IT S GOING TO HAPPEN AGAIN YOU IGNORANT FOOL.
Of course you would use a derogatory word, that comes to no suprise. If that's the only word you could think of at a stressful moment then that is really sad. You can only push someone to the limit so far before they snap, we are humans with animal instincts after all. Everyone has wanted to kick someones ass in their life, and if you deny that you are a liar. And sometimes fortunely and unfortunely it happens.
perez got some boom boom poww
You are young and you are going to make mistakes. You say that people should never resort to violence, but guess what, you can't control other people's behavior. What you can control is your behavior so…I would think very carefully about what you say and put into print because next time things might not end so nicely.
Dear Mr. "Hilton,"
I feel compelled to comment on your recent alleged altercation with will.i.am's manager.
As I understand it, you have, on several occasions, posted unflattering information about will.i.am's bandmate. Will.i.am confronted you about this, and you responded by referring to him with a slur. You were then allegedly punched in the face.
First, although your blog is protected under the First Amendment of the U.S. Constitution, it is questionable whether the slur you leveled at will.i.am is so protected. Slurs are fighting words, and one should seriously think twice before using them.
Second, if the above is true, it sounds to me like you had it coming. In high school, I learned that when you talk shit, you run the risk of getting your ass kicked. You ran your mouth, and allegedly got your ass kicked. Put downs and insults are no less harmful than physical violence. Being a celebrity does not entitle you to make such harmful statements. Although being the recipient of a put down or an insult does not entitle the victim (or their associate) to attack, it is hard to be sympathetic, or even surprised, when a verbally abusive person gets physically attacked.
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Speaking of shit-talking and lessons learned in high school, I've also learned that the people who do the most shit-talking are the ones who are most filled with self-hatred. This is because such people have low self-esteem and need to put others down to feel better about themselves. This begs the following question: What is it you so dislike about yourself that you not only do a massive amount of shit-talking, but have actually built a lucrative business enterprise out of shit-talking? Are you unhappy about your weight? Are you ashamed of being gay? You shouldn't be. Neither of these things are grounds for any level of self-loathing, let alone the type of deep self-loathing necessary to build a business enterprise out of shit-talking. I rephrase for clarity's sake: It is not "wrong" to be gay or overweight; no one should hate themselves for being gay or overweight.
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I dont think it was right for that asshole to hit you and I think is even worst that some people are saying that you deserved to be hit. THose fuckers are despicable. Hope they rot in hell
While I am at it, I will also add that your blog, and what it stands for, promotes the shortcomings of our generation – specifically, that we are more likely than previous generations to shit-talk, be insecure, and be incapable of happily living within our means. When mass media "reports" on how someone is getting fat or losing their hair, or shouldn't be caught dead wearing such cheap shit, it does more than merely suggest to the more impressionable members of society that it is OK to spend money they don't have on cosmetic procedures and Affliction tee shirts, and than shit-talk anyone who doesn't do the same. It actually promotes such odious behavior. The fact that your blog is entitled to First Amendment protection and has millions of readers does not somehow validate it. Many anti-gay rights groups also have websites that both are entitled to First Amendment protection and boast an impressive number of readers. I think we can both agree on the validity (or lack thereof) of their message.
I hope this incident will get you to engage in some serious self-reflection about your issues with your self, and how you should use your vast talents to promoting a more positive message.
Best,
Person who learns things on a daily basis
Good luck Perez, hope you get justice against this man!
Hope you are recovering well, ignore anyone who says you deserve it - they're probably jealous you have such a successful, popular website!
I personaly believe both persons were in the wrong. I know for a fact that words hurt more than fists. You should have never used that word. But also you could have used another word that was MUCH worse, so i comend on that account. And to hit some one, well thats just low and trashy. I think it would be best for the both of you to just say "Im Sorry" and move on. Its best for everyone.
sounds like you were punched because of the shit you talk on a daily basis, not because you are gay…………….
a lot of celebrities are probably envious of whoever landed his fist on your face and wish they had the chance to.
in my opinion, i think you deserve more than just a punch in the face.
violence is never the answer. yes. but with you, an exception is justified.
