Kristin Cavallari thinks there was a more spiritual answer to her life — and breakup — with Jay Cutler.
As you know, the exes had a messy breakup to say the least, but at the end of the day Kristin believes there’s a reason for everything. She spoke on her Let’s Be Honest podcast Tuesday where she opened up about her “spiritual side” and why she thinks she and Jay were supposed to happen.
The Very Cavallari star was asked by a fan about navigating a tough breakup, when she related it to her own experiences:
“You ended it for a reason. Should you move on? Probably. However, this is where my spiritual side comes in. If you do feel this crazy pull to this person — which, yes, I’m sure psychologists would call it a toxic bond, okay — but also from the spiritual sense, maybe it’s because there’s a reason why you guys are supposed to be together and maybe there are more lessons that you have to learn.”
Inneresting!
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She continued:
“Listen, that’s where my logical mind and my spiritual mind sometimes battle, because it’s like, should I sit here and tell you probably you should walk away? Yes. But I also know I was supposed to marry my ex-husband, and I was supposed to have three kids with him. That was my journey.”
Kristin and Jay, who finalized their divorce in 2022, share their little ones Saylor, 10, Jaxon, 11, and Camden, 13. And the Laguna Beach alum believes that’s exactly what the universe planned for her — before she was even BORN! She said:
“I actually think we probably decided that before we came to Earth. I think we had a soul contract and we were supposed to be together, and we broke up when we were engaged and we came back together, and I felt this crazy pull towards him. I couldn’t make sense of it, but I knew I had to be with him even though I logically was like, he’s probably not good for me. But on a deep, spiritual level, it was like I had to be with him.”
Whoa! That’s really deep thinking.
Wrapping up, Kristin admitted she was “probably just complicating it more” with her answer, but she clearly believes that everything happens for a reason:
“So I think sometimes we know maybe someone is not good for us, but I think our soul knows that there’s something we need to learn from this. There’s a lesson. There’s a reason why we’re supposed to be with this person.”
Huh… It’s a unique way to make sense of it all! But whatever it takes to help her get through her messy co-parenting days with Jay and make sense of their tough times, we guess?
Listen to her explanation around the 6:18 timestamp (below):
Thoughts, Perezcious readers? Do U believe the same things as Kristin? Let us know (below)!
[Image via Let’s Be Honest/YouTube/Jay Cutler/Instagram]



