It's time for everyone to step their sex game up! LOLz
While we already knew that women are notorious for faking orgasms, we never doubted that men fake 'em too, but now we know exactly why they do it!
In the new book, Why Men Fake It: The Totally Unexpected Truth About Men And Sex by Abraham Morgentaler, the clinical professor of urology reveals that "once a man is in a relationship, he seems to care more about his partner than himself."
According to a study, both men and women feel pressured when it comes time to climax, the report states:
“The emphasis on men’s ability to give their partners 'earth-shaking orgasms' sometimes leads both women and men to pretend orgasm to meet these expectations.”
And not only that, but men also fake orgasms because they want their partner to feel like they did a good job.
"A guy’s sense of his masculinity, especially in the sexual realm, is not about what he experienced himself; he gets his sense of masculinity through the eyes of his partner. The idea that a man might be rejected because he can’t be an adequate provider sexually turns everything upside down. It wasn’t that long ago, the ’50s or so, that we saw this term about women doing their 'wifely duty.' It was assumed that women didn’t enjoy sex and that part of the marriage relationship was that the woman had to submit to it for the benefit of the relationship."
However, these studies don't necessarily apply to all men, but we don't think that lying makes for a good sexual relationship!!
What do U think?? Have U ever faked an orgasm???
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