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Dad Writes The Most Perfect Letter To Daughter With Words Of Wisdom: "Forget Makeup, Find Beauty On The Inside" — Read It All HERE!

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dad writes beautiful letter to daughter telling her to forget makeup because beauty is on the inside

Aww!

This is SO sweet!

Clinical psychologist Kelly Flanagan's daughter Caitlin is only four-years-old.

Still, Kelly isn't waiting until she's older to impart pearls of wisdom onto her daughter.

The amazing poppa wrote an inspiring letter to his baby girl from a makeup aisle in a store telling her that she doesn't need to use makeup products to look beautiful because beauty comes from the inside!

He also attached a picture of beauty mags, which you can see (below).

His post has touched a lot of people, and it isn't hard to see why when you read some of what he wrote. It will seriously touch your heart.

Check out the entire letter and have your own heart touched… AFTER THE JUMP!!!

"Dear Little One,

As I write this, I’m sitting in the makeup aisle of our local Target store. A friend recently texted me from a different makeup aisle and told me it felt like one of the most oppressive places in the world. I wanted to find out what he meant. And now that I’m sitting here, I’m beginning to agree with him. Words have power, and the words on display in this aisle have a deep power. Words and phrases like:

Affordably gorgeous,

Infallible,

Flawless finish,

Brilliant strength,

Liquid power,

Go nude,

Age defying,

Instant age rewind,

Choose your dream,

Nearly naked, and

Natural beauty.

When you have a daughter you start to realize she’s just as strong as everyone else in the house—a force to be reckoned with, a soul on fire with the same life and gifts and passions as any man. But sitting in this store aisle, you also begin to realize most people won’t see her that way. They’ll see her as a pretty face and a body to enjoy. And they’ll tell her she has to look a certain way to have any worth or influence.

But words do have power and maybe, just maybe, the words of a father can begin to compete with the words of the world. Maybe a father’s words can deliver his daughter through this gauntlet of institutionalized shame and into a deep, unshakeable sense of her own worthiness and beauty.

A father’s words aren’t different words, but they are words with a radically different meaning:

Brilliant strength. May your strength be not in your fingernails but in your heart. May you discern in your center who you are, and then may you fearfully but tenaciously live it out in the world.

Choose your dream. But not from a department store shelf. Find the still-quiet place within you. A real dream has been planted there. Discover what you want to do in the world. And when you have chosen, may you faithfully pursue it, with integrity and with hope.

Naked. The world wants you to take your clothes off. Please keep them on. But take your gloves off. Pull no punches. Say what is in your heart. Be vulnerable. Embrace risk. Love a world that barely knows what it means to love itself. Do so nakedly. Openly. With abandon.

Infallible. May you be constantly, infallibly aware that infallibility doesn’t exist. It’s an illusion created by people interested in your wallet. If you choose to seek perfection, may it be in an infallible grace—for yourself, and for everyone around you.

Age defying. Your skin will wrinkle and your youth will fade, but your soul is ageless. It will always know how to play and how to enjoy and how to revel in this one-chance life. May you always defiantly resist the aging of your spirit.

Flawless finish. Your finish has nothing to do with how your face looks today and everything to do with how your life looks on your last day. May your years be a preparation for that day. May you be aged by grace, may you grow in wisdom, and may your love become big enough to embrace all people. May your flawless finish be a peaceful embrace of the end and the unknown that follows, and may it thus be a gift to everyone who cherishes you.

Little One, you love everything pink and frilly and I will surely understand if someday makeup is important to you. But I pray three words will remain more important to you—the last three words you say every night, when I ask the question: “Where are you the most beautiful?” Three words so bright no concealer can cover them.

Where are you the most beautiful?

On the inside.

From my heart to yours,

Daddy"

Wow.

[Image via Kelly Flanagan's Facebook.]

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4 comments to “Dad Writes The Most Perfect Letter To Daughter With Words Of Wisdom: "Forget Makeup, Find Beauty On The Inside" — Read It All HERE!”

  1. Danielle says – reply to this


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    You go dad!!! We need more of u in the world today!!



  2. 2

    Aw, nice story Perez, thanks.
    His daughter is very pretty also.

  3. Katie says – reply to this


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    He is my brother in law and my little niece :)

  4. Mark says – reply to this


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    Re: Katie – This man is a good father, those words are words of wisdom and they are going to help his girl more than we think. This world is too often shallow, meaningless, and we all are a bit for being on that website, that's why I'm very happy to see a post showing great values here. Tell you brother in law that for me ;)