Rory Feek Says Daughter Indiana ‘Doesn’t Quite Understand’ Her Mother Joey Feek’s Death

Joey and Rory Feek

Easter was Joey Feek‘s favorite holiday.

In honor of the special day, her widower Rory Feek took a moment to give an update on the family since the passing of his beloved bride after a long battle with terminal cancer.

As you know, the music duo Joey + Rory share 2-year-old daughter Indiana.

The country singer began:

“I can’t help but think of my bride today. To remember all the Easter’s we’ve spent together over the years and what this morning would be like if she were still here with us. What it would mean to her to share Easter this year with our two-year-old. It would be so, so special.”

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Feek continued by admitting that their little one hasn’t been too affected by the passing — yet, anyway:

“Indy has not asked for her mama. Not one single time since Joey’s been gone. It’s almost as if she hasn’t noticed that she’s not here. And that is so sad├óΓé¼┬ª and oh, so wonderful ├óΓé¼ΓÇ£ all at the same time.”

He then remembered Joey’s decision to pull away from Indy once she knew she wouldn’t survive the cancer, which she felt would ultimately be better in the long run:

“When we first got to Indiana in late October, Joey was Indy’s whole world. Everyone else was├óΓé¼┬ª well, just everyone else. Including me. She loved her mama so much and all she wanted was to be with her, beside her or in-sight of her. But in early November, when Joey started to realize that there was a good chance that she might not beat her battle with cancer, she made a decision├óΓé¼┬ª’he must become greater and I must become less.’

And she started going against everything in her being that told her ‘time was short’ so hold her baby even tighter├óΓé¼┬ª and longer├óΓé¼┬ª and more├óΓé¼┬ª and instead ├óΓé¼ΓÇ£ she handed the baby to me, and sat alone in a bed and watched and listened as my relationship with Indy grew├óΓé¼┬ªand hers lessened.

I still remember the day a few weeks later when I was sitting on the couch near Joey’s bed and Indy was playing on the floor at my feet and Joey looked over at me and said, she needs you now├óΓé¼┬ª’ I looked at Joey and saw the look on her face and knew what she meant, and I wanted to cry. But she just smiled and said, ‘├óΓé¼┬ªit’s best this way honey.'”


The Tennessee resident admired his late wife’s strength:

“Who does that? Who has that kind of strength and character? Not me, that’s for sure. I would’ve taken the low, easy road├óΓé¼┬ª the one that served me more. I would’ve tried to make the ties with our baby stronger and her love for me deeper so that she wouldn’t forget me├óΓé¼┬ª and in the end, probably left our baby wrecked with grief over the loss of the one person she loved and needed most. But not Joey. She let Indy fall more in love with me├óΓé¼┬ªand less in love with her. She carried the pain on her own shoulders, to try to keep it off of mine. And even more so, off of Indy’s.”

And now the bond he has with his baby girl is unbreakable:

“Don’t get me wrong, there were still lots of times in those last few months that I put Indy in her mama’s lap and they spent time together, loving and enjoying each other. But it was never the same. Indiana loved her mama├óΓé¼┬ª but she wanted me. She needed me.

Thank you Joey.”

What a touching story.

Rory concluded by saying he will make every effort to help his daughter remember her talented momma:

“No, Indy doesn’t quite understand what has happened. Why her papa is sad. Why friends hug us so tightly, and why tears fall from strangers’ eyes when they say hello to us. But she will. She may not realize right now how incredible her mama is, but she will. I have made a career out of documenting our lives, and her mother├óΓé¼┬ª with songs and video and pictures and they are everywhere. I will play them for her. And tucked away in her little heart will be all of the beautiful memories of these first two years that she has shared with her mama and when the time is right, she will find them and they will make her smile. Yes she will remember. I believe that.”

We believe it too!

Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with the Feek’s.

[Image via Instagram.]

Mar 28, 2016 1:38pm PDT

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