Obviously you've never been in a fight before; otherwise you wouldn't be making such a big deal about this. You may have never claimed to be a spokesperson for the gay community, but you sure were riding on the coattails of those who fought for gay rights before you when you were pretending your battle with Carrie Prejean was all about gay rights. But I get it now. The whole Miss California farce wasn’t any more about gay rights than this whole BEP debacle is about violence. It’s about YOU, and YOU trying to save face. Read your statement…anyone could play a pretty good drinking game by sipping to the many times you say “I” in it. Stop thinking about yourself for once, and assess how some of your actions and words affect people. You are not the innocent angel, here.
Re: JuiCYb23 – well……rihanna makes music……perez just makes fun of people…….hmmmmm a little different……who deserved it?
I can see right through this phony apology. Glaad asked you to make a public apology, and being the publicity crazed idiot you are, you did. You don't mean a word of this. You are a victim of karma, and you know it. You have fans turning against you, though sadly, it is bringing the sheep out to "stand behind you".
All you can talk about is how youre the one that got hurt, you dont have equal rights, youre the victim of violence blah blah blah. It's not all about you, you frigging twit! You couldn't just say " I am sorry for throwing that vulgar word at Will. I understand that it was wrong." OH NO, you have to play that "innocent victim" bull. Drop the charges, put your big boy panties and move the hell on.
oh and how in the HELL can you compare this "violence" to that of a battered woman??!?!?!?!?!?! This "violence" happened because a gay man couldnt keep his mouth shut and someone finally got fed up with it. i see no resemblance to a battered woman.
Perez, you use one of the most disgusting words in the English language ("Fa*%$!"). As a gay man, I condone using this word with the intention of hurting someone (which is what you did). You clearly have double standards and applied the rules that are convenient for you. Now you are using your gay card to justify the use of a word that has cause so much pain in gay history. I'm against physical violence, but verbal abuse is as bad. Dude, it doesn't matter how many excuses or statements you put out, you are bringing the gay equallity movement down. This is not about marching in a rally (anyone can do that). It is about living your day to day life in a manner that pushes the equallity movement forward and bring respect to our community. You should take one for the team and simply shut up. You are making our community look awful!
if you are not a role model or spokeperson for the gay community, please stop trying to "out" those who decide it is not the public's business to know.
while i cannot condone hitting, enough whining about the event, you are a big boy (literally) and need to move on.
You were both wrong in how it was handled. Violence is never the answer and you provoked a reaction with your choice of words. If you were the bigger person you would have walked away. Sounds like you've learned some things, but not everything you should have from this. And where is your apology to Will?
you are ridiculous.
Perez is NOT a professional. Look up the word "profession". Anyone who thinks this is a respectable "profession" (with a body of research behind it) has a thinking problem.
Cry me a river. You are such a bully!
Perez I am glad you did this, I had lost respect for you since you where not issuing a statement or admitting you where wrong in using the F word. I believe you made a situation that was already heated even hotter by, using words to attach both Will I am and Fergie, I beleive if someone would talk about your mother to your face you would not just stand there and take it, No Violence is not the answer but, with alcohol involved and you being the ass that you know you can be it was bound to happen, and would not be surprised if it happens again in the future, just be careful and hoepfully this is a learning experience and you can be more caustious of how you can really hurt with words.
You publicly called C. Prejean a "stupid blonde bitch" for speaking her mind…and your Karma check was cashed.
You're a disgrace to the gay and straight community.
i couldn't agree more i hope you feel better & i'll keep you in my prayers.you keep on being fabulous perez!
UR OK
u DID WHAT MOST PEOPLE WOULD DO IN THAT SITUATION!!!
everyone who has a problem with that can totally just fuck off already
EVERYONE AND I MEAN "EVERYONE" has said worse !!
Im rooting for u Perez because u bring a smile to my face and totally make me laugh !!
ur friend from MOntreal…yeah baby
I hear what you are saying but i also hear a whole lot of excuses too.You still havent apologised for what you said or the derogatory words that you used. You say that you will use words that will hurt both gay an straigh people? Really? Just because you say that doesnt make the words that you intend to use more acceptable. You say you wanted to hurt him, why those choice of words though? do you honestly beleive that being gay is bad to the point where it can be used as an insult? If you thought you were not a spokesperson for gay peopl you sure as hell arent now. It just shows how uncomfortable and insecure about who you are as a person to use it as an insult to hurt people. You have made your people look like a joke to others and for that i really do think you should apologise if for nothing else at all and stop making excuses.
