On Wednesday, R.R. took to Instagram to seemingly defend Tay’s decision to start dating Tom just a mere two weeks after she broke up with Calvin Harris. It’s clear Rose believes her friend deserves to date whoever she wants no matter the circumstance!
In the epic IG message (seriously, this thing is LONG), the beauty explains the danger of investing too much into celebrity ships while also vaguely alluding to Swift’s situation with Hiddleston. The main point of the 30-year-old’s message is that being able to move on after a breakup is “beautiful” and should be celebrated opposed to condemnation.
To be fair, Ruby could also be talking about her own love life — the actress did just move on from her fianc├â┬⌐e Phoebe Dahl seven months after their breakup. The Orange Is the New Black star is currently smitten with her new girlfriend Harley Gusman and the two have been posting pics of each other nonstop.
No matter who the post is intended for, it’s definitely a must read! Check out the wise words (below)!
“I feel like this is the mentality fans have on celebrity relationships.. I get it that they invest in couples and root for them and it’s sweet, but that relationship is still only between two people. If the relationship ends why do people assume something happened or someone is to blame? Why do they think they know anything about the relationship to be able to make a better call than those in it? Love is a beautiful thing. Some love one person their whole life, others love many, some never find love, and sadly some get so hurt so many times they get broken and stop looking. So if a woman moves on from a relationship 8 months (or 2 weeks ) after a breakup isn’t that beautiful? That someone can still continue to open their hearts to people despite times in their lives I’m sure it’s been broken.. It’s not an insult to every ex they have ever had…new love never erases old love. It’s a separate thing, a new entity. You can’t change the people you loved just be glad you loved at all they are all lessons and memories and make up our life story. I personally respect all of the people who never get jaded, who always love with their whole hearts. Over and over and I think it’s twisted that we shame women for opening their hearts or label it as a weakness when in reality it’s one of the scariest things to do. Date who you want, love who you want, love is the most valuable thing in the world and nothing comes remotely close to its significance during our time on this planet. So next time you want to tell me who I should be with or who anyone should be with… Maybe just use that energy to find your love. Because trust me.. We are adults and we know how to follow our hearts.”
Preach girl, preach!
Even though it never feels good to leave someone behind, if it’s done with respect and kindness that’s all that matters.
So, do YOU agree with Rose?
[Image via Instagram.]