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Country Singer Cried During Sex With Brad Paisley

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So sad - for both of them!

Chely Wright, who just publicly came out as a lesbian, opens up in her new book, Like Me, about struggling to come to terms with her sexuality while dating country singer Brad Paisley.

She writes:

"I have not been ashamed of myself often, but I am ashamed of myself for choosing to be so cruel to another human being. Perhaps this book and my coming out will help him to understand."

Wright explains how although she did love her ex, she "was not in love with him," and would cry "during those moments of physical intimacy." Paisley was apparently so serious about his relationship with her that he had marriage in mind!

This, of course, only made Chely feel worse, and she writes "I was hoping I would fall out of favor with him. No such luck."

What an awful situation for both of them. Unfortunately, in these cases, both parties lose.

We hope Brad can learn to understand what Chely was going through was neither his nor her fault, and he can come to forgive her for the heartbreak!

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71 comments to “Country Singer Cried During Sex With Brad Paisley”

  1. 1

    That's so sad…

  2. 2

    DRAMA Queen, needing attention… anyway you can get it!!

  3. 3

    And then he can come out too. . .

  4. 4

    Well, Brad is married to Kimberly Williams and unless that marriage is on the rocks, he should just get over it…..and so should Chely.

  5. 5

    You Cryed because his dick was bigger than the tounges your'e used to!

  6. 6

    Brad is married to the lovely Kimberly Williams (father of the bride) and they have two kids - think he did alright

  7. 7


  8. 8

    So - let me get this straight. Chely feels ashamed for how she defrauded Brad Paisely?

    But has no shame for dragging John Rich through the media mud because of her response that she was not GAY when asked by Mr. Rich? NOT TRUTHFUL?

  9. 9

    I'm gay and say she should never had let the relationship get so serious when she knew deep down that she was a lesbian. At a younger age, I struggled with my sexuality as well…..but I never got another person involved with my struggle.

  10. 10

    i typically dont feel like sex is good UNLESS a bitch cries :/

  11. Nesa says – reply to this


    Why does she keep bringing up Brad Paisley's name. That's not call for. To bad she can't make it on her own name.

  12. 12

    Re: viper1st

    John Rich is a whole other story. John Rich has a history of saying stupid homophobic remarks. If you can't see the difference then you are a stupid cun*t just like John Rich.

  13. 13

    OMG! I've had sex a couple of times and I think I'd just quit if someone actually cried.

  14. 14

    Me thinks Brad will live. She did Brad a favor.

  15. 15

    ouch, for the rest of his life he'll feel that he turned a girl lesbian, lol

  16. 16

    Seeing as how he's married to Kimberly Williams and has 2 kids with her, my guess is he doesn't give a rat's arse. Who is this woman anyway? For a supposedly "popular" country singer I've never heard of her.

  17. 17

    i'm sure brad paisley could care less!
    he's married and has a kid. i'm sure he'd appreciate it if she'd just shut up about it.

  18. 18

    I'd cry too if Brad Paisley were #@cking me :-)

  19. 19

    Re: Poindexter-X – I agree. I don't understand her logic either. She had a partner for 12 years, and that relationship ended because she wouldn't come out. She then decided that if she couldn't have her partner, she would be with her best friend. She has said it was a terrible thing to do. But it was her only option, and that's sad. I hope her the best.

  20. 20

    This twat needs to keep her fucking trap shut. No one gives a flying fuck if you're gay Chely "my-music's-not-good-enough-to-do-the-job-so-i'll-get-attention-thru-my-sex-life" Wright. Fuck the fuck off already.

  21. 21

    Way to humiliate a guy. She comes out and does this really bitchy off-handed humiliation of two men so far. Can't wait to hear who gets the slam of the velvet glove next.

  22. 22

    oh i think he had a clue…could be the crying

  23. 23

    This is fucking ridiculous. In a relationship, what happens between the two people is THEIR business. So yes, it's her business, but it's HIS business too. He's married now, how DISRESPECTFUL is it for her to talk about their relationship in DETAIL like she is doing? And imagine how embarassed he is now. To read the headline, "Country Singer Cried During Sex With Brad Paisley" ? Fucked up. She's looking for attention, cause after all, she IS coming out with a new album soon! Ugh, makes me sick. She should have said "Yeah I was gay and I should have told him and I was wrong" or "Yeah I should have ended things as soon as I could and I was wrong for not doing so" and let it the hell go!

  24. 24

    This chic is ridiculous. It's one thing to come out…it's another to blab personal shit about all the people she's slept with.

  25. 25

    Check out "John Rich Explains His Chely Wright Gay Comment" blogged earier today on Perez for the real real compassionate story of Chely Wright

  26. 26

    Chely Wright - all narcissistic emotion - all about poor me - no logic or compassion for others

  27. 27

    I'm sure Brad is over her. He is happily married from what they say.

