Kristin Cavallari's Real Issue With Jay Cutler Was Over Him Being 'Really Rude & Dismissive'??

We’re hearing more about the reasoning behind Kristin Cavallari and Jay Cutler‘s split!

As you’ll recall, recent reports claimed the reality star had an issue with the former NFL player being “lazy,” though additional insiders later claimed that was false. Now, we’re hearing from a DailyMail.com source that the real reason the two have called it quits is because of his “really rude” behavior.

The insider spilled about how it led to their divorce:

“Kristin never had an issue with Jay for being lazy, this wasn’t the problem at all. Those stories are all BS. Kristin’s issue was how he behaved with her, their family, friends and fans. That was the problem that caused their marriage to shut down. He would be really rude and dismissive of anyone who would approach her.”

Yikes!!

A second confidant added:

“God help the fans who wanted a selfie or to say hi in a restaurant. He’d quickly shoo them away or roll his eyes to their face as they’d ask for a photograph.”

Ouch! So, he didn’t want to be recognized by football OR reality TV fans? No wonder the Laguna Beach alum felt annoyed:

“Kristin is smart and knows how important her fans are. She values their support and is beyond grateful for them. Jay simply had no time or tolerance for them and this would embarrass her.”

The source went on to note how his behavior back on the field turned out to be the same at home, AKA not good!

“It was how he acted throughout their entire marriage and that’s what caused it to end. Once a jerk, always a jerk.”

For two people who share much of their life online and on TV, we can totally see how this would be a problem!! It wasn’t just his purported “jerk” nature however, according to a third source:

“As the years went on, Cutler stopped having any time for Kristin. He pushed her away, made her feel isolated. Even when they were in the same house, she felt alone with their children. He’d always be in a bad mood and closed off. There was ice running through his veins and he’d couldn’t have been colder or more distant.”

The insider also spoke further about his behavior on set, which we’ve previously heard was less than professional:

“His behavior when they filmed her reality show was at an all-time low. If he wasn’t happy with how something had come across, he would take his microphone off and storm off. This horrified Kristin and he was lucky that she was an executive producer as it meant that those scenes and his horrible behavior never made it on television.”

We’re hearing a lot about Kristin’s side, but not much from Cutler’s team. Wonder how he’d react to all this “bad mood” talk…

What do U have to say about all this, Perezcious readers?? Let us know (below) in the comments!!

[Image via Kristin Cavallari/Instagram.]