Is this what’s really going on with Justin and Hailey Bieber? They’re falling apart, but she can’t leave???
You probably know by now all about the rumors surrounding the Biebers. For months, it has been circulating that they’re heading toward a divorce — despite them sharing several lovey-dovey posts on social media or reports claiming he is “happier” than ever before! No amount of damage control is stopping the speculation! Quite frankly, things really do not seem as solid as Hailey and Justin would like us to believe!
We’ve heard some of her friends have seen how bad their relationship has gotten and are urging the Rhode founder to “leave” her “loose cannon” hubby. Justin is reportedly an “unpleasant person to be around” and “sometimes shuts her down and refuses to talk to her for days,” even though Hailey is trying to help him. Yikes! No wonder why the pals want her to get out.
However, a new source is now saying that won’t happen — Hailey can’t dump him! And Justin won’t pull the trigger, either! And it’s all because of their faith.
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On Thursday, DeuxMoi revealed on her Deux U podcast that she received an email from an anonymous “longtime follower and listener” following a previous episode where she talked about how religion plays a huge role in the Biebers’ relationship. The person was once a member and heavily involved in Churchome, the same church Hailey and Justin are a part of. They also have been around the singer several times, so they have an inside scoop on what has been going on with the couple lately.
From what it sounds like, Hailey and Justin are definitely not in a good place! The performer, in particular, is allegedly struggling a lot! Despite all that, they will not break up with each other due to the beliefs in their church when it comes to divorce. The insider explained in the email:
“Churchome and many other religions teach married couples that God only accepts divorce under two circumstances, one being abuse and the other being infidelity.”
As far as we know, neither of those things are happening in the Bieber household! Thank goodness! But that’s why, per this source, divorce is off the table for them!
If it isn’t abuse or cheating, though, what is Justin doing that’s so wrong? According to the source, the Yummy artist “checked out”, even refusing to do any more counseling these days:
“He is not a bad guy, but needs professional help and not just church counseling. Sometimes members of the church rely only on pastoral counseling instead of advocating for real professional help. Sadly, from what I am hearing, he’s not even getting church counseling anymore. He has completely checked out.”
What does he need help with? The insider said he’s been doing something that goes against the church:
“I also find it ironic, although not the least bit surprising, coming from religious folks that he preaches religion on his Instagram, but has no problem doing other things that go against the church.”
Whoa! What!
The insider did list what those “other things” are in the email. However, Deux refused to say them because she knows fans will go off. Hmm. It’s not about abuse or infidelity. So what could it be? Drugs? We don’t really think it’s the latter. But in January, he posted a picture of himself hitting a bong, something the source mentions. And that she doesn’t censor!
The drug use is likely an issue though. Last we heard from JB, he quit!
In his documentary Justin Bieber: Seasons five years ago, the Grammy winner revealed his struggles with addiction got so bad at one point that he was “popping pills and smoking a blunt” the second he woke up in the morning. His team had to check on him at night to make sure he had a pulse! That’s how grave it got! And eventually, it is why he stopped doing drugs! Now he’s back to smoking weed? So what’s the deal, is he just “California sober”? You know, where you are pretty much sober, but you smoke weed. Or is this indicative of something more serious going on?
We don’t know. Again, Deux wouldn’t amplify the claims from the email. But the source did point out they’ve noticed a big change in Justin:
“I was around Justin the first years of his marriage. He publicly uplifted his wife and talked about the joys of marriage and how it gave him a sense of family and accomplishments and stability. Although he struggled every day, he did truly want that for himself. I personally heard him praise his wife on a number of occasions back then.”
Now, though? The insider claimed Hailey and Justin “have not been to church in months,” adding:
“I always used to see him at mutual gatherings and he has been MIA. He has not been involved in a minute prayer groups or church activities or anything related to his previous best friend, longtime pastor mentor, Judah Smith.
FYI, Judah Smith is the leader of Churchome. Justin grew close to him after he and Hailey cut ties with Carl Lentz, the former head of the Los Angeles chapter of Hillsong following the reveal of his months-long affair. There also had been a bunch of misconduct and assault allegations against leaders there.
While Judah may be a “great” person, the insider feels he “enables Justin,” explaining:
“Judah is a great husband and father and a great guy, but he should never be involved in counseling Justin, either individually or for his marriage. He is extremely soft and enables Justin. I don’t know what other pastors bring their kids around while Justin is smoking a bong and posting pictures with it. Not really a good look.”
Yikes…
Ultimately, the source said they were told “Justin doesn’t want to officially file for divorce” – but also “ doesn’t want anything to do with his wife or family.” Oh no. It seems like he’s pushing those who care about him away and bringing in people who aren’t really there for him:
“I’ve been around Justin. I prayed with him. It’s sad that he was doing so well years ago, and either by his own choosing or mental health issues, he’s not making the best decisions or surrounding himself with people that have his best interests at heart. He’s going to push and alienate his wife and family away.”
Innerestingly, they noted that JB has been surrounding himself with people “using him for money.” The source concluded:
“Not all church people are good. Believe me, I’ve seen it all, but he did have a close-knit community and support system at church. It’s a shame to not see him around anymore. It’s a shame that he has pushed the good people in his life away and cuts them off when they try to advocate for him to get professional help. I could say a lot more, but the religious talk triggered me, because for Justin, like many religious folks, it’s completely hypocritical. They justify their actions by saying God forgives them, even though the people that they’re hurting on a daily basis don’t get the same respect or consideration.”
Obviously, take all this with a grain of salt. Neither Justin nor Hailey have spoken out about the marital troubles they may or may not have. But if what the source says is true, alarm bells are going off louder now more than ever!
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