Seems like a straight up lie or a myth or something├óΓé¼┬ª but it’s not!
This must be ahmayzing news for straight guys everywhere! And for girls who just happen to leave this article open on their boyfriend’s computer! LOLz!
So wanna know how to get her to reach the big “O” in just 15 minutes??
First, you need to put in some pre-sex work.
Wait for a day she’s done some spinning or taken a yoga class. Ab exercises stimulate the vagus nerve that runs through her pelvis.
Then, have drinks at your place. A study found that a glass or two of red wine tends to make women more aroused.
Then, follow these EXACT instructions from Men’s Health:
Oh!-minus 15 minutes
Mouth to mouth
Invest at least three minutes of your total 15 in kissing. Studies by Lafayette College in the US found that kissing reduces levels of the stress hormone cortisol, quickening the time it takes to turn you both on. As you pay lip service, tilt your head to the right – scientists in Germany found this makes you seem more caring, flooding her system with the ‘connection’ chemical oxytocin, building trust and encouraging her to come quickly.
Don’t just kiss her mouth, though. William Cane, author of The Art of Kissing (St Martin’s Griffin), surveyed 50,000 women and 96% picked a peck on the neck as the perfect warm up. But don’t overdo it, Cane says. “Slide off the lips to her neck occasionally so that her neck doesn’t become desensitised.”
Now you need to get co-ordinated. Each time you kiss her neck, remove another item of her clothes. Not only is this an important time-saver in your 15-minute window, but it lets you combat any body-confidence issues. A study by the University of Cincinnati revealed that if your girl feels good when she’s naked, she’ll come sooner. “Compliment your partner on each part of her body as you undress it,” says psychotherapist Christine Webber. “Your approval will dramatically reduce her selfconsciousness.” And in just 180 seconds, you’ll have an animal on your hands.
Oh!-minus 12 minutes
Tease maid
She’s almost naked now but keep her underwear on for another minute or so. “Stroke and caress her through the fabric rather than going for gold,” says sex therapist Paula Hall. “Focus on building anticipation rather than going straight for direct stimulation.” Feeling that time is short prevents a woman from reaching orgasm, adds Webber. Act like you’ve got forever, but then peel off her underwear and use Durex’s new strawberry-scented Intimate Lube (durex.com). This will get her excited, and make her more sensitive. Research at the US Association for Chemical Reception Sciences found the scent of strawberries alerts the senses. Move your fingers in slow, circular motions just inside her vagina. “Many women need attention focused on the outer third of the vaginal canal, where the G-spot, the clitoris, and the PS-spot (opposite the G-spot) can be reached,” says Emma Taylor of the sex blog emandlo.com. Women love a man who’s good with his hands…
Oh!-minus 10 minutes
Flex your other love muscle
According to sexologists at the Masters & Johnson Institute, cunnilingus is the most reliable route to orgasm for 80% of women. Lou Paget, author of The Big O (Piatkus), recommends the Kivin Method as the fastest way of getting there. “With one hand, pull up her clitoral hood,” he says. “Then lick from side to side across its base, just above her clitoris.” Place one finger of the other hand on her perineum (the area directly below the opening of her vagina). When you can feel her pre-orgasmic contractions, you’ll know you’re in the right place.
Oh!-minus 7 minutes
Entrance exam
Orgasms are not all about foreplay. A recent study in the Journal of Sexual Medicine found that the consistency of orgasms is more about the length of intercourse than the length of foreplay. And another study in the same journal clocked her average climax seven minutes after penetration. That makes now the ideal time to climb politely aboard and start the final leg of her leg trembler.
But what position? “Avoid deep, thrusting, and instead try the Coital Alignment Technique,” says Taylor. To do it, start in the classic missionary then pull back so the base of your penis rests on her clitoris. Brace your feet against the foot of the bed and rock backwards and forwards rather than thrusting. Your penis gently massages her clitoris, which is great for her but also gives you slow, pulsating sensations that you control.
An alternative technique is sensory overload. “Simultaneous G-spot and clitoral stimulation is far and away the fastest route to orgasm,” says Hall. Having her from behind is the best position for this because while you work the former, you can call up sex-toy reinforcements to take care of the latter. “My recommendation would be one from the discreet but powerful Philips Sensual range.”
Oh!-minus 1 minute
Keep up the good work
By now, your girl should be clawing at the sheets, but don├óΓé¼Γäót be mistaken in thinking you need one final trick to clinch the result. ├óΓé¼┼ôWomen hate too much chopping and changing of techniques,├óΓé¼┬¥ says Dr Joni Frater, co-author of Love Her Right (Booksurge). ├óΓé¼┼ôIt distracts us, and takes our arousal back to the starting blocks.├óΓé¼┬¥ You don├óΓé¼Γäót really want to start over just before you reach the finish, do you? ├óΓé¼┼ôWhen you start doing something that causes a positive response, keep doing it, at exactly the same speed and pressure.├óΓé¼┬¥ Save your new technique for next time. Since you├óΓé¼Γäóve just orchestrated a 15-minute orgasm with shuttle-launch precision, that├óΓé¼Γäós something she├óΓé¼Γäóll be demanding very soon. So grab a breather and prepare for take-off… again!
That might seem like a lot but believe us, it’d be worth it.
Not only will you gain legendary lover status, but you’ll be having sex thrown at you all the time now!
Put in a little extra work, for a whole lot more sex, and one satisfied lady friend!
[Image via Roger Eldemire/WENN.]
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