10/27/2011 9:30 AM ET |
Filed under: Advice
Sometimes people want a little feedback on the lovin' they're givin', so is it too much to ask for a bit of talk while gettin' busy??
A Fitperezcious Reader is wondering the same thing… and we've got Dr. Karen Stewart for the advice!
Here's the question:
Im trying to get my boyfriend to speak to me in the bedroom but I am having no success. I am saying words like “Baby”, “Oh Yes” and he wont say a word. What can I do to solve this?
And here's Dr. Karen's advice:
Talking dirty in the bedroom can be very intimidating for certain people. After all, if you think of some of the things that you may have said and/or heard it can be pretty embarrassing if the other person is not into it! First question; does he like hearing you talk dirty in the bedroom? This question is pretty important because if he is not comfortable hearing it he is really not going to be comfortable saying it!
I like your idea of modeling what you would like him to say, but I would take it a step further. You could describe to him when you like something he is doing, ask him to touch you or do a certain thing to you, or compliment something he is trying. It may take him some time to feel comfortable talking like this in the bedroom but hopefully you can help him along so you both can have a new experience in the bedroom!
Hope this helps!
Thanks, Dr. Karen!
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