  28. 28

    Hmm, in high school I went to my junior prom with a "friend" who I never had feelings for and never really knew why he just didn't do it for me like my friends who thought he was so "hot." Years later I found out he was gay, and I thought ah ha. Now obviously our relationship never went nearly as far as this one, and I can't imagine if it had. I think both people involved would be getting a bad deal in a situation like this.

  29. skip says – reply to this


    Who does this chick think she is how rude to comment after so years on a man who is now married with children. Like he cares…if this was an effort to make herself more likeable….SHE FAILED…and who cares if she came out…oh please…..

  30. StayC says – reply to this


    trying to get attention much? Chely needs to man up and stop bitching

  31. 31

    She should have noticed that Brad Paisley kept calling her "Chester" during sex in order to keep an erection and she wouldn't feel so bad now.


  32. 32

    It worked out better for Brad this way. He and his wife Kimberly have done just fine. I am beginning to think ole Chely is getting close to 40 and panicked then decided to write her life story and exploit those that were good to her.

  33. 33

    Brad had sex with her ….before marriage?

  34. 34

    What's wrong with just coming out…why drag other people around with your story? We don't need to hear the details of other famous people to understand what you went through.

  35. 35

    if a straight person wrote about what they were going through and wrote this little tidbit, you would probably tell them to keep it private and to stop crying. just because they're coming out gay doesn't mean they deserve better treatment.

    the people magazine came out two days before her album released… PR move much? publicity whore.

  36. 36

    You hope he can come to forgive her? He's been very happily married for like 8 years… I think he's gone ahead and done so.

  37. 37

    you fucking nasty bitch…why would you divulge that???
    oh right…dollars for your poxy book

  38. 38

    I never knew who she was but I hate her already. Obviously she feeds into the lesbian stereotype in hating men. She is more than willing to throw any one of them under the bus. How fucked up to announce that you cried during sex with some blameless guy that only cared about you. She's a real douche.

  39. 39

    crying during sex? ewwww!!!

  40. 40

    Brad is happily married for quite a few years now and has 2 beautiful children. I think he's kind of moved on… Why the drama?

  41. 41

    What about when she was having lesbian luvin' with her girlfriend country crooner Mindy Smith??

  42. 42

    She really needs to shut up. I'm all for being gay and putting it out there but apparently she has to name names and drag unwanted parties into it. Why? Because she's a nobody. I've never even heard of her. I understand her comment about John Rich, but leave this poor guy out of it. Brad Paisley didn't make you have sex with him. He's married with kids, probably happily so. So leave his name out of your mouth. I don't even listen to country music. I simply had to comment b/c this woman is all drama and it's annoying.

  43. 43

    She should be ashamed of herself… for how she treated him… and for writing about it in her book. Don't know her, but sounds like someone needs some media attention to me.

  44. 44

    brad's married with children…i'm sure he's moved on by now. she should move on too…

  45. 45

    I can't believe she would share such intimate details about her relationship with Brad Paisley. If you decide you want the world to know everything about you, fine, but putting other country singers in a bad light isn't going to help anything..

  46. 46

    Isn't it just wonderful how she's using a painful past private situation that involves another person that should be kept private to further herself. People share that they are gay every day and then go on about their lives…they don't write books that talk about how they "wish" the other partner that they were lying to while being with them would just not like them anymore, but her shit was just too damn good for him to tire of in her opinion. Sorry she cried in those horrible moments of intimacy with him. How does she thinks this makes him feel now? She'll never know the truth because if her were to actually say how he feels about it for real he would be persecuted for not supporting her in her tough decision. She makes me sick for usig coming out as a way to make money and get attention. It's as simple as that. If not there would have just been a statement…but no. The statement is immediately followed by a book. That is SOLD. Sold to make money.

  47. 47

    this isn't sad for both of them - it's sad for brad who has NEVER been in tabloids and lives a low key private life with his WIFE and 2 children… this whore has now dragged his name into her fucked up drama. she has no class. and, if she had any talent AT ALL she wouldn't need to write a "tell all" book to sell her music. she has never been a big star - and she never will be. she is on minute 13 of her 15 mins of fame.
    brad, thankfully, will continue to break records and top the charts.

  48. 48

    Re: Poindexter-X – What do you want a fuckin trophy?

  49. 49

    Don't flatter yourself, Chely. Brad certainly moved on .. I would say he's doing just fine.

  50. 50

    How embarrassing for Brad. I listen to country music and I don't even know who she is? TMI chick. I could care less what "team" you play on and why the need to tell everyone? Should'nt it be enough that you know? I'd say he got "over" you pretty well with Kim Williams! GO AWAY!

  51. 51

    No one in Nashville gives a fuck if she's gay! Our city is under water!!!! We are not the backwoods, gay-haters that Chely feels like she is amongst…no one cares!! Poor timing Chica!

