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You're Ruining Your Relationship By Orgasming During Sex

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If you're climaxing during sexual intercourse, you may be ruining your relationship.

There's a new fad in couples therapy in which participants are abstaining from orgasm in order to strengthen their connection. It's called karezza — a term coined in 1896 and derived from the Italian word for caress — which is sex with lots of affection and no orgasm end-goal.

The reason this practice is recommended is because couples are "finding the emotional intimacy far outweighs any of the thrill of the chase and the mating mind."

Counselor Deb Feintech says she recommends karezza to couples young and old, explaining:

"I offer this to them as something to try for a month or so. They wake up every single morning and they are not even thinking about genital stimulation. They are snuggling, holding and breathing with eye contact and flow. It's very conscious — from the genitals to the heart."

Even though some swear by it, there are PLENTY of skeptics. 56-year-old Darryl Keil has been practicing karezza with his wife for 8 years and calls the way they used to have sex a "lick, pump, squirt, snore." He has a hard time convincing others of that though and shared:

"It's just hard to get men to want to skip orgasms. One guy said to me, 'you want me to climb 10,000 feet up Mt. Everest and not get to the top?'"

We can understand the hesitation, but Keil swears, "The pleasure goes up another level … You follow the sensation in your body, not the stimulation."

Marnia L. Robinson, author of Cupid's Poisoned Arrow, argues that the power of karezza lies in neuroscience. Couples are all about each other until the honeymoon neurochemistry fades away, but bonding behaviors (touching, kissing, hugging, listening) outside of orgasm-driven sex are what really glue a relationship together.

Watch Robinson explain the truth about orgasms (above) and find out what really makes a relationship last!

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Octo-Mom Rides The Sybian On The Howard Stern Show

Giddy up!

Octo-Mom is officially a self pleasure guru, but there's only one man in show biz who can tickle her fancy.

The adult movie star visited Howard Stern's radio show yesterday, and had one of the most disturbing rides on the sybian we've ever seen or ever wanted to see.

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Women Have Orgasms At The Gym!

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Gym Orgasm

So apparently, women must be gettin' it on at gyms!

Wait, no? That's not right?

You mean they're having orgasms at the gym without any kind of sexual stimulation??

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Should We Call Off The Search For The G-Spot? Science Is Now Saying It Doesn't Exist!

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G Spot Doesn't Exist

Think of the amount of time wasted in search of the mythical g-spot!! Was it all in vein, or was it worth every minute??

Science is now saying that the g-spot doesn't exist!

So what about all those women who swear that they have one?? Can they argue with 60 years of research??

Well, the researchers say they aren't a thousand percent sure (yep, they said a thousand), but that someday maybe someone with new technology could find something they missed. Wouldn't that actually mean you're only like, 99.9% sure there isn't one? Just sayin'.

While this seems odd as most women do believe there is one, and mention of it dates waaaaaaaaaay back, the news is somewhat good: those women who think that there is something wrong with them because they can't achieve vaginal orgasm shouldn't worry, because this supports that there isn't anything wrong with them at all.

Another theory is that the g-spot is more of a g-region. It isn't like a special gland or anything that can just be pointed to and labeled.

Either way, if it's taken this long to find the g-spot (LOLz), we're willing to bet that there isn't one too. Nothing changes because we haven't found it, and there's no imperative reason as to why we would need to yet!

Super interesting, none-the-less!

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For Women, Sex Gets Better With Age!

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Older Women Great Sex

For women, sex gets better with age, like a fine and dirrrrrrrty bottle of wine! Ha!

According to a study on sexual activity and satisfaction of older women, sexual satisfaction increases with age, and arousal and orgasm are frequent! This comes paired with, however, a lower sexual desire.

"A more positive approach to female sexual health focusing on sexual satisfaction maybe more beneficial to women than a focus limited to sexual activity or dysfunction."

Get it done, ladies!! It's YOUR time! LOLz! Get yours!

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