Candy Spelling may have some valid points, but she negates them all by not taking the higher road.

YOU are the mother, bitch. Stop acting like a fucking child!

The estranged and horrid mother of Tori Spelling is once again bashing her daughter publicly. This time because the 90210 alum's reality show has made Candy's snubbing of an invite to meet her new granddaughter for the first time (on camera, of course) into the two-part finale for this season.

In a scathing new letter, Candy writes:

TO: MIDDLE-AGED REALITY SHOW STARS (LIKE MY DAUGHTER)
FROM: CANDY SPELLING

I Know many middle-aged people have issues about their parents and their upbringing. I did. My memories didn't match all those of my mother, and, funny thing, it's the same way with my daughter.

Life has consequences. What you say is on the record. Other people have feelings.

I have a vested interest in this subject. My daughter, Tori's, two-part season finale revolves around my granddaughter's first birthday party and how she has made what seems like an agonizing decision to invite me.

Cue music. Cue sideways glaces. Clue Lights.

I did get an invitation just in time for the RSVP deadline. I'm sure its delivery will be on next week's episode with some comment about my house or driveway or street or something they won't like. I wonder if that will be spread out over one part or two. Sigh.

A big party wasn't how I envisioned meeting my granddaughter for the first time; but, hey, this is Hollywood, and my grandchildren have become reality show props, too. At the time I emailed "yes," I didn't realize I was being set up for a two-parter, even though it was clear I was being invited to be part of a segment for my daughter's reality show.

Spoiler alert. Don't read this if you plan to sit through an hour of people looking at their watches and saying "she's late." I decided my first meeting with my granddaughter should be on home video, not primetime cable; so I emailed that i would not be attending.

Back to other reality stars. My husband taught me that the plots have to be fresh and updated. The same old whining gets tired after a while. Enough complaining about what may or may not have happened during first grade or YMCA camp, or what vegetable you were forced to endure, especially when you are privileged enough to be on TV and get paid for it.

For all the reality show personalities, please remember that real life doesn't get edited to make things better or worse or get better ratings. You're responsible for what you do. Life isn't just a show. And your families can't just be props. Make your own season finale without creating conflicts you will regret later.

Dear Candy,

See a therapist.

Work out your "issues" in private!

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Candy Spelling is selling lots of old shiz on eBay.

Is she donating money to charity? Makes no mention of that.

Greedy!!!!

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Boy, does this family know how to feud or what?!

After stating in countless interviews how she has never met her new granddaughter, Candy Spelling was invited to the child's 1st birthday party this past weekend. Tori Spelling, in an effort to bury the hatchet, invited her mother so that they could clear the air.

But, when the day of the party arrived, Candy was nowhere to be seen at the festivities. She chose not to attend at the last minute because of the camera crews that would be present for Tori's reality show.

Sources are saying that this was a huge slap in the face to Tori as she had already told her mother that the show would be filming but that she would respect Candy's wishes and not have her included in the taping. Candy had confirmed she would attend with the prior knowledge but then changed her mind an hour before and decided to inform her daughter through e-mail.

An email? Really?

Of course, being a busy hostess, Tori never received the message until after the party was over. A source recalls: "She was waiting for her mom the whole time."

Candy's camp stands by that the grandmother was unaware of the filming and she would not attend with cameras there.

Your loss, Candy. Sounds like you could have had a nice day with your daughter and grandchildren.

Now what do you have?

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Randy Spelling wants no part of the dramz between his big sis Tori and mother Candy, refusing to comment on the statement his mom made earlier this week that Tori "killed" their father, Aaron Spelling.

Leave the cattiness to the ladies!

Instead, the death of his father has had a tremendous impact on Randy's life - in a positive way.

The 30-year-old Randy is the brains behind a life coaching company, Being in Flow.

"After my dad died, I took stock of my life," Spelling recalls.

He continues: "I’ve always been into people and spirituality, and a friend suggested I take a course in becoming a life coach. I had never even heard of a life coach but I enrolled in a school and it became a real passion… I am committed to empowering people.”

Good for him!

Candy and Tori could stand to learn a thing or two from Randy!

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Not-so-sweet Candy Spelling is pissed that an interview she gave yesterday about her late husband, TV producer Aaron, and estranged daughter, Tori Spelling, prompted this headline around the internet: Candy Spelling: Tori's Actions Killed My Husband Aaron Spelling.

Uhmm, you said it! Why be pissed?

To clarify, rotten Candy now says:

"I didn't intend to create headlines. I was asked a question about my daughter not speaking with my family, and I answered truthfully. My husband was very ill, and he had stopped eating and taking liquids. He called Tori on a daily basis, and never stopped asking if Tori had returned his call. We had to say no every day."

Guess Candy's done trying to "make nice" with Tori!

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In a radio interview this morning with the Kellogg Crew on 94.7 WMAS in Springfield, MA, Candy Spelling delivered some pretty harsh words for estranged daughter Tori.

According to Candy, after Tori inexplicably dropped the rest of her family, the heartache basically "killed" her father Aaron after all he'd done for her.

Have a listen below. And yes, she really does use the word "killed!"

Them's fighting words!

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Candy Spelling is reportedly worth hundreds of millions of dollars, and she's the stingiest bitch around!

The heiress to her deceased husband's fortune has just been sued by a former employee for wrongful termination.

Turns out one of Candy's maids was being cheated out of her salary each day.

According to the lawsuit filed yesterday in Los Angeles County Superior Court, the former maid says she was forced by Spelling to clock out of work each day for two 10 minute breaks. But the maid wasn't getting paid for her breaks.

By law, aren't full time employees allowed/required to take a 10 minute break after working four hours? And that's a paid break too!

But not according to Candy's people, who claim they were required to give the maid breaks, though not required to pay for those breaks.

As for the maid, she obviously got fired and is now seeking unspecified damages. That's code word for a shit-load of money.

Time to pay up Candy!

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Candy Spelling, if you really want to mend things with daughter Tori, quit blabbing to the media!

It certainly hasn't gotten Michael Lohan anywhere!

When In Touch Weekly asked Candy how she felt about Tori's sudden dramatic weight loss, she responded that she will always be there for her daughter.

She added, "If she isn't going to step up, I am going to step up. I want my grandchildren in my life, and I want my daughter in my life."

Well, a tabloid is not the way to do it!

[Tori image via WENN, Candy image via WENN/Fayes Vision.]

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This will make your family drama look tame!

Candy Spelling took to her website to write estranged daughter Tori a note.

It reads:

Maybe if Candy gave Tori a couple million all will be forgiven?

You can buy your love in the Spelling household!

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