A FitPerez reader named Paul would like to live out a certain sexual fantasy with his wife, but isn't sure how to approach her with the idea. In fear that she'll be turned off, he wrote relationship expert Dr. Karen Stewart for advice, asking:
I have a serious foot fantasy. I would like my wife to help me enjoy this but I don’t really know how to ask her and I don’t want her to think it is strange. Is there anything you think I could do to encourage her – suggestion box in the bedroom? :)
According to Dr. Karen:
Introducing anything new into the bedroom can be challenging, so good communication is a must. Do you have an idea what you would like her to do? To wear? Try telling her how sexy she would look in the item and see what her interest level is. It may also be helpful to ask her what her fantasies are so she feels this is a mutual way to change things up in the bedroom.
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