Listen up, fellas! You won’t win the heart of Jennifer Lopez this way!
The 56-year-old actress appeared on Watch What Happens Live on Monday night, where host Andy Cohen asked her whether she ever checks her Instagram messages for any potential suitors sliding in to shoot their shot! And without hesitation, she dropped a hard “no!” Oh, damn! It’s clearly a turn off for J.Lo! And she made that crystal clear with the uninterested look on her face, too!
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But what if an “amazing” (and let’s be real, hot AF) Spanish soccer player slid into her DMs? You know, perhaps during the upcoming World Cup! Andy questioned if she would change her tune then! But no! Jennifer fired back:
“I think they would be able to find me, no? If you really wanted to find me, you could find me.”
That’s right, girl! If he wanted to, he would!
And reaching out to her over the ‘gram is NOT the way to find her! Love may not cost a thing, but guys will need to do a lot more to impress the one and only Jennifer Lopez! LOLz! She concluded:
“You’re not going to find me through Instagram or sliding into my DMs. You have to make more of an effort than that.”
Period! Take notes, ladies and gents! Watch Jennifer shut it down (below):
How will Jennifer Lopez find her next man? #WWHL pic.twitter.com/HcfJBpT7hV
— Watch What Happens Live! (@BravoWWHL) June 9, 2026
Although Jennifer is not finding her next man over DMs like some people following her divorce from Ben Affleck, she’s also not giving up on love yet! The Kiss of a Spider Woman star told Andy elsewhere on WWHL that she does “love” a man with a “beard” — so we should all expect the guy to come into her life in the future to have one! But you know who already has a bit of scruff? Her rumored lover in real life and on-screen love interest, Brett Goldstein! Just sayin’!

Cute!
And despite failing to find her forever partner several times, Jennifer believes her “greatest love” is ahead of her — “100 percent, without a doubt.” Not to bring him up again, but Brett is around! They allegedly already had a short-lived fling while working on Office Romance! However, the chemistry between them is still alive and well! Why not give it a go again if what sources said is true! If we can have a Bennifer 2.0 (or possibly a J.Rod 2.0), why not a Jett 2.0 … or are we feeling B.Lo 2.0? Regardless, you never know what could happen! He has our and Jen’s friends’ vote, especially over her alleged cheating ex-fiancé Alex Rodriguez if she is giving anyone a second chance! Ha! Watch Jennifer talk about love (below):
Thoughts, Perezcious readers? Tell us in the comments!
[Image via Watch What Happens Live with Andy Cohen/X ]