  52. 52

    Re: Poindexter-X – your absalutely right. she never should have strung along anyone, especially aince she knew she was gay or during that time, not into him. plus it is so much easier for a woman to come out as lesbian than it is for a man to come out as gay that there is almost no excuse for her behavior. heck, nowadays so many straight woman are saying they would be with a woman simply to ride the lesbian bandwagon and for attention. if a straight man did that he would be crucified.

  53. 53

    What a famewhoring slut!! First of all, nobody knows or cares who she is. Second of all, how dare she divulge such personal secrets? How humiliating for Brad Paisley. Did she ask his permission to include that in her book?

  54. 54

    Re: countryxgirl3 – You said it better than I did. I completely agree with you.

  55. pug says – reply to this


    That woman did a horrible thing to this man, you cant just use someone because you cant sort out your own feelings! she was a grown woman !

  56. 56

    damn. i hope brad isn't embarrassed!!

  57. 57

    For someone ashamed of herself, she sure it adding more to be ashamed of later. Coming out is her business. Speaking of personal moments between her and BardPaisley when he has clearly moved on is sickenening. She said she is ashamed of hurting him, yet digs up this garbage for no good reason to embarass him for her own personal gain…publicity.

    I hope people stop for just a second and analyze what she has done. So many of you are quick to pity her, but regrdless of how hard it has been for her to come out, the fact that she is blabbing the way she is at the expense of others should be noticed. It is tacky and trashy. Any pity we could have otherwise felt for her should be replaced with disgust of her inabil;ity to kow when to shut-up.

  58. 58

    Re: Sexsai – I hope he's not that stupid.

  59. 59

    ok good for her for coming out, but these truly unnecessarily personal details should stay just that - personal. You really feel the need to expose every deep sexual secret and dysfunction to the entire world just to sell a few more books? That's a serious cry for attention. I'm embarrassed for her and anyone who has ever been involved with her!

  60. 60

    That is horrible!! Everyone has their struggles, but to hurt another person like that and then publicly bash them like she is doing……unbelievable. At first I was happy for her, but now I hope she gets what she deserves. You should NEVER play with someones heart like that. Plus, why share details of your intimate relationship? Disgusting!!!!

  61. 61

    Wow what a bitch

  62. 62

    Yes, she struggled alot, but to drag along a innocent man who she knew loved him? Cold. Very cold.

  63. 63

    Dumb slut should shut her mouth about Paisley. In case she didn't notice he moved on and has a wife and two kids so he could not be that broke up over her.

  64. 64

    That doesn't sound like "an awful situation for both of them" so much as "an awful situation for him, the one in the relationship who is being honest about who he is, and sadly is involved with a deceptive liar". If he had the time and interaction with her to get to the marriage stage, then she was pulling his chain for quite a while, and that's really sick.

  65. 65

    She's stupid! The only thing she's doing is bring back old memories for him. He's married and happy, why would you make his wife read something like that? Why would he want to read this? Get over yourself. She's only coming out for attention and obviously, so people buy her book. Oooh… It's so painful… I like girls… (Roll of the eyes)

  66. 66

    i have pretty strong feeling this will not affect him..seeing as how is married and has two adorable kids.

  67. 67


  68. 68

    Who is Chely Wright? A famewhore trying to ride the coat tails of Brad Paisley's success. Go away hoe

  69. 69

    First off, I think a lot of the posters are being too harsh of Cheryl. If you don't want to read the intimate details of her life… then don't buy her book! The point of a memoir is to give the personal, intimate details of ones life. I applaud her honesty and revealing of her feelings– she writes about what it's like to struggle with ones sexuality and how she came to the conclusion she was gay– not an easy conclusion to come to… Brad should not take what she is saying personally. She is not attacking him personally but saying bc she is gay, she could not develop feelings for him… I applaud her brutal honesty and apologizing to him.. how many times have men screwed women over without caring about THEIR feelings- what a double standard to critizise Cheryl. Sometimes you have to experiment sexually to figure out your feelings- i think Cheryl was too hard on herself. She realized her feelings when she did and stopped the relationship from progressing further when she realized she could not go on… though I don't nec think if you experience pain during sex you're gay, which is what she is implying… it could be a hormonal imbalance or physical problem… anyway if anything Cheryl's story reveals the complexities and struggles in charting your path in life and again I applaud her honesty

  70. 70

    Re: Javaqueen
    I don't think anyone is planning on reading the book, but that quote is disgusting and has been made public to people who aren't planning on reading the book. Some things should be kept private, I didn't want to know she cried during sex. What a bitch.

  71. Arnie says – reply to this


    Re: Sephari – Your fake bleached hair, etc., must have affected your peanut brain. By the way, the word "cried" is not spelled "cryed," you moron.