You will have you day and court and as you have said justice will be served as no one should be hit but as i have said if you are going to say something that disruptive, you should be ready to b ack it up in someway whether it be fists or otherwise.
Enough is enough. You have been caught in your own web of lies. You still don't get it and you never will. I am so sick of reading, "get well soon!" WTF is that supposed to mean? You probably made that little nick of a cut yourself which is why you had to delay your call to 911. You probably got a little boo-boo when you were applying your make-up that night. There is nothing wrong with you physically, but mentally..that is a whole other issue. I am going to watch your video one last time for a good laugh, and also because it is going to be the basis of the dismissal of your case. You have self-imploded.
Your behavior has become more and more shrill and then you made racist and homophobic comments to Will I am and then about him in your video. There isn't a judge on earth that will have sympathy for you. I hope your lawyer Baker Acts you. That would be my professional recommendation.
The embryo in my stomach has bigger balls than you. Jesus.
dont stop being perez!!!
dont tone anything down!!!
no one deserves being hit because of something they said!!!
I need to understand why you label Will. i. am. as a "thug" when all he did was use WORDS. So does that make you a "thug" because your viscious on a keyboard? Will was not the one that hit you so why are you dragging his name through the mud? No one deserves to be hit, HOWEVER, not everyone agrees with this and when you puposely provoke someone with words, you have to be prepard for their actions. Perhaps the manager felt you took it to far and he reacted as he saw fit. But Will.i.am should not be labled a thug for someone else's actions.
You cry that violence is not the answer.
You are the SPOKESMAN FOR BULLIES EVERYWHERE!
You are the playground bully that teases the fat girls, making them cry.
You are the lunch bully that steals the lunch money from the smaller kids.
You are the bully that makes fun of the smart kids.
You are the cyber bully that causes kids with poor self-esteem to kill themselves.
You are the bully that spreads malicious lies.
You are the complete MEAN GIRL.
You are filled with violence and enjoy making people feel bad about themselves.
You need to STOP.
Your actions are disgraceful.
Frankly I'm surprised that it took this long for someone to stand up to your verbal violence. And I have no doubt that more is coming - that tends to happen in these situations.
TIME TO EVOLVE INTO A DECENT HUMAN BEING.
I hope that you can - that would be an inspiring transformation.
Re: BunniLaRue – but maybe if you wouldve stood up for yourself, the bullying would have stopped. bullies prey on the weak. i dont like violence, but sometimes ppl dont understand how much words can hurt until they get punched in the face.
Re: JuiCYb23 – you are so fucking wrong to even compare these situations. rhianna is a victime of domestic violence, Perez is a victim of his double standards. He DID provoke this, the words he spew ARE violent and he's got his head so far up his ass that he can't even see it. I too enjoy some of the postings, but any idiot can see that some of these postings are down right evil… and hypocritical. He's been calling Angelina a saint, but Sienna Sluttyienna. Both these bitches did the same shit (break up marriages). And he does this why, because Angie promotes all the "good" she does? This does not take away from who she is as a person. He wants to say that the bitch slapped he recieved from the person who hit him was violent, but he is violent. He purposely proveoked Will.I.Am, thinking HE would hit him… but it seems Will was smart and let someone else do it… I actually think that's what he's really mad about!!! LMFAO
i think the thing you are really sorry about is that you revealed your true colors by using a homophobic insult despite championing against it. it makes you look ridiculous. that is why no-one will give you the sympathy that you are desperately craving. the fact that you let it escalate to such a point shows that you didn't think it could happen to you. people get hit for no reason at all, and you provoked the situation and are still whining about it. grow up.
my real point here though is that how would you report this if it did not involve you? i seriously doubt you with give any sympathy to anyone after hearing the facts.
Your not some kind of princess that is exempt from life's trauma and you certainly thrive on drama, which makes you particularly vulnerable to such antics. By being overly dramatic in your attempt to make people feel sorry for you (what if I were stabbed, shot or killed), your being egotistical and playing out all your self important BS. you cannot see outside your little world long enough to realize that you are PLAYING THE VICTIM! And that victim mentality and taking little to no responsibility for your actions or playing them down because you felt threatened is not going to let you grow/learn from this situation. You could have just said, I was wrong, he was wrong, lets move on. But you chose to once again play the victim in an attempt to gain sympathy. Mario, please grow up. For the sake of all the children that read your site, for your own sake and sanity, put away the drama, the victim mentality and just be a positive person. All the negativity you spew daily is what people are talking about when they say Karma. When you are negative, negative things happen to you. Its the universal law and your little soul is not going to change that no matter how much you feel you've been wronged. Just sayin……
I completely agree Perez.
NO ONE deserves to be abused in ANY way.
Win that court case perez, you deserve it!
Re: PryncessJ – Well fucking said Princess!
BTW, "words" hurt WORSE than a punch in the nose. A bruise will fade but the wounds from verbal abuse/assault do not.
It is your "bruised ego" that that is seeking remedy. Your behavior is of the classic bully who gets called out. Whaaaaaaaa….he hit me….whaaaaaa!
Be a man and admit the part you played in it, Mario. You are contemptible for trying to minimize and justify your behavior, while trying to apologize for it at the same time.
So you are upset. So what. This is what happens when you are a bottom feeder.
You did what you had to at the time. Fear can bring out the worst in all of us. I guess the jerk felt for one moment what many of us have to deal with on a daily basis. Although I do not condone what was said, I do believe it was just human nature. And you Mario are one of my favorite humans! Don't beat yourself up over it…….just keep on keepin' on!
Fuck You, I hope you get hit by a bus. You are not a Woman, so you do deserve to get clocked for having a big mouth ( and a big fukin' head too).
Hope you die!!
You are your own worst enemy. You brought this on yourself and trying for sincere puppy dog won't make your actions any less odious.
When people are mad they say what they really mean, there is no logic just plain automatic response.
Perez you are a fucking cry baby liar.
You don't deserve getting hit! but you did make fun of Jesse Metcalfe you create your own destiny and in the long run you tell people how to treat you with your actions and with how YOU treat people! the situation is sad but perhaps your like a kid needed to get hurt to learn what hearts!!!
Your so right violence is not the answer ever….and suing in court for monetary value is not the answer either. that is an emotional reaction. So I hope you are going to use the court (jail time, community service ect.) for justice and not a settlement for you( think chris brown
So Sorry Perez, Stay strong!
And to all of you who claim he deserved this…well you are just as bad as the people who use violence. As a victim of violence myself, it is more than just a punch to the face, it is a very disturbing and emotional thing that the victim also must deal with. All of you who agree he or anyone deserves such action are part of this worlds problems. You are clearly sending the wrong message by the negative comments posted below….We all have freedom of speech and can clearly say what we want, why Perez is where he is now. If you can't deal with it..walk away, use your words not your hands, something we tell our children….Violence in NEVER the answer!!!! Go Perez, Your in my prayers.
Re: lovernotahater – Very well said!
First and foremost, violence is never the answer! these "celebrities" which we look up to have been sickening with the comments they have made with this incident. I cannot beleive they would make these statements and think its ok. Sticks and Stones may break my bones, but names will never hurt me. Can any of those celebrities get that and understand it? You chose to be famous, and that puts you in the spotlight for all types of opinions about yourself. Perez is a entertainment sight, get it? It's like comedy, we all laugh, it doesn't hurt anyone, but putting your hands on someone else does. I am horrified that the community thinks this is ok. Please grow up and realize that you are all setting exaples for your children and children of this world. I love you perez, and I think you should take this all the way! NO VIOLENCE!
smooches~krissy
I have lost all respect for you and your opinions. You've made a living by being queen of mean and newsflash: words are JUST as harmful as physical violence. Get over yourself.
Go Perez!
All of your fans are proud of you for standing up for yourself, and we all respect your decisions. Good luck